Tips to deal with rude people

Rude people are everywhere. But how can you keep your cool when they want to
trigger your mind into that fury of rage and make your blood boil?

* Do not give them the attention they expect

This will make them go air-less, all the expectations they might have had
for making you mad
will turn to failure. A rude person doesn�t like that, they will just �burn�
in their own fire.

* Do not respond and just shake it off

The best way to deal with rude users who either mail you or call and harass
you is to just relax and do not respond at all. If you respond you will be putting
petrol on the fire. And you have better things to do, right?

* So what if you are right..

If a rude user tries to walk over you with assumptions about you or
something you do. Just ask yourself this simple question.. �Does the other person
deserve to know if you are right or wrong?� if you were right, would it make them
go nice with you? If they were right.. does it make any difference in your life?
You will save lots of time NOT paying attention to them

* To be rude or not to be
If someone is rude to you then remember one simple thing. A person is either
rude or they aren�t. If I am rude towards another human being then that�s how I
will be one time or the other with you too. But if my values my tradition my
religion is so well injected in me, I wouldn�t need to think if I am to be rude to
you or not, I will just be what I REALLY am. Rudeness comes out one way or the
other.

* Rude people at work

So you aren�t so happy with a co-worker who is rude? Well why are you
letting him/her be incharge over your emotions and feelings. Rude co-workers have
a plan. They want to make you feel as you owe them something and they are better
than you. So next time they be rude, either put them in their place nicely.. or
relax and do the �in one ear out the other� technique

* Rude people at home

Some people have family members that shout and are rude towards them. Well
look at it this way, atleast you are lucky you have a family, a brother, sister,
mother, father. Imagine those who struggle to find love in orphanages all their
lives and end up no where. But coming back to the point, to deal with rude people
at home.. do NOT hurt yourself, it�s not your fault. As the one �bullying� you
might have personal issues that they have to deal with. Don�t let yourself scar in
the process. Stay strong, smile and shake it off by saying in your mind �I am too
strong to be affected�

* Rude people on the road

Lots of times I get people driving in my lane just milliseconds after they
have given a signal to turn. One has two choices.. either to start abusing the
hell out of the other person from your car, something he may never hear OR the
best option would be to say �Oh that was close hehe man I am good with brakes� or
something similar. Just imagine how much blood boil you would save.. giving any
situation the comic uplifting makes any situation turn �cool�

* Rude people at a supermarket

 This is what I do often. No no not being rude. But whenever someone is
making their own line next to the till.. I am usually one of those who in a
friendly tone.. first smiles, and says �oh sorry sir I guess you missed the line�
There has never been a single time when a smile has resulted in a rude reply. The
thing is that us humans long for �smiles� and if someone talks nicely to us, and
that too �among lots of others in line� the one breaking the rules might not have
guts to come up with a good reason why he has to go before the five old ladies
behind you.

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