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Volume of our 1 And just look at the lowliness 4 Issuenafs and our egos – where do we even get of being irritated, or angry at our mothers and The constant drama( of nosy aunties, the politics of fathers when weʼve received more from them than we could argumentative uncles, the annoyingness of sulky teenagers and ever deserve? In every shape and form our families have wailing babies; the accepted us, supported us, cared for us; unceasingly, By Aa
Volume of our 1 And just look at the lowliness 4 Issuenafs and our egos – where do we even get of being irritated, or angry at our mothers and The constant drama( of nosy aunties, the politics of fathers when weʼve received more from them than we could argumentative uncles, the annoyingness of sulky teenagers and ever deserve? In every shape and form our families have wailing babies; the accepted us, supported us, cared for us; unceasingly, By Aa
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Volume of our 1 And just look at the lowliness 4 Issuenafs and our egos – where do we even get of being irritated, or angry at our mothers and The constant drama( of nosy aunties, the politics of fathers when weʼve received more from them than we could argumentative uncles, the annoyingness of sulky teenagers and ever deserve? In every shape and form our families have wailing babies; the accepted us, supported us, cared for us; unceasingly, By Aa
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and Thankfulness By Nadiah Hashim-Arrifin My family is crazy. The constant drama of nosy aunties, the politics of argumentative uncles, the annoyingness of sulky teenagers and wailing babies; the cacophony that plagues any restaurant we visit many a time being home feels like abuse on my senses. But I cannot help but secretly miss this madness. Miss it, crave it; and feel absolutely at home amidst it. Proudly I will admit that my family does not function like clockwork, were not the kind of people to front campaigns on happy families, were hardly a yardstick for normal on many accounts we have our issues, we have our problems; we disagree, we argue, we ght. But we love. In a Hadith narrated by Ibn Majah, on the authority of Abdullah Ibn Abbas, the Prophet Muhammad SAW said, The best person amongst you is the one who treats his family members best. And I am the best amongst you to my family. There is such wisdom in his teaching, SAW - how easily do we become complacent, become forgetful, become unaware almost of the way we treat our families; how easily do we fall in the trap of taking advantage of them because we know theyll love us back anyway? Indeed our families are a true test of character, of Iman and Taqwa to Allah SWT. It is not just encouraged but commanded in Islam that we show kindness and gentleness to our families, even more so when ties have soured and times are tough. Abu Huraira reported that a man said: O Messenger of Allah! Indeed, I have relatives with whom I try to relate but they cut me off. I treat them well, but they treat me badly. I am forbearing with them, but they are harsh with me. So the Prophet () said: If it is as you say, then it is as if you threw hot ashes (i.e. they are earning sin), and there would always remain with you (support) from Allah that will keep you prominent over them as long as you adhere to this behavior. [Sahih Muslim, Book 032, Number 6204] 'Umar (Radiyallahu Anhu) was heard to say, "Anyone who does not show mercy will not be shown mercy. Anyone who does not forgive will not be forgiven. Anyone who does not turn in repentance will not be turned to nor will he be protected or guarded." If the showing of mercy and forgiveness ourselves grants us mercy and forgiveness from the Almighty; a promise and reward far, far greater than any deal made in this Dunya; why waste it on some petty argument, on some small annoyance? And just look at the lowliness of our nafs and our egos where do we even get of being irritated, or angry at our mothers and fathers when weve received more from them than we could ever deserve? In every shape and form our families have accepted us, supported us, cared for us; unceasingly, regardless of our shortcomings and wrongdoings; and without any expectation of recompense why can we not accord them the same? Are we not thankful, when were thankful for everything else? "Worship Allaah and associate nothing with Him, and to parents do good..."[Quran 4:36] Why are we not thankful when it is a command from Allah, when we know that it only by the Mercy of Allah that we were gifted with such beautiful families, and for that our thanks are due to Him? How then do we claim to love Allah when we do not love what He has given us? How do we claim to love the Messenger of Allah when we do not strive to walk the same path he did in appreciating his family? Perhaps its time we took a good look at ourselves and took stock of whats plainly in front of us. I did; and was shocked at what I saw in myself. Our families are a huge opportunity for our Nafs to be tamed; and our souls to be taught patience, mercy and thankfulness; a vehicle for seeking Barakah in our lives. Who knows how long weve got left to serve our parents and our families; for many the time has come too soon, and for the fortunate amongst us whose families are still around us, lets not lose out on this chance to make changes and come closer to the path of obedience to Allah and earning His pleasure. May this reminder serve to speak rst to myself; and may Allah SWT grant us all guidance and strength to be nicer, kinder, and gentler with our families InshaAllah; for one day we too will be parents, aunties and uncles, grandparents; hoping to be treated better by the very people we love unconditionally. And as I glanced back, handing over my passport to the airport ofcial, onward to London, I noticed a sea of arms ailing madly in the air waving goodbye, my father and grandmother leading the pack with wide grins holding back tears - I am thankful for crazy and wouldnt trade it for the world. Alhamdulillah. 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Pearls of Islam Reminder Series You Are Never Alone
By Aamir Shamsi
Times will come in the life of a believer where we will be tested in this world whether it is through a "loss in goods or lives or the fruits (of your toils)" [2:155] but we must always remember that we are never alone and that we should and need to turn to Allah in these times.
Trials and tribulations can not only change the course of your life but also make you feel very down and lost. Nothing remains the same and although an oxymoron, those who have been in such a situation like I have will understand when I say life can be consumed by emptiness. Although it is important to understand the many reasons why calamities befall us and how to cope with them, we must never forget that we will always have the one that loves us more than a mother loves her child (Muslim) close by to bring some solace to our hearts. In order to bring about this comfort we must make du'a, build a connection with Allah and believe that everything that happens is for the best.
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Du'a is the weapon of the believer for it can change the fate of our lives. And it is for this reason, as well as the fact that it shows our need for Allah, that it is highly encouraged in Islam. So we should ask our Lord to alleviate our pain, to make things easier and to grant us peace and happiness with His decree, even though in some situations it is extremely difficult to accept what has happened and to want to move on from it, for it is only He that has the power to make things better.
Connect with Allah
As the creation of Allah, we are all connected with our Lord through our souls. He is our provider, our sustainer and our support. But it is our responsibility to nourish this connection for "Verily in the remembrance of Allah, do hearts find rest" [13:29]. We can do so by reciting Quran, reading our salat with concentration and regular dhikr. The stronger our connection with Allah the greater the comfort our hearts will receive for it is then when we truly feel Allah's protection over us and this will make the difficult times that much easier for us.
Everything that happens is for the best
Allah loves us so much that everything that happens that is not a direct result of our own actions is for the best for us - "but it may be that you hate a thing which is good for you, and it may be that you love a thing which is bad for you. Allah knows and you know not" [2:216]. Having this belief at all times and being thankful for all that comes your way is a real test of our faith but also an undeniable fact. If adopted in our mindset it will ease our pain for we will understand it is for our best and so the true believer would not want it any other way than what Allah sees best.
All the above can be summarised with my favourite du'a that one should regularly recite: "Hasbunallahu Wa'Nimal Wakeel" Allah is enough for me and there is no better to look after me.
"When you feel all alone in this world And there's nobody to count your tears Just remember, no matter where you are Allah knows, Allah knows" - Nasheed by Zain Bhikha ! ! Monday 31st October 2011 4 Dhul - Hijjah 1432 Volume 4 Issue 1