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Features 44 60
drama in real life health
30 Trapped Down
A Well
Dementia
Warning Signals
queen elizabeth ii
(1926-2022) A father leaps into an Memory loss may not
The Queen’s Portrait icy cold well to save be the first indication
For her 60th birthday, his six year old. Now of Alzheimer’s disease.
a relaxed and friendly both are stuck MARK WITTEN
Queen Elizabeth II 20 metres down.
sat for a special ROBERT KIENER 72
painting. photo feature
52 Nothing But Sand
32 food for thought
Hamburgers
Wavy dunes or carved
sculptures, there is
When She
Was Princess The juicy history of beauty to be found in
As a young woman, how a meat patty was the grains of weathered
Princess Elizabeth sandwiched into a rock. DORIS KOCHANEK
was already bun, and then became
displaying a strong a fast-food classic. 78
DIANE GODLEY opinion
sense of duty – and
a will of her own.
Just Listen To Us!
WILLIAM W. WHITE
Young people from
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LONDON; ILLUS TR ATION (BURNOUT) JAMES S TEINBERG
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CONTENTS
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heroes how to Departments
The Movie Gets Learn A Language
A New Ending As An Adult the digest
A film producer You’re never too old 20 Pets
discovers the facts of to start speaking a 22 Health
a crime documentary foreign tongue. 28 News From The
World Of Medicine
don’t add up. EMILY GOODMAN
ADRIENNE FARR
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EDITOR’S NOTE
A Global Impact
AMONG THE EXTRAORDINARY EVENTS OF 2022, the death of
Queen Elizabeth II sparked a global response. While any individual
born into royal privilege enjoys an opulent lifestyle, the Queen’s ability
to remain devoted to her family made her universally relatable. She, too,
withstood the constraints of lockdown, made harder by the loss of her
husband and family quarrels. While there is
criticism about the institution of monarchy,
even anti-monarchists declared themselves
impressed by the Queen herself.
Our tribute to Her Majesty is two-fold.
‘The Queen’s Portrait’ (page 30) offers details
into the story behind the Queen’s portrait
commissioned by Reader’s Digest in 1986.
‘When She Was Princess’ (page 32) portrays
the life of the then 19-year-old Princess
Elizabeth Windsor, first published in the
magazine in 1945. Both tributes offer unique
The then Princess Elizabeth
perspectives into this exceptional monarch. wearing her army uniform
We also visit a small village in the Japanese during WWII PHOTO: CAMER A PRESS (PHOTO BY CECIL BE ATON)
mountains to experience the Onbashira
Festival (‘Tempting Fate’, page 122), one of the world’s most
dangerous downhill celebrations; and try to persuade ‘grown-ups’
that it’s never too late to learn a foreign language (‘Learn A Language
As An Adult’, page 118).
These stories and much more in this month’s issue.
Happy reading,
LOUISE WATERSON
Editor-in-Chief
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MY STORY
Shooting
Stars
Gazing up at the night
sky during a meteor shower
throws out more than
just light
BY Samantha Kent
I
get up in the dark hours of the That they are elusive, erratic and
morning for three reasons only: startlingly fleeting makes shooting
to attend ANZAC Day service, stars (actually meteor showers)
to catch a cheap flight, or to one of my favourite astronomical
witness an astronomical event. phenomena. The last time I tried
It was the last of these three that to see some, I stood in a cold,
prompted me to set my alarm for deserted street but instead of
3.30am on Sunday May 8 this year. shooting stars I spotted Elon Musk
My success rate with astronomical satellites, moving in a slow, orderly
events has been low because of fashion across the sky like a string
rain, cloud cover and Sydney’s light of beads. They were eye-catching
pollution – which renders the night but not magical.
sky a dull, flat, grey surface against A newspaper article had reported
which only a few stars manage that the annual Eta Aquarid meteor
to shine. But the biggest obstacle shower was going to be at its peak
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My Story
FIELD OF VIEW
change my mind. I emptiness in the
grabbed a jacket and air told me we were
scarf and headed alone.
outside, pausing at the corner of Only a minute later I saw the
the cottage to look up. The Milky next shooting star. I interrupted my
Way was blazing in a cloud-free boyfriend’s grumbling about the
sky and within seconds a shooting cold to shout “There!”
star sped across my field of view. “Where?”
Figuring it could be the real thing “Over there!” I said, pointing (as
this time, I woke up my boyfriend though pointing could help).
and promised him it would be worth “There’s another!” (He was
his while. He had been nowhere starting to get excited.)
near as keen as me and was yet to be The rewards were coming from all
convinced that bed was not the best directions now; we notched up some
ten more stars within minutes, most
vanishing before one of us could
Samantha Kent lives in Sydney’s inner west.
She is an editor in the book publishing draw the other’s attention, some
industry and her passions, besides star leaving long, bright tails burning in
gazing, are travel and ocean swimming. their wake.
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SMART ANIMALS
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than the other kittens. So Sandy on his back. His owner called him,
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PETS
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Pets
• Pets may be cuddly, • Young children can • Don’t allow rough play
but they can also cause accidentally injure an with puppies or dogs as
injury by biting and animal during playtime this will increase the
scratching if they are by dropping or chance of them nipping
not handled correctly. squeezing it too hard. and jumping.
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HEALTH
Easy
Ways
To Sleep
Better
Especially when stress
is keeping you up
BY Nicole Pajer
FROM THE A ARP BULLETIN
W
ith everything going we tend to wake up more, snooze
on in the world for shorter periods, and get less
these days, it’s no sleep than younger people. Simple
wonder so many of steps such as setting the thermostat
us are struggling to sleep. Almost between 15.5 and 19.5 degrees
40 per cent of people surveyed in Celsius at night and turning off
13 countries have reported sleep screens 30 minutes before bedtime
issues over the past two years, can help, as can the following tips.
according to research in the Journal
of Clinical Sleep Medicine. It’s normal 1. TEST YOUR PILLOW
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sleep. “When your brain is sending for 12 weeks. When people cut down
pain signals, it can’t also send sleep on salt, their average bathroom trips
signals,” says Dr Michael J. Breus, decreased from twice a night to once.
a clinical psychologist and sleep Those who consumed more salt
specialist. woke up more frequently to go to the
To buy the right pillow, determine bathroom.
your sleep style. If you sleep on your The urge to urinate late at night
back, look for a thinner pillow made (known as nocturia) can make it
of supportive foam. If you sleep on harder to fall back to sleep, leading to
your side, a thicker pillow is better. fatigue, increased napping and even
depression, says Dr Rafael Pelayo, a
2. GET AN HOUR OF clinical professor of psychiatry and
SUNLIGHT EACH DAY behavioural sciences and the author
Morning sunlight is important of How to Sleep.
for good sleep. “It turns off the
melatonin tap in your brain, which 4. TACKLE YOUR TROUBLES
helps relieve the groggy morning BEFORE DINNER
feeling,” Dr Breus says. It also sets a If you need an airing of grievances
mental timer to produce melatonin, with your spouse, don’t wait until
the so-called sleep hormone, that night-time. Tough discussions are
evening. less likely to disrupt your slumber if
To get more rays, aim for 15 to you initiate them earlier rather than
30 minutes of direct light in the later.
morning. Next, take two 15-minute “Right before dinner is a good
outdoor breaks during the day. time to work things out,” says Ashley
The light cues your brain that it’s Mason, an associate professor
time to be awake and prevents you of psychiatry at the University of
from producing melatonin before California, San Francisco. If you
bedtime. When you’re inside, open start an argument after dinner,
the curtains. your quarrelling can continue until
bedtime. That’s a problem because
3. SKIP SALTY SNACKS arguments can activate your
BEFORE BED sympathetic nervous system, which
Want to reduce those annoying can disturb sleep.
night-time trips to the bathroom? Some research even suggests that
Cut back on salty snacks, such as going to bed angry may make you
potato chips. In a Japanese study, surly the next morning.
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QUEEN ELIZABETH II
(1926-2022)
THE QUEEN’S
Portrait
Looking back to a special Reader’s Digest moment
30 november 2022
“I want to give the
viewer the feeling of
having a conversation
with the Queen
– to convey royalty
combined with
human warmth”
Digest at the time. “I have to take Artist Michael Leonard with the
portrait in his studio
them myself, though.”
During the 25-minute sittings, career, which established him, at 52,
Leonard took more than 100 pic- in the forefront of Britain’s figura-
tures as the Queen, rela xed and tive artists. His use of photographs
friendly, sat on the sofa with her heightens the realism and immedi-
eight-year-old corgi, Sparky. Later, acy conveyed in the portrait.
in Leonard’s west London studio, he At the time of painting Her Maj-
chose six of the photos to amalgam- esty, Leonard said about his royal
ate into his painting. portrait: “I want to give the viewer
The 76-centimetre-high portrait the feeling of having a conversation
is in acrylic paint on canvas, a tech- with the Queen – to convey royalty
nique Leonard used throughout his combined with human warmth.”
T h is specia l ly com m issioned
Reader’s Digest portrait was pub-
lished on the cover of the April 1986
British edition. It was presented to
the National Portrait Gallery in 1986
by the Reader’s Digest Association,
where it remains to this day.
Accord i ng to t he Ga l ler y, t he
Queen was associated with 967 por-
traits in her lifetime. Some are icon-
ic, others abstract and some are
controversial. Our research con-
Her Majesty has graced the covers of firms this is Sparky’s only official
Reader’s Digest numerous times portrait.
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Princess Elizabeth
writing at her desk
in Windsor Castle in
May 1944. She had
just turned 18
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QUEEN ELIZABETH II
(1926-2022)
When
She
Was
Princess
A 1945 perspective of the woman who
would become Queen Elizabeth II
BY William W. White
P U B L I S H E D I N R E A D E R ’ S D I G E S T I N N O V E M B E R 19 4 5
A S ‘ P R I N C E S S E L I Z A B E T H ’. C O N D E N S E D F R O M T H E PA G E S O F L I F E
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O
On September 8, 2022, Queen Elizabeth II died peacefully at her
Scottish castle in Balmoral. The days and weeks that followed her
passing witnessed much regalia, tradition and tears. This year also
marked her Platinum Jubilee: 70 years since she ascended the throne
in 1952 at the age of 25 after the death of her father, George VI.
It was the start of the longest reign of any British monarch in history.
Hers was an extraordinary life and one that even she could never
have envisaged. This article was written in 1945, at the end of World
War II, two years before Elizabeth married Prince Philip.
PRINCESS ELIZABETH ALEXANDRA
MARY WINDSOR will someday claim
the allegiance of 489,000,000 of the
world’s population when she takes her
full title: Elizabeth II, by the Grace of
an over-presumptive minister, “I will
have here but one mistress and no
master” – that there is not much left.
What is left is the power of creating
peers, a never-used veto as head of the
God, of Great Britain, Ireland, and the Privy Council, and the rather dubious
British Dominions beyond the Seas, honour of naming a Prime Minister
Queen, Defender of the Faith and who has already been chosen by the
Empress of India. She recently saw British electorate.
her sceptred isle go through the tur- At present, as heiress presumptive
moil of sudden political change when (as long as her father lives it is pre-
Winston Churchill lost the election in sumed he may have a male heir) Prin-
July, just two months after he declared cess Elizabeth has no powers, no royal
VE Day. Her one recorded comment duties of state, and no constitutional
when she learned that her good friend functions. When she becomes Queen
had been snowed under an avalanche her most vital contribution will be that
of leftist votes was, “Oh, bother.” of a symbol of continuity. Govern-
This is not to say that the events of ments may fall, parties may dissolve,
the day were altogether lost on Eliza- but the Crown goes on forever. In that
beth. She has been educated to think fairly certain knowledge the British
very seriously while saying very little. find an unconscionable pleasure. The
At 19 she is already carefully Crown remains one of the few expens-
coached and acutely conscious of es the British bear without grumbling.
the duties, dignities and limitations So far, Elizabeth has shown every
of a throne – especially the limita- prospect of living up to a prediction
tions. The British have whittled away made recently by one of Britain’s el-
at the powers invested in the Crown der statesmen: “She has intelligence,
so diligently since four centuries ear- personality and charm. She will be a
lier – when Queen Elizabeth I said to good Queen. She may even be a great
34 november 2022
one.” Good Queen or great, she
will be an attractive one. Man-
nequin height (5 feet 6½ inch-
es), Elizabeth has inherited from
her Hanoverian antecedents an
ample figure, a lovely rose-and-
cream complexion, good white
teeth, and a sturdy constitution.
Unfortunately, she is not photo-
genic because her chief attrac-
tion lies in her colouring. Her
regal bearing reminds old-tim-
ers of her grandmother, Queen
Mary.
Less lighthearted than her at-
tractive 15-year-old sister Mar-
garet Rose, whose superb mim-
icry of visiting dignitaries has
PHOTOS, PRE VIOUS SPRE AD AND THIS ONE: LISA SHERIDAN/S TUDIO LISA/GE T T Y IMAGES
more than once caused gales The two sisters outside Windsor Castle in April
of laughter at the royal dinner 1942: Elizabeth, left, 15; Margaret, 12
table, Princess Elizabeth has
already shown traits which indicate the women’s auxiliaries (known as
she has a mind of her own. A year the Auxiliary Territorial Service, or
ago when, like her subjects-to-be, she ATS). But Betts had other ideas, and
became due for national service, the not long afterwards the Palace made
King ruled after long deliberations a straight-faced announcement that
with his councillors that her training the King “had been pleased to grant
as a princess outweighed the nation’s an honorary commission as second
increasing manpower problems and subaltern in the ATS to Her Royal
that ‘Betts’ should not join any of Highness the Princess Elizabeth.”
Elizabeth passed her driving course
The King ruled in two days less than the prescribed
time, after attending lectures and get-
that she couldn’t ting her hands greasy dismantling en-
join the women’s gines. Most of the students finish this
auxiliaries. ‘Betts’ ATS driving course by driving to Lon-
don for the experience. It was ruled
had other ideas that Elizabeth should not, since the
risks of a smash involving the heiress
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When She Was Princess
It was a cold,
grey day, but
Elizabeth confessed,
“I’m too nervous to
feel the cold”
The two Lascelles boys, Gerald and Royal Mint, the Bank of England, the
George, when very young, had a terri- science museum in South Kensington,
fying habit of rushing into a room and the Tower of London, Westminster
attacking Queen Mary’s ankles. She Abbey and the National Gallery.
was often obliged to put up a spirit- Since she was six, Elizabeth’s for-
ed defence with her famous parasol. mal education has been supervised
Happily, Elizabeth was less boisterous. by an able young Scotswoman, Mar-
Queen Mary taught the child the art ion Crawford – ‘Crawfie’ to everyone
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American history, and speaks
French fluently. To what would
in Victorian days be called ‘the
accomplishments’ – she plays
the piano and sings agreeably
– Elizabeth added completely
20th-century arts. She swims,
drives a car, likes American
dance music, has t he ‘good
hands and pretty seat’ of an ac-
complished horsewoman, and is
a good shot.
On honeymoon with Prince Philip When she was very young,
in late 1947 Elizabeth was asked what she
would like to be when she grew
in the royal household. If young up. Without a moment’s hesitation,
Betts found it easier, as indeed she she answered, “I should like to be a
did, to absorb history while lying on horse.” Time has served to modify
her stomach on the floor of Crawfie’s that ambition. Whether anyone would
room, Crawfie had no objections. By genuinely like to lead the antiseptic
the time Elizabeth was 12 she had and rather empty life of a modern
shown a marked aptitude for history queen may be a matter for doubt. But
and languages and a sublime distaste Elizabeth will have that duty.
for mathematics. At that point her ed- That being the case, her ambition
ucation became a matter on which is to be a good queen. If she, like the
the Cabinet had to be consulted. earlier Elizabeth, ref lects and en-
Elizabeth’s mother wanted her courages the contemporary spirit of
to go to a girls’ school so she could her people, she may occupy a posi-
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HEALTH
Beyond Burnout
What to do
when, or
ideally before,
stress reaches
epic proportions
BY Leslie Finlay
W
e all get busy some-
times, but feeling con-
stantly and chronically
swamped, worried and
overwhelmed can lead to burnout,
which can have serious consequences.
Think of burnout as stress taken to
another level. “Typically, burnout is
ILLUS TR ATIONS: JAMES S TEINBERG
40 november 2022
Because so many of us frequently woes and a greater risk for depres-
feel stressed, it can be hard to recog- sion, heart problems, diabetes and
nise when the line has been crossed. weight gain, according to Dr Balcet-
True burnout is different from feeling is. Perhaps most frightening, a study
overextended. Michael Leiter, a pro- published in the Journal of Psycho-
fessor of psychology at Acadia Uni- somatic Research found that people
versity, explains. “Burnout combines who experience chronic burnout
three key dimensions: overwhelming have up to a 35 per cent greater risk
exhaustion, feelings of cynicism, and of early mortality.
a sense of discouragement, inade- Before stress ramps up to that level,
quacy or low accomplishment.” try taking these proactive steps.
Feeling exhausted when you be-
gin working is a red flag. “This is a LOOK FOR MEANING
sign that demands are building faster AT WORK
than you can recover from them,” he We can tolerate stress longer if we
says. That fatigue evolves into feelings believe we’re doing something pur-
such as pessimism and withdrawal, poseful and worthwhile. Dr Balcetis
“becoming grumpy and cynical about says we’re more likely to experience
work you used to love – especially chronic burnout-inducing stress when
feeling that way towards people you’re something seems out of our control,
supposed to care about.” against our will, or totally meaning-
That’s the end stage of burnout, but less. Try to identify ways in which
it takes a while to get there. “At first, even the smallest of your daily tasks
we might find ourselves experienc- contributes to the lives of others.
ing hyperactivity, trying to manage “If you can, cut or outsource one or
our stressors by frantically working two of those things that don’t person-
to reduce them, and juggling more ally give you meaning,” she says.
and more simultaneously,” says psy-
chology professor Dr Emily Balcetis. LOOK FOR MEANING
Unfortunately, this desperation can OUTSIDE OF WORK
contribute to making mistakes, los- If you’re struggling to make your
ing concentration, or even starting work meaningful, prioritising life
to feel emotionally unhinged – all of outside of work might be especial-
which pave the way for more chronic ly beneficial. Research published
issues to develop. in BMC Medicine shows that people
Living at a burnout level of sus- more likely to experience a greater
tained stress can lead to serious sense of engagement when on the job
healt h consequences, including are those with a hobby – the ultimate
problematic sleep patterns, digestion burnout buffer.
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RECOGNISE WHEN
IT’S TOO MUCH
Talk to your supervisors
when you feel your job
should be more man-
ageable, rewarding and
under your control. “It’s
very common for supe-
riors to continue to in-
crease tasks over time,”
SEPARATE WORK Maxson says, adding that if we don’t
AND HOME LIFE communicate our needs or limita-
“With boundaries blurring between tions, they may be overlooked. If you
work and non-work these days, re- don’t expect things will improve, con-
search has suggested that there are sider changing jobs or even careers.
some tactics individuals can use,” For intensive care nurse Wendy
Professor Park says. These tactics Reynolds, stress had always been
could include turning off work email part of the job. Then the pandemic hit
notifications on your phone, using and the stress ramped up to a whole
separate email accounts for work and new level. “I wasn’t sleeping, always
personal life, and setting up bounda- had a headache, and was always anx-
ries between work and personal life. ious and worried about everything,”
she says. “I knew I needed to leave.”
DON’T NEGLECT YOURSELF She solved her burnout problem
“Neglecting your diet or eating fast by transitioning into a health-care
or comfort foods can become a way administration role where she can
of dealing with stress, but it will rob manage her work-life balance while
your body and brain of nutrients nec- still having a career that aligns with
essary to facilitate energy and regulate her passion for clinical health care.
moods,” says family therapist Benja- “I love my new job,” she says. “I ac-
min Maxson. Physical activity is essen- tually see my family now, and I can
tial to shaking out stress hormones, use my clinical skills to help leaders
too. “Many individuals are less active at other hospitals improve workflows
when under stress in order to rest,” for their staff, so it’s very rewarding.”
he says. But movement is the most If you feel burnt out, therapy can
natural evolutionary response to our help you process work-related stress
body’s stress. Even light movement and learn coping strategies, and teach
helps reduce stress, flushing stress you to communicate with your em-
hormones out of the bloodstream. ployer and set healthy boundaries.
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A
WELL After his little boy fell into
the cold depths, Brandon Leseberg
leapt in to rescue him. Then
drama quickly engulfed the father and son
BY Robert Kiener
44 november 2022
Brandon Leseberg (front)
with his sons Louie and
Everett, along with the
neighbours who helped
save him and Louie
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“Where’s Louie?” he shouted to row walls for support, his body still
Everett. partly submerged.
Everett, his blue eyes wide with “All right, Dad, you can pull us out
fear, told him, “He fell in the hole!” now,” said the child as his father held
The 37 year old immediately re- him tightly.
alised what had happened. Noooo! If only it were that easy. Brandon
he thought. Louie can barely swim! knew there was no way he could
Brandon raced over to the well and climb out; 20 metres is a very long
when he heard Louie splashing and way. The pipe that he had grabbed
gurgling far below, he instinctively onto during his fall was too slippery
jumped in. to be of any use. There was only one
Plunging feet-first more than 20 way they could be saved.
metres down the 60-centimetre-wide As he clutched his terrified six-
brick-lined well, Brandon could hear year-old son in the frigid waters, he
Louie screaming. Somehow Brandon told him, “Your brother is going to
managed to grab onto a pipe that ran have to help us.”
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48 november 2022
Trapped Down A Well
others carefully unwrapped the tan- Brandon helped by gripping the well’s
gled wires from his arm. Louie was pipe as best he could as he ascended
shivering and terrified as Eric rushed towards the circle of blue sky and sun-
him to his truck, where he bundled light at the top of the well.
him in several hoodies and turned “Keep it going, Brandon!” the team
the heater up full blast. shouted as they hoisted him up.
The neighbours now turned their “We’ve got you. Hang on!”
attention to Brandon. Although they A bout 4 0 m i nutes a f ter he’d
could have waited for the emergency jumped into the well to save his son,
rescue team to arrive, they didn’t hes- Brandon finally emerged, cold and
itate. Their friend was in trouble – of wet. Just as his neighbours’ strong
course they had to try to get him out. arms reached out to grab him he col-
But there was a problem. Brandon lapsed to the ground, exhausted by
was a big man and would likely be too his ordeal. A minute later, emergency
heavy to pull out of the well using just services arrived.
the rope as they had done with Louie. Other than some nasty scratches,
They decided to use the foundation of Brandon was fine. Louie, though,
the old windmill that still stood over suffered hypothermia as well as deep
the well as a hoist to help pull Bran- bruising from the wires that had en-
don up. They tossed down the loop at tangled him. He also had a punctured
the end of the rope and Brandon tight- lung, which doctors told Brandon was
ened it around his torso. likely a result of the rope around his
After looping their end of the rope chest. Still, he was healthy enough to
over the old windmill frame, Dan return to school a week later.
shouted to Brandon, “Can you help While all the rescuers have been
pull yourself up by using the well’s hailed as heroes, Dan Athen isn’t hav-
pipe?” ing it. “We are just neighbours helping
“Yeah,” he yelled back. “I’m ready neighbours,” he said. “It’s just what we
to go!” do.” He pauses then adds, “If there is a
Each of the five neighbours grabbed hero in this story, it’s three-year-old
a portion of rope and began to pull. Everett. He’s a real lifesaver.”
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50 november 2022
Life’s Like That
Fitting End
My late Aunt Sally was a big fan
of the singer Gracie Fields and
my uncle had chosen to have her
namesake song ‘Sally’ played at
the end of her funeral in the local THE GREAT TWEET OFF:
crematorium. BROTHERLY LOVE
We had given the staff a CD EDITION
The siblings of Twitter celebrate
to play but unfortunately they
a very special bond.
didn’t select the right track, so as
the curtains closed around Aunt
Sally’s coffin, the quiet sadness Me: My brother is so annoying.
was broken by howls of laughter as Someone else: Your brother is
annoying.
Gracie sang: Wish me luck as you Me: Erm. Excuse me?!?! He is not!
wave me goodbye, cheerio, here I go @JAZZYBUMBLEE
on my way!
Aunt Sally would have loved it! Once I said to my brother, “It’s nice
SUBMITTED BY R ACHEL HOWLETT how we’re not just siblings, we’re
best friends.” And he said, “Nah,
All Fun And Games we’re siblings.” @BANANAFITZ
Watching soccer with my 11-year- Having a brother builds character.
old daughter is fun. When I get @1AYESHAAA
frustrated with my team, she’ll ask
calming questions like, “Daddy, do Sibling rivalry, or as my parents
called it, “Stop choking your
you really think you can do better
brother, he’s turning blue.”
than the players?” @UNFITZ
@DAD_ AT_LAW
Having brothers is stressful. Why do
Slow Motion they eat everything?!?!?
@INAYAHH_
My five year old wanted to learn
more about the tai chi classes I
was taking, so I showed her some
moves. At first she was totally
taken aback.
But later she hugged me and
whispered, “It’s OK, Mum, keep
practising. One day you’ll be able to
do it quickly.”
SUBMIT TED BY CHRISTINE SIMARD
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FOOD FOR
THOUGHT
Hamburgers
A simple idea of a meat patty in a bun has morphed
into a multi-billion dollar fast-food business
BY Diane Godley
Y
ou don’t need to stretch your one is really quite sure how it came
PHOTOS: GE T T Y IMAGES
imagination too far to gather about. But I like the tale I used to give
that the humble hamburger to my students as a comprehension
most probably came from, lesson when working as an English
well Hamburg. Although there are teacher in Germany. It went some-
many people who like to regale stories thing like this.
about the origins of the hamburger, no In the early 19th century, sailors
52 november 2022
Food For Thought
from the busy northern German ship- schnitzel, pulled pork, lentil, tofu and
ping port of Hamburg were often everything in between.
docked in New York, where they Like the pizza, hamburgers are
would be seen eating meat patties indelibly linked to American cui-
(frikadellen) comprising minced beef sine and enjoyed all around the
from Hamburg, garlic, onions and world. But have you ever wondered
spices. “Eventually someone threw a which of the two meals is more pop-
frikadelle in a bun and voilà, the rest ular globally? The folk at food blog
is history!” says Kimberly Killebrew, richeelicious.com did and earli-
food writer at daringgourmet.com. er this year tapped into Google’s
Although the simple meal was Keyword Planner to find the most
catching on in t he US, t he dish searched word. The results were
d id n’t act ua l ly have a even. Then they looked
name unt il, according AMERICANS at Google Trends over the
to kidzworld.com in its LOVE THEIR past 18 years. Here pizzas
BURGERS,
‘History Of Hamburgers’ far outpaced burgers and
blog, “some rowdy sailors are still climbing in pop-
from Hamburg named the DEVOURING ularity. However, wheth-
meat on a bun after them- 4500 EVERY er doing a word search on
MINUTE
selves years later”. Google equates to popu-
Given t he pr ice a nd larity is a subject out for
quality of Hamburg beef debate.
back then, these meat patties were What is not debatable is that Amer-
considered gourmet and often the icans love their burgers, devouring
most expensive item on a restaurant 4500 every minute – that’s 277,000
menu. But as cheaper cuts of meat thousand burgers per hour, nearly six
started to get used, the price came million a day and over two billion a
down, and they were sold not just in year. The US also spends more mon-
restaurants but also by street vendors. ey on fast food than any other coun-
A lthough our North American try, with 50 per cent of their fast-food
friends like to take all the credit for spend going on burgers.
the invention, to my ears the Ger- Although hamburgers are eaten in
man story holds more weight. It is Germany, traditional frikadellen are
true, however, that would-be restau- more commonly served on a plate
rateurs and owners of street carts in with a side of creamy potato salad, a
the US took the idea and ran with it. crusty roll and a slathering of mus-
Today, thousands of iterations of the tard, says daringgourmet.com.
original hamburger are offered all One of my pet hates with today’s
over the world, including chicken, beef burgers is that they are a bit
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tasteless (at least compared to the falls apart before you’re even halfway
f lavoursome frikadellen I used to through eating!
buy from the butchers in Germany) But don’t worry, by using the recipe
and this is compensated for through below for your meat patty and put-
lashings of tomato and barbecue ting it in a crusty or sourdough roll,
sauce. And what’s going on with the your homemade burger will go from
burger bun? Fluffy white bread that dull to absolutely delicious.
FRIKADELLE HAMBURGERS
The origins of frikadellen are
unknown, but are attributed to
northern Germany and Denmark and
can be traced back as far as the
18th century. The seasoned meat
patties can be eaten hot or cold, on
their own or in a burger.
Ingredients Method
•1 slice day-old bread, 1. Break the bread
broken into pieces into small pieces and
•1 ½ tbls warm milk place in a bowl. Pour
•1 small onion, finely over milk and let soak at least 30 minutes.
chopped for 15 minutes. 6. Meanwhile, prepare
•1 clove garlic, minced 2. Heat half the oil in a salad vegetables (eg,
•250g minced beef frying pan and sauté the tomato, lettuce,
•250g minced pork onions until soft and cucumber, beetroot,
•1 egg translucent. Add the carrot).
•2 tbls parsley, chopped garlic and cook for 7. Heat the rest of the
•1 tsp salt another minute. oil in frying pan to
•½ tsp pepper 3. Squeeze excess medium-hot and fry
•1 tsp mustard liquid out of bread. frikadellen on both sides
•1 tsp dried marjoram 4. Place all ingredients until browned. Lower
•1 tsp paprika (except oil) in a large the heat and continue
•¼ tsp ground ginger bowl. Using your hands, to cook until cooked
•⅛ tsp mace or nutmeg mix thoroughly until through.
•⅛ tsp ground meat is smooth. 8. Serve on a bread
coriander 5. Form into balls and roll with a dash of sauce
•2 tbls olive oil slightly flatten. Cover and salad vegetables of
•4 bread rolls and chill in fridge for your choice.
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...DIFFERENTLY
Commuter Chaos
Hundreds of small boats
called dinghy noukas are
moored in the river port of
Dhaka, the capital of
Bangladesh. In them, ferrymen
transport workers, goods and
tourists across the Buriganga
River every day. It’s the lifeline
of the metropolis, which has a
population of around 22 million
and is one of the most densely
populated cities in
the world.
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HEALTH
DEMENTIA
60 november 2022
WARNING
SIGNS
A guide to
13 symptoms
you should
never ignore
BY Mark Witten
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2014, his patchy vision almost killed also forecasted that the prevalence
him when he slid into a ditch during of dementia will increase from an
bad weather. He was unharmed but estimated 57.4 million cases globally
his anxiety mounted, and he decided in 2019 to an estimated 152.8 million
to talk to his family doctor. cases in 2050, largely due to popula-
When Chow described his difficul- tion growth and ageing.
ties with typing and driving – both Early detection of dementia is im-
related to motor skills – his physi- portant so that the person diagnosed,
cian referred him to a specialist in and their family members, can take
Parkinson’s disease. That condition steps to slow and mitigate the ef-
was ruled out. In May 2014, Chow fects of the disease through lifestyle
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“The first time I knew Steve had a YOU SEE THINGS
problem was when he called me from THAT AREN’T THERE
Dr Tartaglia’s office,” says his wife Eva.
Once the diagnosis was made, she re- Recurring visual hallucinations may
alised there had been clues. She just be an early symptom of Lewy body
hadn’t been aware of what to look for. or Parkinson’s disease dementia, al-
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animals and people that aren’t real. found speech changes more than a
“Sometimes the hallucinations are decade before he was diagnosed with
quite frightening, like seeing a wolf Alzheimer’s.
or a bear trying to break through To assess whether your word-find-
the window,” says Dr Hsiung. “Oth- ing challenges are related to a shrink-
er times they’re more positive, like age in the language areas of your
a grandmother who looks out the brain, pay attention to when and how
window and sees her grandchildren often this happens. It could simply be
playing, but no one is there.” a result of being tired or stressed and
Researchers believe that visual can be caused by anxiety, depression,
hallucinations may be caused by stroke and delirium.
4Y
damage to the brain’s visual-pro-
cessing system, in combination with
the disease’s disruption of the sleep OUR VISION IS PATCHY
cycle. The visions might be dreams
breaking into waking consciousness. Problems with spatial awareness
3
can be caused by cataracts or glau-
YOU STRUGGLE coma, but they are also an early
WITH VOCABULARY sign of dementia. This was the case
with Chow, whose first Alzheimer’s
A common early sign of dementia symptoms were caused by a shrink-
is having trouble finding the right age of the area of the brain crucial
words during conversations or when to his ability to accurately perceive
naming objects, sometimes substi- the world three-dimensionally. Dr
tuting the wrong term. People affect- Tartaglia notes that visual-spatial
ed in this way pause while speaking, processing problems are especial-
use filler words and frequently rely ly prevalent as a sign of Lewy body
on ‘it’ or ‘them’ instead of specific dementia, which can affect a similar
names for things. Researchers at the area of the brain.
University of Wisconsin-Madison “A patient with posterior cortical
found that these word-finding prob- atrophy may see the world in a patchy
lems increased significantly in the visual field,” explains Dr Hsiung. “If
span of just two years for people de- the person is focusing in front while
veloping dementia. driving, he can’t see things off to the
Language can even be affected side. And if he’s changing lanes, he
before memory problems emerge. can’t see other cars beside him.” For
An Arizona State University study his part, when Chow made mistakes
analysed former US President Ron- typing, he was having trouble seeing
ald Reagan’s press conferences and the whole keyboard.
66 november 2022
Stephen and Eva
Chow at their home
ability to do high-level tasks as an IT where you left your keys. But if you’re
specialist,” says Dr Tartaglia. doing this regularly, or frequently
Beyond Alzheimer’s, any other leaving the stove on or forgetting re-
dementia can affect this area of the cent events and conversations, this
brain – but note that an inability to could be a warning sign. Commonly,
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8
hippocampus – the brain area in-
volved in forming, storing and re- YOU’RE
trieving memories. It’s less often an EMOTIONALLY FLAT
early sign in vascular dementia and
Lewy body dementia, and rarely in According to a 2020 University of
FTD. That said, medications and Cambridge study, a lack of interest
depression can also affect memory, or motivation can predict the onset
so your doctor might recommend of dementia many years before other
screening. cognitive symptoms do, especially
7
in people with FTD, who may be di-
YOU’RE SUDDENLY agnosed as early as age 45.
BAD WITH MONEY Dr Hsiung cautions, however, that
apathy can sometimes be confused
A pattern of uncharacteristical- with depression; a psychiatric assess-
ly poor financial decisions should ment is often required to tell them
set off alarm bells. “When you have apart.
frontal-lobe damage, you lose judg- The key difference is how much
ment and can make rash, impulsive a person’s mood shifts. If someone
financial decisions,” says Tartaglia. becomes tearful when they hear a
“A frugal person starts giving away sad story, this could be depression,
more money or buying things they but it’s apathy if the person shows no
don’t need.” She’s seen patients who emotional response – which, Dr Hsi-
did significant damage to their fami- ung says, could be the beginning of
lies’ finances, as well as CEOs of com- Alzheimer’s disease, FTD, or vascu-
panies who lost millions. lar dementia.
OF DEMENTIA CASES
70% ARE DIAGNOSED AS ALZHEIMER’S
DISEASE
68 november 2022
Dementia Warning Signs
3. Lewy body
dementia is caused by
abnormal deposits of a
protein called alpha-
synuclein inside the
brain’s nerve cells. This
protein, which destroys
brain cells, is also found
in people with
Parkinson’s. Brain areas
involved in thinking,
movement and visual
processing are most
DEMENTIA, affected.
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11
It’s a sign that Eva thinks she over-
looked in her husband. Three years YOU NO LONGER GRASP
before Chow’s diagnosis, the couple FAMILIAR CONCEPTS
began to participate in dragon-boat
racing. Chow had always been a Problems with tasks that require ab-
well-coordinated athlete and handy- stract thinking, such as understand-
man, but during training he struggled ing numbers or reading a house plan
to learn the basic stroke technique. – especially if that was a strength be-
Motor problems are also common fore – are an early symptom that can
with Lewy body dementia, but other be caused by damage in the frontal
neurodegenerative conditions, such and parietal lobes. For Chow, this
as Parkinson’s and multiple sclerosis, presented as an inability to make
should also be considered. simple calculations, but it also im-
10
peded his long-held role as manager
YOU’VE BECOME of his family’s finances.
INSENSITIVE
According to a 2016 Neuroscience
Research Australia report, loss of
12 YOU’RE MORE ANXIOUS
empathy is a core symptom in some Mood changes, such as depression
people diagnosed with FTD. It’s relat- and anxiety, can be early signs of de-
ed to loss of grey matter in the “social mentia that start well before people
brain” (the parts involved in social begin to experience memory loss,
behaviour). These patients are una- according to a 2015 Neurology study.
ware of how their behaviour impacts Tartaglia notes that, especially with
70 november 2022
Dementia Warning Signs
13
“Eva is the model caregiver be-
YOU GET LOST cause she wants to do what’s best for
MORE OFTEN Stephen and encourages him to do
things,” says Dr Tartaglia. This has
Losing navigational skills and the included joining support groups for
ability to create a mental map of people with early-onset dementia,
your environment can be one of the practising daily meditation, and get-
earliest dementia symptoms. In fact, ting regular aerobic exercise.
in 2019, University of Cambridge re- But perhaps most importantly, with
searchers developed a virtual-reality Eva’s encouragement, Chow began to
navigation test that has proven to be share his diagnosis. “I felt better after
better at identifying early Alzheim- I told my family and friends,” he says.
er’s disease than some of the neu- “They were very supportive and it took
ropsychological tests currently con- a load off my shoulders. I learned that
sidered the best for early diagnosis. you should tell people what you’re no-
To better cope with this symp- ticing sooner rather than later and not
tom in particular, the Chows built a keep it to yourself.”
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PHOTO FEATURE
Nothing
But
SAND
Whether on the beach or inside our very walls –
sand is omnipresent and indispensable
BY Doris Kochanek
72 november 2022
A haboob – what the Arabic-speaking inhabitants of this Sahara
region call a sandstorm – sweeps across the Niger River in
Ségou, Mali. Haboobs can reach speeds of up to 80 kilometres
an hour and whirl sand up to heights of 1000 metres.
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Lightning releases all its
energy in just a few
milliseconds. If it strikes
loose sediments such as
sand, the heat –
followed by rapid
cooling – can fuse it into
hollow tubes called
PHOTOS: (PRE VIOUS SPRE AD) GE T T Y IMAGES/SA SCHA GR ABOW. (THIS SPRE AD) PICTURE ALLIANCE/ZB/MAT THIA S TÖDT;
fulgurites, also known
as lightning tubes or
fossilised lightning.
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Nothing But Sand
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Nothing But Sand
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Youri
Calmeyn,
FRANCE Mónica
Alcaraz
Loman,
MEXICO
Laura Antti
Fernández, Ahonen,
SPAIN FINLAND
78 november 2022
OPINION
Just
LISTEN
To Us!
What would young
people like to say to their
Aadya
Morone,
INDIA
Ben
Tooher,
Esmerelda AUSTRALIA
Chou,
TAIWAN
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t’s the way the world has always been: one generation
follows the next, and each has its own ideas about how
it wants to shape its own life. Some of the wishes and
dreams, worries and fears of today’s young people are
similar to those of their elders. Others differ quite clearly
from their parents’ and grandparents’. Reader’s Digest
asked young people all over the world: What do you think
about the world you’ll be left with? What are the most pressing
problems? What are your expectations? Where do older
generations serve as a role model, where as a cautionary tale?
“...that you have made marriage “I wish you had given a more positive
no longer a requirement for living example of what healthy relationships
together.” Lucas Perrault, 19, France are in a marriage or in love.”
Camila Baraya Almeida, 21, Ecuador
“...to my family because they never
left my dreams aside and they always “I wish you could have been more tol-
supported and motivated me. With- erant of more than just hair styles.”
out them I couldn’t be where I am.” Antti Ahonen, 22, Finland
Emiliano Toledo Mares, 21, México
“I wish you could have improved
“...that you taught me to be kind to Dutch cuisine. For years I had to eat
people from an early age. I find this bland cooked potatoes, meatballs
to be very important as an adult.” and cooked vegetables.”
Esmeralda Chou, 23, Taiwan Boris van Diemen, 25, The Netherlands
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Just Listen To Us!
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“IT IS UP TO
THE YOUNGER
GENERATION
TO CLEAN
THINGS UP”
BORIS VAN DIEMEN, 25,
THE NETHERLANDS
82 november 2022
Just Listen To Us!
readersdigest.com.au 83
“SEEING YOUR
ILL-HEALTH MAKES
ME DETERMINED
TO EAT WELL AND
STAY ACTIVE”
BEN TOOHER, 22, AUSTRALIA
84 november 2022
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LUCAS NG, 14, SINGAPORE
86 november 2022
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was trying to use up. So instead I research, you are finally in a position
went for a geographic system, where- to place the Larsson on the top shelf,
by they would be organised first by with the Høeg to its right, and then
continent, then according to latitude. finally the Tolstoy.
The books on the top shelf will I now have three books on the shelf,
come from authors who lived further with a further 400 stacked around the
north which, to me, is only sensible. room at my feet. At this point I give up,
If a European author is from, say, fearful of the effect of self-isolation on
Crete, you’ll find their work in the my joie de vivre. Better, perhaps, to
sunny climes on lower shelves. tackle the filing cabinet.
Book rearranging is a perfect activ- First to go are the bank statements,
ity for lockdown, as it requires exten- which sends me into a funk of despair
sive research every time you attempt after I realise how many years it’s
to put a single volume been since the bank
back on the shelf. Is I DECIDED TO paid me even a cent of
L eo Tolstoy closer RETREAT TO THE interest. I seethe with
to the North Pole, or rage. I then uncover a
does the top spot go
KITCHEN AND file of car insurance
to the beaten-up pa- REARRANGE papers, which – fol-
perback by Sweden’s THE HERBS low ing ten minutes
Stieg Larsson? Throw
in Miss Smilla’s Feel- AND SPICES of work with a calcu-
lator – prove that if I’d
ing for Snow by Dan- ‘self-insured’ back in
ish author Peter Høeg and, within 1983 and just banked the money each
minutes, you’ll be sitting on your year, I’d now be driving a Maserati. I
bedroom floor, surrounded by books also uncover three gift cards, all past
and entirely stumped about what their expiry date.
your next move should be. By now I have the contents of the
I decided that I’d organise them filing cabinet all over my bedroom
according to where each writer died f loor, fighting for space with the
– so, the Astapovo railway station books. The whole thing is too de-
in Russia for Tolstoy, Stockholm for pressing to continue, so I decide to
Larsson and, well, Peter Høeg’s not retreat to the kitchen where I will re-
yet dead, but we’ll mark him down arrange the herbs and spices.
as Copenhagen. I take out ever y packet and jar
Then you check your latitudes – from various drawers and pile them
53.2098° N for Tolstoy, 59.3345° N on the kitchen table. What’s needed
for Larsson and 55.6761° N for Høeg is a method. I could divide them into
– and after a good ten minutes of ‘commonly used’ and ‘rarely used’,
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or into ‘India’ and ‘Mexico’, but that various sizes’. And then I discover
would involve too many closely de- a parcel full of pencils that need
bated decisions and I don’t want to sharpening, marked ‘Pencils that
involve my wife, Jocasta, as she is need sharpening’. I’m almost ex-
restacking the DVDs according to pect ing a jar labelled ‘Pieces of
how the productions were funded. string too short to use’.
I decide to go alphabetical with my It’s the most useless box of stuff
own work, but I end up ever col lected a nd
constantly chanting the I SPOT A makes me wonder what
alphabet like a six year BOX MARKED the miserable tight-wad
old – it’s the only way I ‘STUFF fool who inscribed it as
can remember the or-
der. Really, it is easier
WORTH ‘Stuff worth keeping’,
using handwriting that
to just leave everything KEEPING’. is so clearly mine, was
splayed a l l over t he I HAVEN’T thinking.
kitchen table. That way
Jocasta can sort them
OPENED IT I tip everything from
the box onto the floor,
out when she’s finished FOR 20 YEARS filling the small space
with the DVDs. that isn’t already littered
A las, hav ing abandoned three with books or discarded files. That’s
task s, I a m st i l l at a loose end when I find them, right at the bottom
when my eye alights on a box in of the box. There are two envelopes
the laundry cupboard marked – in marked ‘Tooth From Tooth Fairy”
large handwritten letters – ‘STUFF – each containing a tiny tooth, one
WORTH KEEPING’. It’s a box that I each from our now grown-up sons.
haven’t opened for 20 years. I open the envelopes in turn, al-
Oh boy. I open it up. The f irst lowing each tiny tooth to tumble into
thing I find is an envelope full of my hand. I find myself transported
old keys, marked ‘Old keys, unclear to another time and place. Which is
what they are for’. I then pull out an just as well. Because someone has
envelope full of envelopes, all with turned my home into a complete
dried up seals, marked ‘Envelopes, mess.
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HEROES
The Movie
Gets A
NEW ENDING
A producer discovers that the bad guy in his
real-life crime drama is innocent
BY Adrienne Farr
T
imot hy Muccia nte was been murdered in that tunnel. By
a n execut ive producer comparison, the officer told Sebold,
working on a film called she’d been lucky.
Lucky when something in In October of that year, Sebold said
the script struck him as a man on a Syracuse street called
odd. The film was based on the 1999 out, “Hey girl, don’t I know you from
memoir of the same title by Alice somewhere?” Sebold mistakenly
Sebold, author of The Lovely Bones. assumed that the man, Anthony
It recounts her sexual assault in 1981 Broadwater, then 20, was speaking
while in her first year at Syracuse to her. She became alarmed. Broad-
University. water looked vaguely like her attack-
It was late at night when Sebold er – both were African American and
PHOTO: MARVIN SHAOUNI
was walking alone back to her dormi- around the same size and age. Sebold
tory. As she entered a tunnel, a man called the police and Broadwater was
brandishing a knife grabbed her, arrested. Although he steadfastly
threw her to the ground and raped proclaimed his innocence, he was
her. The book’s title came from a po- convicted of eight felony counts, in-
lice officer who said a girl had once cluding first-degree rape.
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Timothy Mucciante
was sceptical that
the right man was
convicted
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CULTURE
The author
with her father
at age eight
MUSIC
PHOTOS: (GUITAR) ©SHUT TERS TOCK. (INSE T) COURTESY OF L AVINIA SPALDING
Of The
HEART
When I was young my father taught
me flamenco guitar. Now I yearn to be part
of that world again
BY Lavinia Spalding F R O M A F A R
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’ve been in Spain only two when I was five. Every afternoon at
days, and already my fingers home, I practised while my father
hurt. It’s a prickly sting like instructed and critiqued. I played
when a fallen-asleep limb scales till my fingertips stung and
returns to life. The sensation peeled and became callused, and
delights me. It means I’m by age seven, I was called a child
doing something right. prodigy. I attended master classes
Yesterday, after arriv ing – always the youngest student by a
in Madrid, I took the Metro to the decade. Sometimes I performed with
Delicias neighbourhood, walked to a my father.
nondescript apartment building and Then, at 11, I quit. Heartbroken, my
knocked on a stranger’s father distanced him-
door. A thin, softly spo- self. Guiltily, I followed
ken woman invited me suit. Soon we spoke only
i n a nd ha nded me a when necessary. Most-
$3000 guitar. “Can you ly we bickered – about
play something?” she chores, rules, perceived
asked. injustices. Our relation-
This was the reason I’d ship didn’t fully rebound
come to Spain. Because until, in my early 20s,
I once believed I was Lavinia Spalding I found myself pulled
destined to be a tocaora. MY FATHER back to guitar, and we
Forty-five years ago, resumed lessons. Our
when I was two, my fa-
BEQUEATHED closeness returned, and
ther also came to Ma- ME HIS he started teaching me
drid and k nocked on GUITAR. flamenco. Then, when I
st ra ngers’ doors. A BUT AFTER was in my early 30s, he
renowned classical gui- HE DIED, got sick.
tarist, he was enamoured I COULDN'T Before he died a few
with f lamenco, and in years later, my father
PHOTO COURTESY OF L AVINIA SPALDING
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and Jewish traditions. In time, fla- We’re almost the same age. Our fa-
menco emerged as an outlet for the thers died the same year. We both
poor and oppressed. It consists of began playing at five. But I stopped,
cante (song), baile (dance), toque and she couldn’t be stopped.
(guitar), and percussive elements Before my father died, he was
that include clapping, finger snap- teaching me soleares, a standard fla-
ping, and shouts of encouragement menco form. Determined to relearn
(like ‘olé!’), plus a more esoteric layer this in Spain, I came prepared, carry-
known as duende, the dark emotion ing a thick folder of sheet music, plus
at the heart of everything. a photocopy of a soleares arranged by
The rest of the backstory is mostly Paco de Lucía and transcribed by my
the stuff of late-night, sherry-fuelled dad in 1972.
debates. There’s just one final point Antonia is reverent of the tran-
of consensus: women scription but baulks at
can sing and dance fla- ANTONIA'S my folder. “Flamenco is
menco, but guitar pretty HANDS 90 per cent improvisa-
much belongs to men. EXPLODE tional,” she explains. She
It’s a good old-fashioned ACROSS suggests I follow along
boys’ club. while she plays falsetas,
Antonia spent her life
THE STRINGS or soleares melodies.
crashing that club. She LIKE Then her hands explode
began play ing at age FIREWORKS, across the strings like
five, despite her parents’ AND ALL fireworks, and all I can
objections. At 14 she I CAN DO IS do is stare. And panic.
found a teacher and by STARE And realise how unpre-
15 was earning money pared I actually am.
accompanying singers and dancers. She suggests I record a video of
When I met her, she’d spent 30 years her playing slowly. Back in my rent-
studying with masters, composing ed apartment, I watch the video and
and touring the globe, and was fi- practise fanatically until I memorise
nally recording her first album. But the falsetas. W hen my fingertips
her father died 13 years ago without start tingling, I’m euphoric. I run my
accepting her vocation. “He never thumb over them like they’re a row of
once said ‘Good’,” she confides. “He tiny talismans.
never said, ‘Olé’. I had to do this for Heading into our second lesson,
myself. I fought for my career, and I’m slightly more confident. As An-
it was very, very hard to grow in this tonia tunes her guitar for me, I’m re-
atmosphere.” minded of my dad – the way he cra-
I can’t help but compare our lives. dled his guitar like a favourite child.
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me. A delicate, lively string of
single notes, it’s as familiar as
a lullaby. “That!” I shout. Tears
blur my eyes, and then my fin-
gers are plucking along as fast
as hers. It’s as if a missing piece
of me is back.
My final lesson in Spain is sched- and spend every minute with these
uled on the last morning before I remarkable, revolutionary women.
leave for home, and coincides with Do I? No. But I do remember, fi-
a strike in Barcelona. Taxis are non- nally, what it means to be musical.
existent and the Metro has stopped To practise until something beauti-
running. I walk to Marta’s apartment, ful emerges. To live for the moment
arriving late, worried there’s no time when it all connects and you are
for a lesson. I need to check out of my elevated. And mostly, to share that
accommodation in an hour. magic with someone else.
“Tranquila,” she says. She’ll take me. I wonder if this is duende – an old
Marta doesn’t feel like teaching suffering transformed into passion.
me soleares; instead, she’ll show me I know holding a guitar doesn’t hurt
a rumba. “It’s like this,” she says, her anymore. It feels like a rekindling,
hands a dizzying blur of knuckles like the redemption of a broken
and skin. promise. It feels like joy.
“OK? Follow along.” Marta drives me back to my apart-
This joke never gets old. ment on her motorcycle, and as we
But she shows me again in slow zip through the streets, I experience
motion. And as I study her hands, a rare moment of pure freedom. The
I notice how her fingers form per- sense of something heavy being lift-
fect squares above the frets and her ed away.
thumb never creeps over the neck of I’ve long carried guilt and remorse
the guitar. And I hear my dad’s voice, for quitting guitar and missing my
forever correcting my form, holding chance to be one of the first tocao-
my wrist between his long, slender ras. Those feelings are gone. Now I
fingers and jiggling it gently. “Let it see how lucky I am.
relax,” he’d say. Antonia, Pilar and Marta had zero
So I relax my wrist and follow Mar- female role models. I have three.
ta’s lead, and a few dozen tries later, They had countless obstacles. I have
I get it. Not just the rhythm of the zero. I’m suddenly impatient to get
rumba but golpe, too, the trademark home, tune my guitar and practise
tapping of finger against guitar. all they’ve shared with me.
“That’s it!” she exclaims, and we And I intend to share it, too. I want
tamp our strings and play faster and to teach my son to play soleares
faster until we’re strumming in uni- someday. But I’ve ditched all my
son and grinning widely at each oth- sheet music now. W hen the time
er. And just like that, I’m no longer comes, I’ll make him follow along.
intimidated. I’m exhilarated and FROM AFAR (JULY/AUGUST 2019)
inspired and want to stay in Spain © 2019 BY LAVINIA SPALDING
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QUIZ
A VERY SPECIAL
JUICE
Ten questions
about the
liquid that
keeps
us alive
1
Biologist Karl Landsteiner was b) when broken down into
born on June 14, 1868. “Millions its components, blood can be
of people owe their lives and stored for longer
healing to Karl Landsteiner,” says his c) when blended with saline
plaque at the University of Vienna. solution, blood can stretch further
The Austrian discovered that: d) blood transfusions could
a) there are several blood groups save lives
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2 5
About five to six litres of blood Nanorobots that can remove
circulate in the adult human deposits in the bloodstream or
body. How far would all the ar- fight cancer cells is still wish-
teries, veins and capillaries reach, if ful thinking today, but in the 1966
they were lined up one after the other? film Fantastic Voyage, it was a form
a) from Singapore to Johor Bahru, of treatment. A team of scientists in
Malaysia – around 23km a submarine is shrunk and then in-
b) from Calais, France, to Dover, jected into the patient’s bloodstream
England – around 45km for brain surgery. The operation suc-
c) from Reykjavik to Sydney – ceeds, but then antibodies attack the
around 16,600km submarine. The heroes escape by...
d) more than twice around the a) entering the trachea and being
equator – around 100,000km coughed up
b) swimming in a tear from
3
Blood carries nutrients and ox- the eye
ygen. It contains billions of cells c) piercing the eardrum and
that continually fight bacteria, escaping out the ear canal
viruses and other foreign invaders in d) being urinated out the body
the body. What are these cells called?
6
a) haemoglobins About 45 per cent of our blood
b) leucoplasts consists of solid components
c) leukocytes such as platelets. With their
d) plasma help, the body stops bleeding when
we are wounded. However, platelets
4
When measuring suitability for also play a role in the development of
a blood transfusion, blood type some conditions. Which one of these
group as well as the rhetoric fac- four conditions causes this response?
tor is considered. This is either pos- a) athlete’s foot
itive or negative. Like blood types, b) heart attack
Rhesus (Rh) factors are not evenly c) lung infection
distributed. Most people worldwide d) diabetes
are Rh positive. In which part of the
7
world is the proportion of the pop- The European aristocracy – espe-
ulation with a negative Rh factor cially in the 19th century – were
particularly low? afflicted by haemophilia more
a) Africa often than the rest of the population.
b) Asia This is because aristocratic families
c) Europe mostly intermarried, chiefly to protect
d) Saudi Arabia their own privileges, but it also meant
the genetic defect responsible for the energy supplies. Fortunately, blood
disease remained within their own supply to the brain is continuously
ranks. How is haemophilia inherited? replenished. Do pollutants and path-
a) from mothers to sons and ogens pose a risk to the brain?
daughters a) No. The blood-brain barrier is
b) from fathers to daughters a roadblock to microorganisms
c) from fathers to sons and regulates what can enter into
d) from maternal grandmothers the brain tissue
to grandsons b) No. The kidneys eliminate
them before the blood flows to
8
The aristocracy are often de- the brain
sc r ibed a s ‘blue-blooded’. c) Yes. They accumulate in the
This term is based on an op- brain and hasten the ageing
tical illusion: as the gentlemen did process
not work outdoors they had an el- d) Yes. They can bring on a stroke
egantly pale complexion that re-
>> Turn to page 116 for quiz answers
vealed the blue-colour of their veins.
However, blueblood really does exist.
Who has it?
a) anaemia patients
b) horseshoe crabs
c) walruses
d) sea cucumbers
9
Accident victims are just as
dependent on blood donations
ILLUS TR ATION: GE T T Y IMAGES/FS TOP/MALTE MUELLER
10
The brain accounts for just
two per cent of an adult’s
body mass, but consumes Donating blood saves lives
as much as 20 per cent of our body’s
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Learn A
LANGUAGE
As An Adult
Contrary to conventional thinking, it isn’t too late
BY Emily Goodman
F
or more than t wo years, language are profound: increased
Dulcie Shoener has done travel opportunities, of course, but
daily German lessons on her also improved memory, focus and
phone. To some, that might the ability to multi-task. Bilingual
sound like self-imposed homework, brains are better shielded against
but Shoener – a language lover and cognitive disorders such as Alzheim-
sub-editor – doesn’t see it that way. er’s disease. And, according to a poll
“I enjoy it so much,” she says. “It’s a conducted by the language app Bab-
delight to be able to read a short story bel, knowing multiple languages can
in German.” make you seem more attractive.
To be able to read, write or carry on So, why aren’t more of us multi-
a conversation in another language lingual? There are dozens of decent
is a feat few native English speakers answers to that question, but one
PHOTO: TMB S TUDIO
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TRAVEL
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from drowning as logs are dragged idents even further back in the Nara
across the river-strewn countryside period (710-794) were performing
or from being crushed by a tree hur- similar hazardous activities in the
tling down a hill – has done little to name of tradition.
dull locals’ enthusiasm for this truly In a ceremony akin to the famous
unique festival. razing and rebuilding of the Grand
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monumental trees to their destina- with nothing but their own com-
tions by only the safest routes wasn’t bined strength.
worth the effort. Instead, they opted to Perhaps it would be easier if it was
launch the logs down the mountain- not for the lone resident strapped to
side – thus, the kiotoshi was born. the top of each log. Once sufficient-
ly airborne, this individual throws
ORGANISING ONBASHIRA lollies, snacks and other trinkets
While the rough, rowdy and poten- from his lofty perch. Unsurprisingly,
tially fatal kiotoshi might be the most whichever man is chosen to play this
eye-catching phase of the Onbashira high-altitude role every six years has
Festival, it is far from the only ele- come to suffer his fair share of inju-
ment worth taking in. ries over the years.
In fact, the kiotoshi is just one stage While the yamadashi and satobiki
of the overall yamadashi (coming out stages comprise the bulk of the On-
of the mountains) event, which sees bashira Festival in April and May,
the festival’s massive trees felled with somewhat more subdued celebra-
specialty tools and decorated in Shin- tions continue throughout summer
to’s sacred colours of red and white and autumn at shrines across the
before they embark on their peril- region. At least some elements of the
ous, five-kilometre journey through festivities extend until October, mak-
the countryside. Occasionally, this ing this not only Japan’s most danger-
means rivers must be ceremoniously ous festival but perhaps its longest.
forded through kawaogoshi, a ritual
river crossing by which selected trees FAMILY TREES
are fitted out with V-shaped branches It might seem unusual that Suwa and
to help with waterborne travel. its surrounding towns, an area with
Land or waves, it doesn’t seem to a population of just over 172,000,
matter when it comes to the Onbashi- has become the site of Japan’s most
ra’s health and safety record. Deaths hazardous festival. Like most of
have occurred in both the kiotoshi Nagano Prefecture’s cities, Suwa is
and kawaogoshi. tucked away in a narrow valley with
One month later in early May, the a modestly sized lake to its north.
satobiki phase kicks off, which sees In festival years however, the rural
the logs hauled through Suwa’s usu- town buzzes with an undeniable en-
ally quiet neighbourhoods and to ergy. Once a month, neighbourhood
their respective shrines. When the shrines hold classes to teach young
timber arrives at its final destina- children the kiyari (ritual chants of
tion, the participants then haul it encouragement sung as the trees
upright and insert it into the ground are transported). As the first day of
The monumental logs are erected in shrine grounds for the festival
yamadashi draws nearer, these class- they will become active in the festi-
es are held nightly. val themselves.” Just five years old,
For all the idiosyncrasies of the On- Oguchi’s daughter can already sense
bashira Festival, the atmosphere sur- something special about the parade
rounding it is representative of small of timber from Suwa’s mountainsides
communities intensely proud of their to shrine grounds. “The logs seem
local traditions. like ghosts,” she says.
PHOTO: GE T T Y IMAGES
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ABOUT FEELINGS central wood heating
on the first floor and
“It’s free, but very seri- gas heating on the sec-
ous,” he says. For his profile, he used ond floor,” replies Mr K.
a 20-year-old photo taken while on a They exchange photos. Antoinette
holiday in Spain. He cut his wife out. has long hair, a mischievous smile and
Although in his early 70s, he gives his a bust size that impresses Mr K.
age as 66 and states he is looking for “When I look at your photos I want
a girlfriend aged between 45 and 55. to ‘cuddle’, kiss and love you. I need
The rejections are sobering. But you,” he emails.
there are also women from abroad “Honey, you’re pretty and sweet
on Finya, many of them. “They write smile always looks up at me,” she
to you on their own,” says Mr K. This emails.
makes it seems familiar, like it used to Mr K can hardly believe his luck,
be, when he first answered the adver- and decides to pursue Antoinette. He
tisement in the Rheinische Post, only prints out all the messages so none of
more modern and with photos. their exchanges are lost. The vows of
love are piled up on the table on A4
“I’M A VERY OPEN and easygoing paper. That makes everything seem
woman,” writes someone named An- official.
toinette to Mr K, in German. “I like Unfortunately, there is a problem.
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Suddenly there is an email from a Offinso, the core working time begins.
women he last heard from in Febru- “We work the night shift here,” says
ary 2016. The beautiful American is Vincent.
writing again. “Hello my dear friend Well over a billion dollars are
...” she says. “I haven’t seen you for scammed every year. The FBI alone
a long time, it would be nice if you receives around 20,000 reports a year.
could send me new photos, I’ll send And these are just the known cases.
you some too.” Ghana is connected to a deep-sea
In the new pictures, the old ac- communications cable between Cape
quaintance wears a bikini. Oddly Town and London, the most powerful
enough, her name is no longer An- internet connection between Africa
toinette Nivon but Earlie Thomas and and Europe. Phone coverage in the
she lives in Texas. When I timidly say country is over 80 per cent.
that I don’t understand, Mr K raises Ghana is one of West Africa’s
his voice in the quiet of his dining most developed nations, yet global-
room and shouts: “Neither do I!” ly speaking is still poor. According
It would be wrong to try to rationally to the Human Development Index,
justify his actions, it’s about feelings. the country ranks 138th in a glob-
She writes to him. He writes to her. al comparison, behind Bangladesh.
She wants to come to Germany again. A school-leaving certificate does
Three years after the death of his wife, not guarantee a job. Relatively few
Mr K sends money for the first time – workers are needed to mine mineral
€380 (A$560). What does Earlie need resources. There are hardly any in-
the money for – a visa? A passport? He dustries outside the two main cities
says he can’t remember. of Accra and Kumasi.
Mr K transfers the money via West- While a full-time liar like Vincent
ern Union. It offers cash deposits, probably shouldn’t be trusted, you
cash withdrawals, anywhere in the can still hear his story. He claims his
world, often without presentation of mother died young. He is 34 years
ID. The receipt is still there, one of 100 old, has a wife, two sons and a daugh-
slips of paper on his desk. The paper ter.
says under payee: EARLIE THOMAS, His wife is training to be a medi-
Waco, Texas. No passport number, no cal assistant, but to do this, he has to
address, nothing. pay for books, uniforms and this is on
top of his children’s school fees, who
WHEN THE CLOCKS strike 6pm in attend a private school. “I’m a good
West Africa, it is already 8pm in Cen- father,” says Vincent. He recently
tral Europe. Over on the east coast of earned US$22,000 (A$32,000), work-
the US, it is approaching afternoon. In ing as a Sakawa.
FOR MONTHS MR K has been plan- her face behind an oxygen mask, with
ning for his girlfriend, who he believes pleading eyes. Dr Frimpong also at-
lives in the US, to move to Germany. taches an invoice for €950 (A$1400).
Earlie emails him a scanned copy of Unfortunately, the patient lacks insur-
her passport. Earlie floods his inbox: ance, but he would like to continue
“If I could describe the love I have for with the medical treatment.
you...”; “If only I could put my love for
you into words...”. FROM GHANA, VINCENT is able to or-
Unlike Antoinette, Earlie does not ganise emotional kidnappings of his
want Mr K to send her money for the victims via his phone. So he doesn’t
flight. Instead, she suggests he trans- accidentally lose sight of the small
fer money into the ac- developments im-
count of a travel agen- pacting each of these
cy in Texas where she EARLIE PROMISES ‘women’, his phone
can book a ticket.
Delays persist. Ear-
TO SETTLE ALL constantly vibrates
and flashes, report-
lie emails Mr K that DEBTS WITH HIM. ing incoming emails
her stepfather, in SHE’S AN HEIRESS to inboxes across sev-
Ghana, has died. She
has to go to Africa,
NOW eral email accounts.
Vincent plays many
where she will be able roles – women, doc-
to collect an inheritance. Mr K pays tors, lawyers.
about €500 (A$750) for a new plane Like every successful business,
ticket. Earlie promises to settle all scamming has also become insti-
debts with him. She’s an heiress now. tutionalised. Only a few operators
It’s the last days of 2016. Mr K work for themselves. A love mafia has
doesn’t hear from his girlfriend for a grown, organised in groups. Experts
while. Then, in January 2017, he re- for image processing exist within
ceives an email from a Dr Frimpong these criminal networks, each one
from Accra: “Hello, Mr K, Earlie asked skilled in Photoshop and Illustrator
for me to contact you.” It seems that and able to create fake passports,
after arriving in Africa, Earlie was in- degree certificates and just about
volved in a car accident. The driver any type of photo. For them, putting
was killed. “But your partner has sur- a woman in a hospital bed is no big
vived, which is the most important deal. Nor is making a passport for her.
thing.” Dr Frimpong says he is Earlie’s When Earlie is released from the
treating doctor. hospital after her accident, she sends
Mr K also receives new photos: a Mr K an email thanking him for his
car wreck, Earlie in the hospital bed, help and for the “wonderful support
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given to me all day and night”. Dis- during which Earlie waves to Mr K,
charged from hospital, she now has but unfortunately the audio doesn’t
time to take care of her deceased step- work.
father’s sizeable inheritance. Earlie reports from Accra that
To keep Mr K in the know, Earlie Ghana’s tax laws require inheritances
sends him a copy of her stepfather’s to be taxed, and that she has received
will, which according to the letterhead a bill of €1,015,000 (A$1.5million) to
has been filed with the High Court of access and export the inheritance.
Justice in Accra. The deceased, Wilson Luckily, the boss of the security com-
Bernard Thomas, traded commodities pany, a Mr Saw, was able to negotiate
for a living. According with the tax office
to the will, he has be- and has managed
queathed Earlie, his MR K BEGINS TO to have the tax re-
step-daughter, exact- SCRAPE TOGETHER duced to €26,500
ly 7631 kilograms of
gold and diamonds
HIS ASSETS. HIS (A$40,000). In Africa,
it’s all about con-
and US$800 million SUPPORT OF EARLIE tacts, and Earlie is
in cash. This impres- HAS NOW REACHED grateful that Mr Saw
sive bequest is safely
locked in vaults owned
FIVE FIGURES was able to do this
on her behalf. If Mr
by security company K pays her the sum,
PMS Logistics. The inheritance will Earlie commits to giving him part of
only be handed over to Earlie if she is the inheritance. But she doesn’t want
married. to open the safes in Ghana, for fear of
Mr K marries Earlie in absentia and it being stolen from her.
pays a fee of €3000 (A$4500) to a reg- From then on, Mr K began receiv-
istrar named Esther Acquah. Payment ing emails from the boss of the se-
requests from Ghana are always for curity company, Mr Saw. His emails
Western currencies. Mr K’s payments have an urgent tone as he urges Mr K
to Earlie have now reached four-digit to act quickly as he can’t be expected
figures. He receives an email with a to bribe the authorities at the tax of-
receipt and marriage certificate at- fice forever. Given the large amount
tached. of money, Mr K tells Earlie that he
Now newlyweds, Earlie and Mr K wants to speak with the authorities
email almost every day. They also himself. Earlie intervenes and asks
speak on the phone once, says Mr him: “I don’t want you to call them, I
K, and during the call he spoke with was told that people want to scam us
a woman. Another time he manages because they know how much money
to establish a short video connection is involved.”
A few days later, Mr K’s doorbell w ith reclining chairs, telev ision
rings. He opens the door to find a screens, and air conditioning. His
DHL delivery guy standing there. He best clients include scammers, the
hands over a yellow express envelope ‘Sakawa boys’.
from Ghana. It is heavy, bulging, and He has heard them talking dis-
rattles. It is from Earlie and contains missively about these old men in the
the safe deposit keys. After all, he’s the West: how can these old people im-
only one she trusts. agine that a young woman is interest-
Mr K begins to scrape together his ed in them? Where is their humility?
assets. His support of Earlie has now Revenge for Africa also forms part
reached five figures. To raise more of their motive: Sakawa bring back
money, he sells an inherited house of what was once stolen. The forts from
a deceased relative. which the colonial rulers conquered
A year passes, then another. Earlie’s the continent, where they loaded gold
calls for money continues unrelent- and forced slaves onto ships, still
ingly because she’s now under pres- stand on Ghana’s coast.
sure after telling some Africans about To this day, whites are called ‘obro-
the gold and now she has to bribe ni’ in Ghana. The words ob ‘bad’ and
them. Her emails to Mr K are now roni ‘human’ form the meaning of the
headed: “It’s urgent, my dear.” compound word.
It is not easy to look into Mr K’s soul.
At times he sounds as if his love for IN AUGUST 2019 – six years after the
Earlie has cooled off a bit: she’s stupid, death of his wife, five years after An-
trusts the wrong people and always toinette and three years after she
causes him new problems. turned into Earlie – Mr K found hope
Today Mr K puts it like this: over again. Earlie emails him that she’ll be
time he decided to remain loyal to boarding the plane in a few days in
her, primarily for financial reasons. “I the company of Mr Saw, the security
had to pay if I ever wanted to realise company owner. He is accompanying
my claims,” he says, seemingly to hold her to ensure the safes, with the gold,
onto her like a stock that continues to diamonds and cash, make it into, and
fall, but with the hope that it will rise out of, the plane’s fuselage.
again, eventually. “Baby, here is the information about
my flights, my dear. Kotoka Interna-
IN GHANA , there are many theories tional Airport Accra – London Heath-
on why these scams work so effec- row – Dusseldorf.”
tively. One theory comes from Joe, Earlie and Mr Saw don’t make it to
a haulage contractor who owns ten Dusseldorf. She is arrested in London
luxury coaches, each one equipped because of problems with the safe’s
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At the capital’s Central Registry Of- this woman’s photos. Each one is the
fice, the director says marriage certif- fantasy women of an innocent victim.
icates were stolen some time ago. The The one face has been called Anita
document is genuine and at the same Johnson, Ashelly Cole, Shakira Dale,
time invalid, because a marriage in Rachel Aasomani. And Earlie Thomas.
absentia is not legal. “It can never be a man,” Mr K says
At the High Court, a registrar takes after hearing all the findings, doubting
the will bequeathing the gold-dia- the information. To Mr K, Earlie may
mond-dollar inheritance. He has it have only wanted his money from
appraised and writes a letter stating the start, but her greed and naivety
that it was not issued by the court, as proved that she existed. A fictitious
the paper is different. woman would only have been nice to
British Airways ex- him. “I’m convinced
amines the boarding by the honesty of the
pass Earlie Thomas “IF WE DON’T intention to cheat.”
claims to have used TRUST EACH OTHER, Back in Offinso,
to fly to London and
writes: “This is not a
IT’S NOT TRUE Vincent recently
bought a third car, a
BA document.” LOVE,” WRITES Toyota. He’s build-
The passpor t of EARLIE ing a house. “When
Lance Grover, with we move in, I’ll stop,”
the photo of the grey- he insists, then dis-
haired, side-parted lawyer, is in fact a appears into the dusty streets of his
photo of a former Navy Admiral James town.
A. Winnefeld. He once commanded In Germany, Mr K failed to get his
an aircraft carrier, now he’s powerless car through its registration check. He
against identity thieves. couldn’t afford the repairs it needed
The photo, which is said to show to be roadworthy. He sits in his house
Earlie in the cell at Heathrow Airport’s and smokes. He recently wrote a mes-
Police Station, is from the prison tele- sage to Earlie Thomas: “Today I had
vision series Orange is the New Black. a breakfast of three small pieces of
Earlie’s face was mounted on the lead- toast with butter and jam because I
ing lady’s head. had nothing else at home ...”
All the pictures in which Mr K’s Earlie doesn’t reply like she once
young, complicated love smiles, did. Instead, Mr K receives an email
winks and stretches out in bed were from a new woman. Her name is Cath-
stolen from a Californian woman’s erine Morin and she is French. It is the
Myspace account. Umpteen fraud- name of an actress who first appeared
sters have created false profiles from in films 50 years ago.
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I
t’s often said that the three most
THE powerful words in the English
GENIUS
language are ‘I love you’. But I
think there are another three
SECTION words that give them a good run
for their money: ‘I forgive you’.
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Mind same rush of electric charge in it that
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Yourself
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Practising forgiveness this sense of grievance helps no one
and actually stunts and restricts the
is essential for a direction of our lives. I have met so
happier life many people who hold a grudge and
it dominates their life. Lots of people
BY Dr Max Pemberton blame their parents for their prob-
lems, for example. It is an excuse – an
easy pass to flash when life gets tough
or difficult or things don’t go how we
want them to. These people wallow in
self-pity, holding on to their grievance
like a talisman.
But as I often say to my patients,
one of the scary things about being
an adult is that you’re responsible
for your own life. It’s also one of the
greatest things because, while your
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ups and downs of life are your respon- apologise. Sometimes people aren’t
sibility. Forgiving someone frees you sorry. This sometimes torments peo-
from the shackles of the past. It liber- ple as they think they need to hear the
ates you. word ‘sorry’ before they can forgive.
One of the amazing things about This isn’t true.
forgiveness is that it doesn’t actually I remember one woman I saw for
involve the other person. When you several years in outpatients who wrote
forgive someone, they lose their con- to her father who was in prison, for-
trol over you. Your emotions are no giving him for sexually abusing her
longer in their grip, your feelings no and murdering her mother. I was as-
longer at their mercy. tonished that she felt able to do that,
I think one of the reasons we are especially as he had never shown
so reluctant to forgive people is that any remorse for his actions. She had
WHEN YOU
what has happened is no battled for years in therapy
longer affecting you, or no trying to accept and under-
longer matters. That’s not FORGIVE stand what had happened,
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– it’s what we are all striving THEIR apologise, which he nev-
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OVER YOU
ness puts the person who found peace in forgiving
is doing it in a position of him unconditionally.
incredible power. It neuters “The day I decided to for-
the perpetrator. give him, I felt a weight lift off me,” she
I do a lot of work around forgive- explained. “It didn’t matter that he
ness with my patients. I think most wasn’t sorry. I realised that until I for-
of therapy has forgiveness at its core gave him, he would always have pow-
– forgiving yourself and forgiving oth- er over me. I was always his victim.”
ers. Understanding that people are She showed me that forgiveness is
complex and are capable of hurting about freeing yourself. It is a display
you either intentionally or uninten- of power – of asserting your authority
tionally and how you deal with that and taking back control. Forgiving
and move on can take years, but is someone and moving on is one of
ultimately incredibly rewarding. Most life’s true joys.
of us can console ourselves with the
idea that the person we are forgiving Dr Max Pemberton is a hospital
is sorry. But that’s not always the case. doctor, author and columnist and
Sometimes people die before they can currently works in mental health.
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162 ONLY $2 POSTAGE. USE CODE RM229S WHEN ORDERING Offer ends 30/11/22
Feast Bamboo Cheese Board Set – complete with speciality cutters!
Here’s a cheese board with
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SAV
!
everything you need for the
$20
Entertain your
guests in style! perfect platter. It measures
34.5 x 29.5 cm so there’s
plenty of room for a generous
Drawer selection as well as crackers.
closes Made from bamboo – attractive,
neatly environmentally friendly and
practically maintenance free –
and, though the board is just
4 cm deep, there’s a drawer
holding four stainless steel
tools to slice and serve
everything from a firm cheddar
to the runniest Camembert.
Feast Bamboo Cheese Board
Speciality
Pretty way to serve • FBCB Was $59
knives included
your fruit & cheese platter NOW $39 SAVE $20!
Balmoral Castle
Jigsaw Puzzle
1000 pieces 69 x 49 cm.
• 67888 $34.95
3 seater
and Arm Covers
L-shape
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Super-Supportive Bra – unbelievable comfort! Designed
for lift,
Now you can have the extra support you need with the comfort
SAVE $10 comfort you crave. This flattering bra has adjustable and
Buy two sets
for $49.90 or
straps that cross over at the front to lift and cradle support
$24.95 x 2 mths without underwires. The fabric is wonderfully soft and
breathable, there are mesh panels to help you stay cool
and the wide shoulder straps won’t cut or chafe. Nude
It looks pretty, too, and comes in a pack with Pretty
lace trim
one white and one nude, with a dainty lace design
trim. Available in S, M, L, XL and XXL.
Extra Supportive Bras
• ESBR $29.95
Set of 2
Lacy straps wrap
over to provide
support
1 nude & 1
White white in set
CRISS CROSS
COMFORT
$2
Postage
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30/11/22
STARRING
Kevin Costner
4 Cute Perching
Santas
These Santas have fabric
legs that will dangle, cross
or bend, so they’re happy to
perch on a mantel or shelf.
17 cm tall overall, they’ve
been crafted from polyresin
then painted to capture all of
the festive details including
a fur-trimmed coat and hat
and the signature bushy white
beard, not to mention an
armful of presents.
Colourful Santa Position them
Perching Santas set to brighten to suit your
• PSNST $24.95 your mantel at space
The Set Set of 4
Christmas
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Magnificent Cathedral Revolving
LED Lights Musical
These lights look like slender, gold-coloured Christmas
candles, each topped with a warm white Tree
LED – much safer than a flame. And, Decorate this
with no less than 33 arranged in two rows, cute festive
the effect is stunning. 34H x 32.5W x 27 cm musical
8D cm and revolving
Striking powered
centrepiece Christmas
by 3 x AA tree with the
batteries 24 miniature
(not ornaments
supplied). supplied, wind
Magnificent it up and it
Cathedral will begin to
LED Lights turn, playing a
• CALGT Christmas tune.
$39.95 Plays a Christmas tune SPINT $29.95
while it spins around
Law
n M o w ers