Mother worries about daughter's pot habit Tribune Media Services DEAR AMY: My 24-year-old daughter graduated from college two years ago and moved back in with me last year. realize my daugh- ter is an adult, but we have had some issues about her smoking pot, which I do not allow in my home. My daughter works part time and has her own money. Recently, she has been going upstairs and spending a great deal of time with a 60-year-old female in-law, who lives in the same building as us. One evening she came back from a visit and she was so high that her eyes were barely open and her speech was impaired. I confronted her and she confirmed that they smoke pot together. I think a 60-year-old woman should not be smoking pot with my 24-year-old daughter. This woman is a bad influence on her. Should I confront this in-law and tell her I consider her imma- ture to be smoking pot with a 24-year-old? She knows I have been concerned about my daughter's use and her recent behavior chang- es, including her laziness. I don't care what this other person does, but I do care that she is encouraging my daughter to use drugs that have kept her from pass- ing a urine test for a permanent job. Concerned Parent