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Session 1:
Learning about our own boundaries
and how we manage them
Session 2:
Looking at how we manage
boundaries affects what we do as
Pastoral Carers.
What do boundary
fences do?
Boundary: a definition
"Boundaries define limits,
mark off dividing lines. The
purpose of a boundary is to
make clear separations
between different turf,
different territory. . . .
personal boundaries:
are intangible, unseen
show where you end and
someone else begins
Person Bs
Paddock
Their needs
Their needs
CANT HEAR
The Controller
Aggressively or
controlled by
manipulatively
others;
violates boundaries
have fuzzy
boundaries
cant set
boundaries
give in to others
demands easily
of others
Dont respect others
boundaries
Fail to take
responsibility for self
YES
Cant say
The Non-
Cant hear
The Avoidant
responsive
Do not respond
needs
Session 2
Discussion question
Personal space
Touch;comfort
Phone as opposed to email
Expecting listening
Sexual boundary: reporting issue
Intimacy
Over involvement
Gifts
When and how to visit
Boundaries in Ministry
(2)
When as a [pastoral carer], we encounter an
individual in a vulnerable situation, we have
two options for response:
(a) How can I support and empower you and
lessen your vulnerability? Or
Discuss Marie
Fortunes statement re
the two options we
have when in a
ministry relationship.
Boundaries and
freedom:
opens options
GALATIONS 6: 2, 5 and
boundaries
2 Stoop down and reach out to
those who are oppressed. Share
their burdens, and so complete
Christ's law.
5 Each of you must take
responsibility for doing the creative
best you can with your own life