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Goals
✔ To understand the Husband's Role as Christ's Wife
✔ To Implement Christ-likeness in life and marriage.
I. Introduction
A. Marriage is not a game
B. Review of Trinity
C. Developing a heart attitude, habit, and mindset that is Christ-like
D. Put off/Put on review
E. Reading review
ii. Being sanctified in order to be presented to Christ holy and blameless (v.26-27)
iii. Fed and cared for (v. 29)
C. We must learn from Christ that we may do what he does for us, for our wives.
D. Since our wives are Christ's Bride as well, Christ is loving them in the same way.
• If you are married to a non-believer, then your goal is her salvation, through a
gentle witness.
A. Servant-Leader/Shepherd
i. Leading the family in humility and submission (emulates God the Father)
ii. Taking responsibility for the home and all the functions within it
iii. Vigilant to protect the wife from harm that may come through
• bad habits
• bad decisions
• bad teaching
• friends
• family
• media
• etc.
v. Understandingly
ii. Spiritually
iii. Emotionally
iv. Practically
i. Purity
iii. Doing the dreaded (plunging toilets, cleaning hair out of drains, removing the dead
iv. Being focused on our wives' sanctification, rather than living as enjoyment-deprived.
“Thou hast seen the measure of obedience; now hear also the measure of love. Do
you wish your wife to obey you, as the Church is to obey Christ? Then have a solicitude
for her as Christ had for the Church (Eph 5:23, “Himself the Saviour of the body”); and
“if it be necessary to give thy life for her, or to be cut in ten thousand pieces, or to endure
any other suffering whatever, do not refuse it; and if you suffer thus, not even so do you
do what Christ has done; for you indeed do so being already united to her, but He did so
for one that treated Him with aversion and hatred.
As, therefore, He brought to His feet one that so treated Him, and that even
wantonly spurned Him, by much tenderness of regard, not by threats, insults, and terror:
so also do you act towards your wife, and though you see her disdainful and wantonly
wayward, you will be able to bring her to your feet by much thoughtfulness for her, by
love, by kindness. For no bound is more sovereign in binding than such bonds, especially
in the case of husband and wife.
For one may constrain a servant by fear, though not even he is so to be bound to
you; for he may readily run away. But the companion of your life, the mother of your
children, the basis of all your joy, you ought to bind to you, not by fear and threats, but
by love and attachment” [CHRYSOSTOM]i
G. Daily sanctifies his wife (emulates God the Son, God the Holy Spirit)
iii. Listening to her hurts, burdens, trials, etc. and applying the truth of scripture gently
H. Daily is affectionate and intimate (emulates God the Father, God the Son)
i. Affection is a physical confirmation of the spiritual and emotional reality
a) builds intimacy
I. Submission to God (Emulates God the Son, God the Holy Spirit)
J. Glorifies God (Emulates God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit
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