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GREETINGS

When we reach life’s greatest crossroads, the choice of the

decision we make must be done with much faith and love. My
dear friends, WENDELL & IVY have approached these crossroads
already with a lot of faith and a deeply nurtured friendship and
love.

Let us then offer our thanks to God for having led them together in
this love. Let us pray that He may bless and consecrate their
commitment to each other and that WENDELL & IVY may freely
and lovingly take upon them the task the Lord has entrusted to
them, to live for each other and their future children, their family,
their relatives and friends on their road through life to God. Let this
day be memorable for all of us for the Lord have given us the
blessing in witnessing this.

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Eucharistic Celebration of
Nuptial Vows
Wendell & Ivy

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Processional
Gentlemen march with ladies at their left in the following order:

BEST MAN
Mr. Donald Sabandeja

PARENTS OF THE GROOM

Mrs. Pilar Auman & Mr. Nicolas Auman

GROOM
Mr. Wendell Auman

PRINCIPAL SPONSORS
Dr. Ma. Janet Porcia & Mr. James Chapman
Mrs. Cecilia Blahut & Engr. Frederick Chiong
Mrs. Rita Malagar & Mr. Modesto Jordana
Mrs. Leonila Famador & Mr. Erlito Velasquez

CANDLE, VEIL & CORD SPONSORS

Mrs. Gracelle Auman & Mr. Florante Auman
Ms. Diana Auman & Mr. Benjamin Auman
Ms. Rowena Vercide & Mr. Romeo Seno

BRIDESMAIDS AND GROOMSMEN

Ms. Karen Remedio & Mr. Heinz York Molijon
Ms. Evangeline Auman & Mr. Kent Hayden Molijon
Ms. Sheila Auman & Mr. Rex Doncillo

RING, COIN & BIBLE BEARERS

Master Arnold Ochoa
Master Daniel Gabriel Seno
Master Vance Sydney Molijon

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FLOWER GIRLS
Mistress Allison Auman
Mistress Angela Christine Go
Mistress Patricia Porcia

MATRON OF HONOR
Ms. Sarah Vercide

PARENTS OF THE BRIDE

Dr. Heidi Doncillo-Centenera & Mr. Gabriel Centenera

BRIDE
Ms. Ivy Doncillo

OFFICIATING PRIEST
Rev. Fr. Patrick Joseph Martin, C.Ss.R.

END OF PROCESSION

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OFFERERS
HOST AND WINE
Mr. Amado Calalang
Mrs. Rebecca Calalang

CANDLES
Mr. Danny Go
Mrs. Alma Go

FLOWERS
Mrs. Gloria D. Seno
Mrs. Rosario Remedio

FRUITS
Ms. Cesaria Auman
Ms. Romana Auman

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 Eucharistic Celebration

Introductory Rites
Choir : Sing to the Mountains (To Be Sung)
Priest : In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the
Holy Spirit.
All : Amen.
Priest : May the grace and the peace of the Lord Jesus Christ,
the love of God and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be
with you always.
All : And also with you.
Priest : My brothers and sisters we prepare ourselves to
celebrate this Sacred Mysteries, let us call to mind our
sins.
All : I confess to Almighty God, and to you my brothers
and sisters, that I have sinned through my own
faults, in my thoughts, and in my words, in what I
have done and in what I have failed to do so. And I
ask the Blessed Mary, ever Virgin, all the angels
and saints and to you my brothers and sisters to
pray for me to the Lord our God.
Priest : May Almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our
sins and bring us to everlasting life.
All : Amen.
Choir : Lord, Have Mercy (To Be Sung)
Priest : Let us pray.
Almighty God, hear our prayers for WENDELL & IVY
who have come here today to be united in the
Sacrament of Marriage. Increase their faith in You and

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 each other, and through them bless Your Church (with
Christian children). We ask this through Lord Jesus
Christ, Your Son, who lives and reigns with You and
the Holy Spirit, one God forever and ever.
All : Amen.
Everyone sits down for the First Reading.

Liturgy of the Word

First Reading
Reader : A reading from the Song of Songs:
Hark! My lover! Here he comes springing across the
mountains, leaping across the hills. My lover is like a
gazelle or a young stag. Here he stands behind our
wall, gazing through the window, peering through the
lattices. My lover speaks. He says to me, “Arise, my
beloved, my beautiful one and come! O my love in the
clefts of the rocks, in the secret recesses of the cliff.
Let me see you, let me hear your voice, for your voice
is sweet and you are lovely.” My lover belongs to me
and I to Him. He said to me, “Set me as a seal in your
heart, as a seal on your arm. For storm as death is
love, relentless as the netherworld as devotion, its
flames are a blazing fire. Deep waters cannot quench
love nor flood sweep it away.”
This is the Word of the Lord.
All : Thanks be to God.

Responsorial Psalm
Reader : Let our response be: “I will bless the Lord at all times.”
(Please repeat).
All : I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES
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Reader : I will bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall ever
be in my mouth. My soul will glorify in the Lord that the
poor may hear and be glad.
All : I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES
Reader : Glorify the Lord with me. Let us exalt His name
together. I sought the Lord and He answered me and
delivered me from all my fears.
All : I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES
Reader : Look to God that you may be radiant with joy, and your
faces may not blush with shame. When the afflicted
man called out, the Lord heard, and from all his
distress He saved him.
All : I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES
Reader : The angel of the Lord encamps around those who fear
Him and delivers them. Taste and see how good the
Lord is, happy the man who takes refuge in Him.
All : I WILL BLESS THE LORD AT ALL TIMES

Second Reading
Reader : A reading from the first letter of St. Paul to the
Corinthians.
Set your hearts on the greater gifts. I will show you the
way which surpasses all the others. If I speak with
human tongues and angelic as well, but do not have
love, my speech is no more than a noisy gong or a
clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and with
full knowledge, comprehend all mysteries, if I have
faith great enough to move mountains but have no
love, I am nothing. If I give everything I have to feed
the poor and hand over my body to be burned, but
have not loved, I gain nothing.

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 Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it does
not put on sins, it is not snobbish. Love is never rude, it
is not self-seeking, it is not prone to anger, and neither
does it brood over injuries. Love does not rejoice in
what is wrong, but rejoices with the truth. There is no
limit to love’s forbearance, to its trust, its hope, its
power to endure. Love never fails.
This is the Word of the Lord.
All : Thanks be to God.
Reader : Let us pray. Please rise to honor the Holy Gospel.

The Gospel
Choir : Alleluia, Alleluia (To Be Sung)
Priest : The Lord be with you!
All : And also with you!
Priest : A reading from the Holy Gospel according to St. John.
All : Glory to You, Lord Jesus Christ!
Priest : Jesus said to His disciples, “As the father has loved
me, so I have loved you. Live on with my love. You
will live in my love if you keep my commandments,
even as I have kept my Father’s commandments and
live in His love. All this I tell you so that my joy maybe
yours and your joy may be complete. This is my
commandment: love one another as I have loved you.”
This is the Gospel of the Lord.
All : Praise to You, Lord Jesus Christ!

Homily
Everyone sits down while priest makes his Homily

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 Rites of Marriage:

Allocution
After the Homily, the Principal Sponsors and the priest will stand. The
priest will address the couple. All the rest will remain seated.
Priest : Dearly beloved WENDELL & IVY, you are here today
to seal your love with an eternal bond before the
Church. I assure you of the prayers of our community
that God may pour His abundant blessings on your
love and help you to carry out the duties of marriage
state.
And you, dear brothers and sisters, may I ask you to
help them with your prayers and accept them as a new
couple in our Christian Community.

Scrutiny
Priest : WENDELL & IVY, may I now ask you to answer
truthfully the following questions.
IVY, did you come here today in your own free will to
bind yourself forever in love and service of your
husband?
Ivy : Yes, Father.
Priest : WENDELL, did you come here today in your own free
will to bind yourself forever in love and service of your
wife?
Wendell : Yes, Father.
Priest : Are you ready to raise as good Christians the children
whom God will give you?
Wendell & Ivy: Yes, Father.

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Exchange of Consent
Priest : WENDELL & IVY since you wish to contract Holy
Matrimony, please join your right hands and express
your intention before God and His Church.
Priest : IVY, do you take WENDELL here present to be your
lawful husband according to the rite of our Holy
Mother, the Church?
Ivy : Yes, I do.
Priest : Do you give yourself to him as his wife?
Ivy : Yes, I do.
Priest : WENDELL, do you take IVY here present to be your
lawful wife according to the rite of our Holy Mother, the
Church?
Wendell : Yes, I do.
Priest : Do you give yourself to her as her husband?
Wendell : Yes, I do
Priest : Now please say together.
Wendell & Ivy: Grant us, O Lord, to be one heart and one soul
from this day forward for better or for worse, for richer
or for poorer, in sickness and in health, until death do
us part.

Confirmation of the Marriage Bond

Priest : And I, by the authority of the Church, calling on all
those present here as witnesses, confirm and bless the
bond of marriage which you have contracted in the
name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy
Spirit.
All : Amen.

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Blessing of the Arrhae and Rings
Ring, Coin and Bible bearers will come forward assisted by the Best Man
and Matron of Honor and will stand at the right side of the priest.
Priest : WENDELL & IVY we shall now bless your arrhae and
ring. Our help is in the need of the Lord.
All : Who made heaven an earth.
Let us pray. Bless O Lord Your servants WENDELL &
IVY with sufficiency of material possessions which
these arrhae symbolize so that they may use them to
attain eternal life through Christ Our Lord.
All : Amen.
Priest : Bless, O Lord, these rings so that Your servants,
WENDELL & IVY who will wear them may live in
mutual love and unbroken loyalty through Christ Our
Lord.
All : Amen.
Ring, Coin and Bible Bearers will return to their seats. The Best Man
will take hold of the rings and take his place on the groom’s side. The
Matron of Honor will also take hold of the coins and take her place on
the bride’s side.

Giving of the Wedding Rings and the

Arrhae
Priest takes the rings from the Best Man and gives it to Wendell and Ivy
Priest : Now give this ring to one another and say after me:
Wendell : IVY, wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty in
the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy
Spirit.

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Ivy : WENDELL, wear this ring as a sign of my love and
loyalty in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of
the Holy Spirit.
Priest takes the arrhae, from the Matron of Honor and gives it to
Wendell.
Wendell : IVY, I give you this arrhae as a pledge of my
dedication to your welfare in the name of the Father,
and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Ivy : And I accept them.
Everyone stands for the Prayers of the Faithful

Prayers of the Faithful

Priest : Dearly beloved, let us now pray for the church and for
our newly wedded couple whose marriage reflect their
union with Christ, Let our response be, GRACIOUS
GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader : For the Holy Church spread over the world, for its
leaders and for the rulers of our nation. Let us pray to
the Lord!
All : GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader : For the poor and the sick and all those in trial and
afflictions. Let us pray to the Lord!
All : GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader : For WENDELL & IVY that they may keep their hearts
united forever and all married couples. Let us pray to
the Lord!
All : GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!
Reader : That He may stir up the grace of the sacrament in all
the married couples here present. Let us pray to the
Lord!
All : GRACIOUS GOD, HEAR OUR PRAYERS!

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Reader : Almighty, Eternal God, look down with favor upon your
servants. Grant them to remain faithful to You and to
one another. At the end of a long well spent life,
reward them with eternal happiness together with all
those who love them. This we ask through Christ our
Lord.
All : Amen.

Offertory
Choir : Bless these Gifts (To Be Sung)
Everyone sits down and the persons who will offer the candles, flowers,
fruits, bread and wine will now proceed to bring in these gifts to the
altar.

Liturgy of the Eucharist

Priest : Blessed are You, Lord, God of all creation. Through
Your goodness we have this bread to offer, which
earth has given and human hands have made. It will
become for us the bread of life.
All : Blessed be God forever!
Priest : By the mystery of the water and wine, may we come to
share on the divinity of Christ who humbled Himself to
share in our humanity.
Priest : Blessed are You, Lord of all creation. Through Your
goodness we have this wine to offer, fruit of the vine
and work of our human hands. It will become our
spiritual drink.
All : Blessed be God forever!
Priest : Lord God, we asked You to receive us and be pleased
with the sacrifice we offer You with humble and contrite
hearts.

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Priest : Pray my bothers and sisters that our sacrifice may be
acceptable to God, the Almighty Father.
All : May the Lord accepts this sacrifice from your
hands, for the praise and glory of His name, for our
good and the good of all His Church.
Priest : Lord, hear our prayers and accept the gifts we offer for
WENDELL & IVY. Today, You have made them one in
the sacrament of marriage. May the mysteries of
Christ’s unselfish love, which we celebrate in this
Eucharist. We ask this in the name of Jesus the Lord.
All : Amen.

Preface
Priest : The Lord be with you!
All : And also with you!
Priest : Lift up your hearts.
All : We lift them up to the Lord.
Priest : Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
All : It is right to give Him thanks and praise.
Priest : Father, all powerful and ever living God, we do will
always and everywhere give You thanks.
By this Sacrament, Your grace unifies man and woman
in an unbreakable bond of love and peace. You have
designed the chaste love of husband and wife for the
increase of the human family and of Your family born
in baptism.
You are the loving Father of the world of nature. You
are the loving Father of the new creation of grace. In
Christian marriage You bring together the two orders of
creation, nature’s gift of children enriches the world
and Your grace also enriches the Church.

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 Through Christ, the choir of angels and all the Saints
praise and worship Your glory. May our voices blend
with theirs as we join in their unending hymn.
Choir : Holy, Holy (To Be Sung)
While the Choir sings “Holy, Holy”, bride and groom kneel down.
Candle Sponsors will now come forward to light the two candles. The
Veil Sponsors will then come forward to drape a white veil over the
shoulders of the groom and over the head of the bride. The Cord
Sponsors will then put the cord over the shoulders of the bride and
groom. Bride and groom will remain kneeling until after Communion.

Eucharistic Prayer II
Priest : Lord, You are Holy indeed, the fountain of all holiness.
Let Your Spirit come upon these gifts to make them
holy so that they may become for us the body and
blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ.
Before He was given up to death, the death He freely
accepted, He took the bread and give You thanks. He
broke the bread, gave it to His disciples and said:
“TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU AND EAT IT. THIS IS MY
BODY WHICH WILL BE GIVEN UP FOR YOU.”
When supper was ended, He took the cup. Again, He
gave You thanks and praise, gave the cup to His
disciples and said:
“TAKE THIS ALL OF YOU, AND DRINK FROM IT.
THIS IS THE CUP OF MY BLOOD. THE BLOOD OF
THE NEW AND EVERLASTING COVENANT. IT
WILL BE SHED FOR YOU AND FOR ALL MEN SO
THAT SINS MAY BE FORGIVEN. DO THIS IN
MEMORY OF ME.”
Priest : Let us proclaim the Mystery of Faith.
Choir : Christ has died, Christ has risen, and Christ will
come again. (to be sung)
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Priest : In memory of His death and resurrection, we offer You,
Father, this life-giving bread, this saving cup. We
thank You for counting us worthy to stand in Your
presence and serve You. May all of us who share in
the Body and Blood of Christ, be brought together in
unity by the Holy Spirit.
Lord, remember Your Church throughout the world,
make us grow in love together with Benedict, our
Pope, Ricardo, our bishop and all our clergy.
Remember our brothers and sisters who have gone to
their rest in the hope of rising again. Bring them and
all the departed into the light of Your presence.
Have mercy on us all. Make us worthy to share eternal
life with Mary, the Virgin Mother of God, with the
Apostles and with all the Saints who have done Your
will throughput the ages. May we praise You in union
with them and give You glory through Your Son, Jesus
Christ.
Priest : Through Him, with Him and in Him, in the unity of the
Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is Yours Almighty
Father, forever and ever.
All : Amen.

Communion Rites
Priest : Let us pray with confidence to the Father in the words
our Savior gave us.
All : (To be sung with both hands raised) Our Father who art in
Heaven, Holy be Thy name. Your Kingdom come,
Your will be done on Earth as it is in Heaven. Give
us this day our daily bread and forgive us our sins
as we forgive our debtors, and lead us not into
temptation and deliver us from evil. For Thine is
the Kingdom and the power and the glory forever.
Amen.

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Nuptial Blessing
Priest : My dear friends let us ask God for His continued
blessing upon WENDELL & IVY.
Holy Father, creator of the universe, maker of man and
woman, in Your likeness, source of blessing for
married life, we humbly pray to You for this man and
woman who today are united in the Sacrament of
marriage.
May Your fullest blessing come upon them so that they
may together rejoice in Your gifts of married love and
enrich Your Church with their children. Lord, may they
both praise You when they are happy and turn to You
in their sorrows. May they be glad that You help in their
work and know that You are with them in their needs.
May they pray to You in the community of the Church
and be Your witnesses in the world. May they reach
old age in the company of their friends and come at
last in the kingdom of heaven. We ask this through
Christ Our Lord.
All : Amen.

Sign of peace
Priest : Lord, Jesus Christ You said to Your Apostles: “I leave
you peace, My peace I give you.” Look not in our sins
but on the faith of Your Church and grant us peace and
unity of Your Kingdom where You live forever and
ever.
All : Amen.
Priest : The peace of the Lord be with you always.
All : And also with you.
Priest : Let us offer each other a sign of peace.
Everyone turns around and say to one another;
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All : Peace be with you!
Priest : May the mingling of the body and blood of our Lord
Jesus Christ bring eternal life to those who receive it.
Choir : Lamb of God (To Be Sung)
Lamb of God, You take away the sins of the world,
Have mercy on us. Lamb of God, You take away the
sins of the world, Have mercy on us, Lamb of God,
You take away the sins of the world, Grant us peace.

Breaking of the Bread

Priest : Lord Jesus Christ, with faith in Your love and mercy, I
eat Your Body and drink Your Blood. Let it not bring
me condemnation but health in mind and body.
This is the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of
the world. Happy are those who are called to His
supper.
All : Lord I am not worthy to receive You but only say the
word and I shall be healed.
Priest : May the Body and Blood of Christ bring us to
everlasting life.
All : Amen.

Holy Communion
Choir : Communion Hymns (To Be Sung)
While the Choir sings the communion hymns, the priest gives communion
to the newly weds and then gives communion to everyone.

Prayer after the Communion

Priest : Let us pray. Almighty God may the sacrifice we have
offered and the Eucharist we have shared strengthen

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 the love of WENDELL & IVY and give us all Your
fatherly aid.
All : Amen.
After the Prayer after Communion, the Veil and the Cord Sponsors may
now come forward to remove the Cord and the Veil from the couple.

Solemn Blessing
Priest : May the Lord Jesus who was a guest at the wedding in
Cana bless you and your families and friends.
All : Amen.
Priest : May Jesus who loved His Church to the end, always fill
your hearts with His love.
All : Amen.
Priest : May He grant that as you believe in His resurrection,
so you may wait for Him in joy and hope.
All : Amen.
Priest : May the Almighty Father bless you all, the Father, the
Son and the Holy Spirit.
All : Amen.
Priest : The mass has been offered. Go in peace and serve
the Lord.
All : Thanks be to God.
Choir : Final Hymn (To Be Sung)

Signing Of Marriage Contract

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ORDER OF PICTURE TAKING

COUPLE WITH PRIEST

THE COUPLE

COUPLE WITH BRIDE’S PARENTS

COUPLE WITH GROOM’S PARENTS

COUPLE WITH BOTH PARENTS

COUPLE WITH BOTH PARENTS AND SIBLINGS

COUPLE WITH PRINCIPAL SPONSORS

COUPLE WITH SECONDARY SPONSORS

COUPLE WITH MATRON OF HONOR & BEST MAN

COUPLE WITH MATRON OF HONOR, BEST MAN,

BRIDESMAIDS, GROOMSMEN, FLOWER GIRLS, &
BEARERS

COUPLE WITH BRIDES MAIDS AND GROOMSMEN

COUPLE WITH FLOWER GIRLS AND BEARERS

COUPLE WITH MASS READERS AND OFFERERS

COUPLE WITH BRIDE’S RELATIVES

COUPLE WITH GROOM’S RELATIVES

COUPLE WITH THEIR FRIENDS

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This special affair will always be remembered in our whole life not only
because it has consummated our wishes of being one, but most especially
because of your presence.

Thank you for sharing this special moment with us!

Wendell and Ivy

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