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239: How to Handle the Problem Person, with Bonni Stachowiak
239: How to Handle the Problem Person, with Bonni Stachowiak
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Length:
45 minutes
Released:
Apr 4, 2016
Format:
Podcast episode
Description
Bonni Stachowiak
Teaching in Higher Ed
Question from Daniel
I have been facing a hard/stressing moment with a specific guy from my team and it's not been an easy situation to handle.
The rest of the team are always complaining about this guy, they don’t trust on the guy opinions. I asked the team to try to have some informal conversations (on the lunch for example), and I also tried to give some advice to the guy, but the situation still the same, and sometimes I fell it is getting worse.
It is really consuming a lot of energy from my side on trying to fix the situation, and I have been feeling quite depressed with all of it...
Mentioned:
Love is the Killer App* by Tim Sanders
Question from Wendy
You are so wonderful. I have been listening to your podcast for about 2 years now. It has helped me to grow and become a better leader. One thing that I struggle with as a leader is that push back when I try to encourage someone to learn something new especially the employees that feel like they just don’t have the time. I sense that at times the group that I lead will be a little afraid of any change. I also wonder sometimes if I may be pushing too much change too fast.
Question from Anthony
I also run a newly established monthly alumni meeting. Part of my role is securing speakers to discuss topics business leaders face day-to-day. Since we don't have a budget to compensate the speaker what we can give in exchange is access to our cohort members. Unfortunately, I have NO experience in such a role. Any guidance or possible suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Question from Sariah
I am exploring the prospect of becoming a Leadership Coach. Currently I work as the head of a division in a large company. I have always had an interest in teaching and coaching. While I have never taught (consistently) in a classroom as part of a school or organization, I have done a bit of training at work with my Marketing team. More specifically, I find that as I am getting older, I pride myself on working with others in particular the younger persons at the office. I have been listening to all of the back issues of your podcast and have been learning so much and as a result I think this area may be for me. I am not sure where to start thus the inquiry with you.
Mentioned:
CFL Episode 190
CFL Episode 237
Question from Tom
I was wondering if you can recommend a source; book, website, blog, etc...for changing organizational culture. I work for a major university which is great, but being part of a bureaucracy has it problems. I would like to find a way to change the culture to a positive one. Thank you in advance for any help you may be able to provide.
Mentioned:
Organizational Culture* by Edgar Schein
Transitions* by William Bridges
Managing Transitions* by William Bridges
The Way of Transitions* William Bridges
The Fifth Discipline* by Peter Senge
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Our Iceberg is Melting* by John Kotter
Reframing Organizations* by Bolman & Deal
Feedback
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As a bonus,
Teaching in Higher Ed
Question from Daniel
I have been facing a hard/stressing moment with a specific guy from my team and it's not been an easy situation to handle.
The rest of the team are always complaining about this guy, they don’t trust on the guy opinions. I asked the team to try to have some informal conversations (on the lunch for example), and I also tried to give some advice to the guy, but the situation still the same, and sometimes I fell it is getting worse.
It is really consuming a lot of energy from my side on trying to fix the situation, and I have been feeling quite depressed with all of it...
Mentioned:
Love is the Killer App* by Tim Sanders
Question from Wendy
You are so wonderful. I have been listening to your podcast for about 2 years now. It has helped me to grow and become a better leader. One thing that I struggle with as a leader is that push back when I try to encourage someone to learn something new especially the employees that feel like they just don’t have the time. I sense that at times the group that I lead will be a little afraid of any change. I also wonder sometimes if I may be pushing too much change too fast.
Question from Anthony
I also run a newly established monthly alumni meeting. Part of my role is securing speakers to discuss topics business leaders face day-to-day. Since we don't have a budget to compensate the speaker what we can give in exchange is access to our cohort members. Unfortunately, I have NO experience in such a role. Any guidance or possible suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Question from Sariah
I am exploring the prospect of becoming a Leadership Coach. Currently I work as the head of a division in a large company. I have always had an interest in teaching and coaching. While I have never taught (consistently) in a classroom as part of a school or organization, I have done a bit of training at work with my Marketing team. More specifically, I find that as I am getting older, I pride myself on working with others in particular the younger persons at the office. I have been listening to all of the back issues of your podcast and have been learning so much and as a result I think this area may be for me. I am not sure where to start thus the inquiry with you.
Mentioned:
CFL Episode 190
CFL Episode 237
Question from Tom
I was wondering if you can recommend a source; book, website, blog, etc...for changing organizational culture. I work for a major university which is great, but being part of a bureaucracy has it problems. I would like to find a way to change the culture to a positive one. Thank you in advance for any help you may be able to provide.
Mentioned:
Organizational Culture* by Edgar Schein
Transitions* by William Bridges
Managing Transitions* by William Bridges
The Way of Transitions* William Bridges
The Fifth Discipline* by Peter Senge
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Our Iceberg is Melting* by John Kotter
Reframing Organizations* by Bolman & Deal
Feedback
Comments, questions, or feedback for future question and answer shows: http://coachingforleaders.com/feedback
The next question and answer show is episode 243
If you're not already subscribed to this show, please do so and you’ll get new episodes every Monday. Just search for Coaching for Leaders on iTunes, Stitcher, or any podcast app you use and subscribe there.
Please join my weekly leadership guide. The leadership guide is delivered to your inbox each Wednesday and includes my thoughts and recommendations on the best articles, podcasts, videos, and books, to support your development between shows. It also includes a brief overview and link to the full weekly show notes. If you, like me, tend to listen to podcasts while you’re on the road or exercising, this will give you an easy way to follow-up later on the links and resources we mention in every show.
As a bonus,
Released:
Apr 4, 2016
Format:
Podcast episode
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