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POWER OF POSITIVE

ATTITUDE

INTRODUCTIO
N

Watch
Watch your
your definitions
definitions
-- they
they become
become thoughts
thoughts
Watch
Watch your
your thoughts
thoughts
-- they
they become
become words
words
Watch
Watch your
your words
words
-- they
they become
become actions
actions
Watch
Watch your
your actions
actions
--they
they become
become your
your destiny
destiny

POWER OF POSITIVE
ATTITUDE
TODAYS LEARNING OBJECTIVE

Even a Stopped Watch,


is Right Twice a Day!

Personality?
Physical, Mental, Emotional Attitudes, Values.

Attitude
(Thoughts &
Emotions)

Behavior

PERSONALITY

Appearance
ATTITUDE, NOT APTITUDE, DETERMINES
YOUR ALTITUDE

Knowledge & Attitude

Ice Berg

This Phenomena Applicable on Human Being.

BEHAVIOR

ATTITUDE
VALUES STANDARDS JUDGMENTS - ETHICS

KNOWN
TO OTHERS
Knowledge/Skills

UNKNOWN
TO OTHERS

POWER OF POSITIVE
ATTITUDE
CARRY YOUR OWN
WEATHER

IMPORTANCE OF ATTITUDE
WHY RICH
WHY POOR

COUNTRIES
COUNTRIES

ARE
ARE

RICH?
POOR?

Difference is notage of the country.

India & Egypt, more than 2000 years old & poor.
Canada, Australia & New Zealand are 150 years ago
were inexpressive, today developed countries & rich.

This is not because of availibility of natural resources

i.e. Japan limited territory, 80% mountainous,


inadequate for agriculture & cattle raising, but 2nd
world economy.

Race or skin color are also not important:

What
Whatisisthe
thedifference
differencethen
then??

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culture.

On analyzing behavior of people in rich &


developed countries, we find that majority follow the
following principles in their lives:
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Ethics, as a basic principle.


Integrity.
Responsibility.
Respect to laws & rules.
Respect to rights of other citizens
Work loving.
Will of super action.
Punctuality.

In
Inpoor
poorcountries,
countries,
only
onlyminority
minority
follow
followthese
these
Principles
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dailylife
life. .

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TIME TO TAKE DECISION

PAKISTAN IS
PAKISTAN IS
UNDER
UNDER
DEVELOPED
DEVELOPED
COUNTRY
COUNTRY
WE ARE NOT TOO
WE ARE NOT TOO
RICH
RICH
OR NOT TOO POOR,
OR NOT TOO POOR,
WE ARE AT THE
WE ARE AT THE
POSITION
POSITION
TO
TO
DECIDE
DECIDE
WEATHER TO
WEATHER TO
BECOME RICH
BECOME RICH
OR POOR
OR POOR

IF WE
IF WE
CHANGE OUR
CHANGE OUR
ATTITUDE, WE
ATTITUDE, WE
MOVE UPWARDS,
MOVE UPWARDS,
BECOME RICH &
BECOME RICH &
DEVELOPED
DEVELOPED
COUNTRY
COUNTRY

IF WE FAILS
IF WE FAILS
TO CHANGE OUR
TO CHANGE OUR
ATTITUDE
ATTITUDE
WE MOVE
WE MOVE
DOWNWARDS
DOWNWARDS
& GET POORER
& GET POORER

chgi/abcd

Positive Attitude Leads


to

Increase Productivity
Foster Team Work
Solves Problems
Improves Quality
Makes Congenial Atmosphere
Reduces Stress
Become Contributing Member of
Family/Society
&
Above All, Makes a Pleasing Personality

Abraham Lincoln

Negative Attitude
Leads to

Activity
Negative
Vs
Positive Attitude

Lifes Little Question


Are people
people just
just born
born positive
positive
Are
thinkers
thinkers
or is
is itit their
their CHOICE?
CHOICE?
.. .. .. or
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designedby
byyou
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Control Vs. Do not control

The Environment

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Be r Pe
ha op
vio les
r

Negative Work
Environment

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Past
Experiences

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Beware the Bullets!

Negative Work
Environment
- Dog eat dog . . . everyone fighting to get ahead
- No one appreciates your contributions
- Too much work . . . not enough help
- Deadlines are unrealistic
- Longer hours . . . additional work
- Budget Constraints
- Competition is eating us alive
- Poor management / direction
- Job insecurity

Other Peoples
Behavior

Bulldozers

Complainers

Gossips

Whiners Negatives

Patronizers

Sniper
s
Clams

Backstabber
s
Controlle
Walking
Wounded
rs
Exploders

Changing
Environment
The only person who always
likes change is a wet baby

CHANGE . . .
Alters the way we think
Makes life more difficult for a while
Causes Stress
Is an ongoing fact of life

Ouch!

Past
Experiences

Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!

Ouch!
Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Ouch!

Negative
World View

Media
Frenzy

Determinism
Theory

GENETIC: My Grandparents did it to me.


(Inherited traits)

PSYCHIC: My Parents did it to me.


(Upbringing)

ENVIRONMENTAL: My Spouse, my Boss, the


Company, the Economy, etc.. is doing this to
me. (Surroundings)

Choose the Right Luggage

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Bull

Be
Bulletproo
f

The Problem With Dodging


Bullets
Youre going to get hit!

Choice #2

Wear Bulletproof Armor

Bulletproof
Bulletproof Armor
Armor
Comes
Comes from
from
SELF CHANGE

Putting
Putting on
on
the
the Armor
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Attitudes and
Change
People build up attitudes
which fit their needs and
values as they perceive them to be
Cognitive

Affective

What a person
knows about the
situation

How the person


feels about it

COMPONENTS OF
ATTITUDE

Behavioural
How the person
reacts

Attitudes and Change


My supervisor gave
promotion to my coworker who deserved it
less than me.
My supervisor is unfair.

I dislike my supervisor

I am looking for some


other job

Negative
attitude
towards
supervisor

Activity

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Positive

???????
???????

attitude

Attitude

An enduring disposition to
consistently respond in a given
manner

Changes Over Time


Earlier
Generations
Focused on

Famil
y
Natio
n

Recent
Generations
Focused on

Finding Themselves
Personal Happiness

Individual prerequisites for change to


occur
Why should I change?
Thinking &
understanding

Emotional/
Motivational

Heart

Head

Behavioral

Hands

What do I do differently?

Whats in it for me?

COMPANY
VALUES
&
EMPLOYEE
ATTITUDE

Relationship between Company


values and attitude ??
Dictates

Values

Custom
er
focused

Dictates

Results

Attitudes

Behaviors

Performance

Custome
r first
mindset

Answer
phone
after
hours

Customer
satisfactio
n
increases

Step-1 Change Focus, Look for Positive


Attuned to finding faults
Become Good finder
Even in Paradise, fault finders will find faults.
Looking for what is right in person instead of wrong.
If looking for friendship, happiness & positive, you will get.
If looking for fights or indifference, you will get.

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Step-2 Making A Habit of Doing It Know

Procrastination leads to negative attitude


Complete task fulfilling /energizing, & incomplete task drains energy like
leak from tank.
Develop habit of doing it now.
Note: Habit of procrastinating fatigues you more than the effort it takes to do it

Wow! Right now!

Step-3 Develop An Attitude of Gratitude

Count blessings not troubles


Would you accept blindness, accident, illness for even millions of $s
We focused on complaining about things we do not have ???.
Lot to be thankful for. Many of our blessings are hidden treasure, so
count them.
Take time to smell the roses.

Henry,krl,

romi

Step-4 Get Into Continuous Education Program

Intellectual Education vs. Values Education


Former influences head & later influences heart
Moral Education builds fundamental traits of character i.e. honesty,
courage, persistence & responsibility
We don't need academic education; we need values /ethical
education.
Education that not train heart can be dangerous.
Stress = Cortisol
Relaxed = Adaline

Step-5 Build Positive Self-Esteem

Self image & opinion of your self; how you see your self.
Feel about ourselves.
When feel well, our performance goes up.
There is a direct correlation between feeling & behavior

Step-6 Stay Away From Negative Influences

Teenagers learnt from adult behavior & media


Teenagers face pressures
Shows lack of self esteem when you dont have courage to say, No,
thank you to stay away from negative influences.
Smoking, Drug Abuse, Drinking Alcohol.

Step-7 Learn To Like Things That Need To Be Done

Some things requires to be done whether we like it or not.


Mother caring for kids not fun, but painful.
Learn to like the task, impossible becomes possible.
Start doing what is necessary, than what is possible, & suddenly you are
doing the impossible.

Step-8 Start Your Day With A Positive


After good nights sleep your minds relaxed & receptive
Beginning sets the tone of the day
Read/listen something positive in morning at first.
Practice positive thoughts & behavior daily until they become a habit.

Power of positive
attitude

THANKS

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