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Foreward
The teacher was kind enough to allow the late comers into
class. Everyone settled in by 8:30, and finally the teacher called the
students to attention.
“Welcome, class. So, who has prepared our topic for today?”
the teacher inquired. This question brought a noticeable change in Prophet Muhammad Ē said:
all the students. Umar’s head immediately dropped, just like a plane
which had lost its engines and was entering a nose dive. He had not “He whose two days are equal [in accomplishment] is a sure loser”.
studied. Then, he looked up for a second, glanced around the room
(Sunan al Darami)
and made eye contact with those who had also lost their engines:
Hasan, Ali, and Saif. Contrary to this site of diving planes, across the
room, two hands sprung up. These students eagerly hoped to grasp
Abu Hurayrah relates that the Prophet Ē said: Class continued. The teacher decided to at least introduce the
subject for the class. As she discussed, some of the diving planes
"For him who embarks on the path of seeking knowledge, Allah will pulled out of their nosedives. Saif and Ali straightened up. Now that
ease for him the way to paradise." the teacher was talking, there was no threat upon them. They began
chattering amongst themselves.
(Sahih Muslim)
Umar was sitting next to them and whispered, “Focus guys. We
Comment: Time is a precious commodity that one should try to already don’t know anything.”
utilize fully.
“So?” Saif retorted. “It’s not like she knows any better or will
teach us anything useful. Remember that time in science class. We
were supposed to be learning about chromosomes and genes but
instead we studied ‘chronosone and jeans.’ Well, that was the way
she spelt it on the chalkboard. And she kept saying over and over
again, ‘Human have forty-six pair.’ Where was the ‘s’! Useless, man.”
Ali snickered a little, while Umar simply turned away.
The Prophet Ē said:
“Seek knowledge and train to be dignified and calm while seeking
knowledge, and humble yourselves with those whom you learn
from.”
(Tabaraani)
Amr bin Shu`aib on the authority of his father who heard it from
his father reported, Messenger of Allah Ē said:
“He is not one of us who shows no mercy to younger ones and does
not acknowledge the honour due to our elders.”
(Sunan Al Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud)
“Ok, class. We’ll meet again after our break,” announced the
teacher. “Where’s the attendance sheet?”
“I need to sign my name real quick,” Umar replied. While he
went to get the sheet from Ali, a thought came in his mind. Jamal
had asked him to mark his proxy today. As Umar’s hand reached for
that sheet, his ears became warm. His heart throbbed. Signing
proxies always created this uneasiness, but his friend would be at a
loss if he did not mark it.
The sheet received only one signature. Umar handed it to the
teacher.
“I don’t need to check it, do I?” the teacher asked. “I trust you.”
“A man will follow the way of his close friends, so let one of you look
to whom he takes as a close friend.”
(Sunan Al Tirmidhi)
Jamal changed the topic and asked, “Did you hear about
Ahmed?”
Commentary: Friends can gain much from each other by spending “Um, no,” Umar said.
time together. When with a group of friends, one might want
consider his or her actions carefully, as he or she might be rubbing “Well. Do you remember how Ahmed used to blab on and on
off on or influencing others. about getting a new car?”
“Yea, he told me about that.”
Prophet Muhammad Ē said: “Oh,” Jamal mocked Ahmed’s voice, “This new car so many
cool features. It can go really, really fast. It has a TV and a fridge. It
“Insulting a Muslim is disobedience to Allah.” can even drive up walls. Blah, blah, blah. And remember how he
(Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim) made fun of your car?”
Umar sighed. He remembered the first day Ahmed brought his
brand new car to school. Everyone flocked to Ahmed and begged him
to drive them around the city. Just a few months ago, all the "Have no desire for this world, Allah will love you; and have no desire
attention was on Umar because he had just bought a new car. Now for what people possess, and the people will love you.''
things changed; his heart craved just a little for the people to come
back to him. (Sunan ibn Majah)
“Well, that loser’s car got stolen yesterday!” Jamal started Prophet Muhammad Ē said:
laughing. His face was beaming with joy. “He is so dumb!” “Do not look to those above you. Look to those below you, as it will
Umar let out a small smile because he did not want Jamal to more likely remind you of Allah’s favors bestowed on you.”
think his story was not as entertaining as he felt it was. Even though (Sahih Bukhari)
Ahmed had lost the one thing which had entertained the crowd,
Umar did not seem to enjoy his loss that much. His heart had been Prophet Muhammad Ē said:
tinged with jealously but not enough to allow Umar to delight in
Ahmed’s misfortune. "Do you know what backbiting is?" They said, "God and His
Messenger know best." He then said, "It is to say something about
your brother that he would dislike." Someone asked him, "But what if
what I say is true?" The Messenger of God Ē said, "If what you say
about him is true, you are backbiting him, but if it is not true then you
have slandered him."
(Sahih Muslim)
Commentary: If one happens to be present in an ongoing discussion
about someone else, try to change the subject before it heads down
the wrong way.
“Let’s go outside. There are too many people here and there’s
no place to sit,” Sara said. Immad followed Sara as she went out. The Prophet Ē said:
"A man is never alone with a woman except that Satan is the third
one.”
(Sunan Al Tirmidhi)
During the break, a few classmates stepped outside for some
Commentary: Islam is a beautiful and complete religion and has laid fresh air. As they roamed around in the afternoon sun, Ali, Saif, and a
guidelines for every situation. Unnecessary interaction between the few other boys were drawn to “their spot.” The spot was simply a
genders should try to be avoided. secluded alley, littered with some trash and cigarette butts.
“Hey, you got a light?” One of the boys gave Saif a matchbox.
Most of the boys were occupied with their cigarettes. Smoke
permeated the entire group as the boys stood in their spot calmly and
coolly.
“Do you want a smoke, Ali?” asked Saif.
“You know I don’t smoke,” replied Ali.
“What! Are you really a man?”
Ali did not enjoy being in the presence of smoke, but he felt
bound to stay with his friends.
Commentary: Today, it is well known that tobacco has many
deleterious effects on the body ranging from something as simple as
bad odor to serious diseases like a variety of cancers. Usually tobacco
receives all of the bad publicity but unhealthy foods, for example, can
also cause significant health problems.
"A person will not be able to move on the Day of Judgment until he
is asked about ... his body as to what he engaged it in."
(Sunan Al Timridhi)
else from escaping. He thought, “What have I done? Oh, forgive me,
Allah.”
“And do not extend your eyes toward that by which We have given “Oh, just another ordinary day. Well, would you like a snack?”
enjoyment to [some] categories of them, [its being but] the splendor “Nah. I already ate lunch.”
of worldly life by which We test them. And the provision of your Lord
is better and more enduring.” “What about you, Amir?” his mother asked. “You’re awfully
(Quran Surah Taha: verse 131) quiet.”
Comment: The feeling of being inferior to those people who “have it “Nothing happened. You just have to see my teacher
all” can be countered with the knowledge that something better tomorrow,” Amir replied bluntly.
awaits those who are patient. “Is everything all right?”
“You will never give up a thing for the sake of Allah, may He be “Mother, please! You can ask my teacher tomorrow, Amir said
glorified and exalted, but Allah will compensate you with something angrily.
that is better for you than that.”
(Classed as sahih by al-Albaani in Hijaab al-Mar’ah al-Muslimah) “Was there another fight?” his mother asked softly. “You know
better than to fight.”
“Don’t bother me! I don’t want to talk about it. You can ask my
teacher tomorrow.” Amir stormed out of the room. She kept silent. A A man came to Allah’s Apostle and said, “O Allah’s Apostle! Who is
feeling of anxiety had gripped Umar throughout this exchange of more entitled to be treated with the best companionship by me?” The
words, yet now a feeling of sadness encompassed the room, Prophet Ē said: “Your mother.” The man said. “Who is next?” The
emanating from his mother. Umar walked over and hugged his Prophet said, “Your mother.” The man further said, “Who is next?”
mother. The Prophet said, “Your mother.” The man asked for the fourth time,
“Who is next?” The Prophet said, “Your father.”
“I’m sorry. You do so much for us.” (Sahih Bukhari)
Comment: When not given properly, the advice from a friend can be
misinterpreted as an attack on character, instead of a loving gesture
of friendship. The person on the receiving end can try to keep an
open mind to avoid any misunderstanding.
Umar was studying in his room when he received a text “That’s a good idea. I’ll try it out. Thanks for helping me out. I
message. It was Imran asking if he was free for dinner. Umar gladly appreciate it.”
accepted the invitation because he had not sat down and talked with
Imran for months. “Things will be fine. Inshallah.”
The two met each other in a restaurant. The food arrived, and the two ate their delicious meal. They
continued their conversation and jumped from discussing school life to
“As-Salamu Alaykum, Umar,” greeted Imran. “How are you?” sports to politics.
“Walaikum As-Salam. I’m fine. And you?”
“Wonderful, Alhamdulillah. Let’s get down to business first.
What do you want to order?”
Messenger of Allah Ē said, Allah, the Exalted, says:
“Oh, let me see.” “My love is due to those who love one another for My sake, meet one
another for My sake, visit one another for My sake and spend in
A silence intervened as the two surveyed their menus, and charity for My sake".
then they finally ordered. Imran asked, “So how’s the family?” (Malik’s Muwatta)
“Well…” Umar was not sure whether or not he should burden Anas reported, the Prophet Ē said:
Imran with his own stories. "No one of you becomes a true believer until he likes for his brother
what he likes for himself".
“What’s on your mind?” (Sahih Al Bukhari, Sahih Muslim)
“Well, my mother was upset today because my little brother
has been getting into trouble at school lately.” The Prophet Ē said:
"He who relieves a hardship of this Dunya (this earthly life) for a
“That’s a tough situation. I can understand that there must be believer, Allah will relieve a hardship of the Day of Resurrection for
some tension in the house.” him; He who makes it easy for an indebted person, Allah will make it
easy for him in the Dunya and the Hereafter; He who covers a Muslim
“Yea.” (his mistakes and shortcomings), Allah will cover him in the Dunya
“The best thing you can do is reduce your mother’s stress. Do and the Hereafter; Allah will be in the slave 's need, as long as the
some extra chores; help out more around the house. Lessen her slave is in his (believing) brother's need…"
work load so that she can focus on the issue with your brother. You (Sahih Muslim)
can also talk to your brother and maybe find out what’s going on.
Spend some time with him. Go play basketball together. At home Commentary: An important part of maintaining a good relationship
you guys can pray together in the evening. You know little brothers consists of considering the other person’s needs, problems, and
enjoy spending time with their big brothers. So keep him company overall well-being. When in a group of friends, one can divert the
and maybe that’s all he needs to soften up.” attention from him or herself to others.
life; all the attention had remained on Umar throughout the
conversation. “I’m pretty self-centered,” Umar thought.
“What does he do different that makes him such a good fellow?”
This question acted like a seed which was then implanted in his mind.
He pondered for a moment. Then as if from some miraculous
nourishment, the seed sprouted. The nourishment which created the
answer to this question was the realization that Imran’s life seemed
prioritized. Not once did he talk about girlfriends, driving cool cars, or
buying fancy gadgets. He cared about respecting others; he cared
about the troubles of his friend. And it was obvious through these
actions that he cared about something much greater; that was the
remembrance of Allah.
Stillness held the bedroom. The new day waited patiently for the
night to pass.