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Personal
Personal goals must be achieved
first so that we wont be looking
back to this after marriage. Also,
if there is/are personal
differences, this is the time to
settle it/them.
Spiritual
If there is/are spiritual/religious
differences, this is the time to
settle it/them.
Engagement
Psychological
Psychological preparations regarding the new life
must be established to be ready for our future
family life.
Economic
As a man, i would like to be sure that there's more
than enough for my future family. Savings enough
for us to start to live a comfortable life, a house of
our own and a business to run.
Engagement
Physical
Before marriage, i want to maintain or be
clean, fit and healthy not just for me and
wife, but also for our family and the
lifestyle we want to observe. Test must
also be done for us to ensure that there
are no hereditary illnesses that may be
passed to our children,
Wedding: What?
Cecil Andrew Angelo
A romantic and A private wedding Simple Church
intimate affair with with family and close Wedding with lots of
only my closest friends. Of course, as people
friends and relatives, a personal event, I
i dont want having to want this to be very
invite everyone even special for me and
those i dont really my wife, so only the
know that much. I closest relatives and
want everything to friends would be
be personal. I want invited.
to be involved in the
whole process. I dont
want it to be "just for
formality".
Wedding: Where?
Cecil Andrew Angelo
A wedding in Cathedral In a beautiful Christian A Gothic Christian
de La Sagrada Familia, church here in our Church
Barcelona, Spain. country. As a Christian,
of course i want to
have a church wedding
and I would want
everyone invited, as
they are the special
people in our lives, to
be able to attend this
special occasion so
there, a beautiful
Christian church here
in our country.
Wedding: When?
Cecil Andrew Angelo
I would like to be When we, as a couple, When I’m financially
married when I’m can say that we are stable
ready. :) ready for our marriage
Maybe middle to late and our own family.
20’s. :) First, be able to settle
our personal problems,
our relationship-related
issues and problems,
and be financially
stable.
Wedding: How?
Cecil Andrew Angelo
I want to wear a traditional Solemn Unique and romantic
pure white wedding dress Beautiful wedding
with a tail not less than 5 Traditional
feet long. A red and white
motif, which makes me
Romantic
think of red and white petals
from roses, colours
drowning the place with
romance and purity. :)
Christian Values
Understanding
Open for Others
Disciplined
Cohesion
Good Communication
Flexibility
Happy family
Joys
Healthy Living
Happy Family
Good Communication
Bonded Together
Fun Activities
Financially Stable
Pains
• Illness
• Inadequate problem
solving skills
• Favoring or
disfavoring family
members
• Anger
• Chronic crises or
unexpected • Teen issues
upheavals
• Addiction
• Unwanted
separation due to • Divorce
job or personal • In-law challenges
demands
• Infidelity
• Domestic violence
• Sexual abuse • Intolerance of differences
• Inability to manage or resolve conflicts
• Financial difficulties or excesses
• Communication problems
Prayer
Dear Lord,
What things did you see in your partner that made you want to marry him/her?
Jane> instinct
George>destiny
What were your goals for your marriage when you were engaged?
No goals... just face the situation as its comes. Expectation lower less
dissapointment
What do you think, are the elements needed for a happy marriage?
Open communication, unending understanding of the word comprimise and basically
LOVE
Interview
What do you see as strengths of your marriage?
LOVE AND RESPECT
If you could press a button and change your marriage or something about
it, how would it change?
did not occur in my thoughts
Are there couples you look up to? If yes, what do you respect about their
marriages?
yes, because they are still dating eventhough their children have already
married and move away from them.
Interview
Generally, how would you describe your communication with your
partner?
the communication element is good.
How do you balance time for business, for your family, and for your partner?
business in weekdays, family in weekends. dinner together as a family
Generally, how would you describe your communication with your children?
it's toeing between the line of being parents and being friends.
Concrete help as a
liberator
Our action intended to help the couple/family is to organize a 'bonding day' for them.
After the interview, we helped Mrs. Ong prepare lunch and set the table for all of us. We also brought
ingredients to make carbonara for all of us to eat later on.
After we ate lunch with the Ong family, which was very fun because of all the discussions we had with
them, we all went to their living room to watch a movie.
We watched 'Cheaper by the dozen 2' which is a family-oriented movie. It was fun watching this movie
with them with all the side comments and the laughter we had because of the film.
Then, when the movie ended, we ate the carbonara which was very delicious because of Mrs.Ong's
expertise in cooking italian recipes. After resting and chatting a bit with them, they taught us how to
play mahjong! It was very hard playing with them but still very interesting,
And as if that wasn't enough, we played team-up badminton with them at a nearby court. We played for
hours because it turned out that they were really good at playing badminton but had to stop because
the sun started to set.
After we came back at their place, we rested and talked to them about the whole day we had with them.
We really had fun bonding with the family and thanked them for allowing us to spend the day with
them.