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27 Persuasion Techniques
27 Persuasion Techniques
With current examples, each chapter of the book offers viable ways to
position your point of view, while respecting the point of view of the
other. Instead of turning the situation into an "us versus them," the
book offers tactful ways to make your opponent feel valued and not
threatened. The strategies are insightful, understandable, and
extraordinarily effective.
Persuasion is an art and a craft. Through the book you will gain ways
of thinking and putting into practice the art of persuasion, maximizing
your capacity and allowing you to be more persuasive in the situations
you encounter.
People often lose sight of the goal by getting stuck in the process: the
ideas, meetings, procedures and steps needed to reach that goal. To
persuade, the first thing is to define the goal and make decisions
among all the components of a group, so that they are involved and
contribute from the beginning. We can ask: " What is our goal? "
"What are we trying to achieve today? " and let them talk and search
for the answer, reducing the goal to one or two simple sentences that
everyone agrees on even if it seems obvious.
2. Evaluate egos
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Opportunity
Techniques to persuade a person and get them to accept new ideas,
making them feel safe and accepted:
When raising an idea, we find people who support us, others who will
be against, others who will remain undecided and others who,
agreeing, may react by attacking. When faced with them, the best
response is to offer them nothing to oppose and not respond to their
attacks.
Chris St. Hilaire recognizes that sometimes you have to work hard to
find something you like about the other person, and as a last resort,
remember that everyone has a family and everyone wants to be
appreciated.
8. Be present
An effective story can be built from two premises: being clear about
what the objective is and understanding the reality of the
interlocutors. When its reality is recognized, the objective can be
adapted and a story that can connect with listeners can be shaped.
Few people want to be the first to agree with someone else's ideas
and, at the same time, no one wants to be the last to get on board.
Most want to be in the middle, but closer to the first. Providing
independent supports can help people overcome the fear of being
first.
We ensure that those who agree with us have the information they
need to influence others, whether when we are not present or when
we are in a meeting and need a show of support. The reasons can be
very different and come from different areas:
1. Statistics, trends or other figures.
2. Third party support.
3. Background that corroborates our idea.
4. Experience.
In all groups there will be people who take our side from the
beginning (unless our idea is very risky or radical) and there will be
those who are against it, because they are skeptical or for another
reason. The only thing necessary to win is to get some undecided
people to support our idea.
The challenge when dealing with undecided people is that they often
do not care about what we propose, declaring themselves
independent. Sometimes they vote, but usually they don't care, nor
do they pay as much attention as people who are attached to their
opinions. If they are forced to make a decision, in discussion groups,
they tend to view the situation negatively or find fault with both
parties.
Some undecided people will finally stop standing on the sidelines and
make a decision. They will probably support the ideas of the people
who treat them with the most respect and prove to be the most even-
handed.
We can use this strategy by asking questions and waiting long enough
to hear all three parts of the answer, and then remaining silent.
If you are not sure what to say, it is also best to remain silent. People
will think you are smart unless you are proven wrong.
When you work with clients you can't say "no" if you want to stay in
business. It's important to find a positive way to say "no" and replace
it with "let's try it," or steer the conversation toward the goal by
suggesting alternative ways to achieve it. A fundamental part of the
persuasion process is reframing a negative message into a positive
one.
We must try to avoid, in this role, phrases like: "I am not against it,
but..." since as soon as our interlocutor hears it he will become
defensive, understanding that I am telling him that I do not agree and
that You have to prepare for criticism. This way we will not find a
solution and we will have generated a conflict. It's better to say, "Is it
okay if I play devil's advocate? "I want to anticipate problems and any
disagreements we have will serve to create a more solid strategy."
Subsequently, we guide the debate into a problem-solving exercise
and, if at any time the tension increases, we just have to remember
that we are acting as devil's advocate so that we do not miss
anything, and that we are playing a role so that we can understand
them better. . We should always maintain a positive feeling in the
meeting, so that others feel comfortable and safe.
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