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Powerful Performance
How to Be Influential, Ethical,
and Successful in Business
Mark Eyre
Powerful Performance: How to Be Influential, Ethical, and Successful
in Business
Copyright © Business Expert Press, LLC, 2019.
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• Do you feel that your work and life should somehow be better
than it is?
• Are you on a treadmill, doing things you don’t want to do, with no
hope of getting off?
• Do you find it hard to say what you want or even to know what
you want?
• Are you intimidated by those in authority, whoever they are?
Join Mark Eyre on a journey to discover how you can be both ethical
and powerful, and that it doesn’t have to be a choice between them, in
business or in life. Through reading the insights and case studies in this
book and completing the self-diagnostic exercises, you will learn the nine
steps to ethical power. Mastering these steps will enable you to stand your
ground and achieve your full potential.
Keywords
assertive behavior; business ethics; ethical power; influencing; per-
sonal development; personal leadership; personal power; self-belief;
self-empowerment; self-esteem; self-expression; self-help
Contents
Introduction...........................................................................................ix
Part 1 The Concept of Power..................................................... 1
Chapter 1 Power Scenarios.................................................................3
Chapter 2 The Disempowerment Game............................................11
Chapter 3 The Inevitability of Power................................................23
Chapter 4 Noticing Your Power........................................................33
Part 2 Harnessing Your Energy................................................ 55
Chapter 5 Power Trips......................................................................57
Chapter 6 Your Current Level of Power............................................87
Chapter 7 What Matters?.................................................................97
Part 3 Applying Your Power Ethically.................................... 115
Chapter 8 Undressing Power...........................................................117
Chapter 9 Redressing Power...........................................................133
Chapter 10 Staying Individual and Connected.................................145
Chapter 11 Using Power Ethically....................................................157
Chapter 12 The Clarion Call to Power..............................................179
Appendix The Nine Steps to Ethical Power ...................................181
Notes..................................................................................................185
About the Author.................................................................................191
Index..................................................................................................193
Introduction
The people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world,
are the ones who do.
—Rob Siltanen
even though it might have felt unjust. But consider what it’s like now, as
we approach the end of the second decade of this millennium.
Nowadays, we might be born into a one- or two-parent family, and
it might change during our formative years. Corporal punishment is
history in schools. Empowerment and involvement are key buzzwords in
workplaces now, and religion is in decline in much of society. It’s hard
to say what class is anymore (even if rich and poor are obvious). We have
never had access to so much information, as opposed to being kept in
the dark. So, are we more empowered, and more able to control our lives
than before?
Yes, to a degree, although economic advancement may be more the
reason for this than anything else. However, when I watch the wars
abroad, the recent global recession, the conduct of the banks preceding
the banking collapse, the greed in the global stock markets, and the
behavior of business leaders, it is hard to feel empowered. I know I am
not the only person who feels this.
The danger that lurks in modern life is that power is much less clear,
less visible, and less obvious in all walks of life. Instead, power is de-
ployed subtly. This means that unless we are alert and vigilant, we may
become disempowered without even knowing it. For one example of
this, look no further than the literature on work–life balance. This de-
bate is disguised as an issue of choice. But I have rarely met anyone who
wants to have more work and less life! It’s usually the other way around.
We work because we need to earn money to live, and companies and
work organizations want as many hours out of us as they can get. One
way to do this without demanding it is to establish informal rules about
when people leave the office and pile the work on to make it harder to
leave. After all, you can’t leave until you’ve finished your work, just as a
child isn’t allowed to leave the dinner table before he or she has finished
their meal. Then there’s the laptop, tablet, and smartphone, all presented
as technology that frees us up. Yet many people now feel as if they are
chained to these gadgets.
It’s very easy to become disempowered nowadays. I’ve met hundreds if
not thousands of people personally who feel disempowered, disengaged,
and disillusioned. Even outward appearances of success cannot disguise
this inward sense that our life is not our own.
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During the last 25 years, I have encountered many people who have
had a significant issue with holding their own personal power. This has in-
cluded difficulties with being assertive through to being on a career path
they fundamentally did not want to be on, facing tough domestic circum-
stances or workplace bullying. The nature of my help has varied during
my career from a more practical helping approach in the human resource
roles I’ve been in to a personal development or coaching approach.
limitations and beliefs. Yet, in my work, I see many unhappy people who
are well read in this area. They seem unable to make the changes they
want to make. Many of them seem clear on the following things:
Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is
that we are powerful beyond measure.2
She goes on to point out that as we shine our own light more power-
fully, the effect is to encourage other people to do the same thing. In other
words, empowerment breeds empowerment.
INTRODUCTION
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There are many reasons why we end up fearing taking our own power,
and this book will examine them. More importantly, we will look at your
own power positions and how to exercise your power in a constructive
way to get more out of your career and life.
Mark Eyre
September 17, 2018
PART 1
Power Scenarios
There are two types of people who will tell you that you cannot make
a difference in this world: those who are afraid to try and those who
are afraid you will succeed.
—Ray Goforth
The purpose of this chapter is to highlight some lessons about power that
might encourage you to examine what happens to you. Outlined below
are some cameos of power in modern life; you may want to put yourself
in the position of the people in them. You might even recognize some of
them from your own experience. All of these are based on my work with
coaching clients in the last decade or so—managers, executives, and staff.
get around to doing my own job. With any luck, they’ll make me redun-
dant one day soon. Then I can go abroad for 6 months and think about
what I really want to do.
At least tomorrow, I can go to the football with my mates, have a few
drinks, and if my team win, that will make up for this week and make it
all worthwhile.
Jane’s assistant let me in when I called at the appointed time. I was ush-
ered in, the door closed, and the inevitable questions were asked in the
right order.
How It Feels
My name is James Anderson, and I have this deep sense of unease. Behind
it lies the feeling that right now I’m not where I ought to be. I’m not
doing what I ought to do. That life is not all it could be.
Every day, I get up, and from that point on I spend a lot of energy
getting exactly nowhere. My life is just one long treadmill. Now that
wouldn’t be bad if the treadmill was going in the direction I wanted to go
in. But it’s pushing me backward, which means I must run just to stand
still. No wonder I feel tired all the time.
I can see my tombstone now, and the epitaph somewhat hauntingly says:
Here lies James Anderson; he never quite knew where he was in life,
but he does now!
Parental Approval
“Well, you’re on a good career path, aren’t you, son, with regular pay rises.
You’re working for a stable company. You two still have time on your
side.”
“What about if I’m not happy in that job, for a start?”
“Why, what’s wrong with it?”
“I don’t enjoy it. I’m asked to do things that are dishonest, unethical.
There’s nowhere further for me to go there.”
“I’m sorry; I don’t understand why you want to go anywhere. It’s
secure. You’re well-off.”
“Yeah, like I’m in a prison palace.”
“What do you want then? It could be worse; you could be in the
armed forces.”
“Yes, it could be worse. It could also be better. Come on, Mum, you’ve
done work for charity. You know what it is to want to do some good in
the world.”
“True, Son, but you’ve got to look after your home base first. I did
that when I brought you all up. Your father worked hard to get you where
you are now.”
“I appreciate that; I really do. But that was your choice. And this is
mine.”
“What choice are you making son? To destroy a marriage—she’s a
great woman. To lose your job? Your house? Think what you could lose,
Craig, before you go tearing in.”
“First of all, I’m not tearing anywhere. Second, I’ve lost who I am,
and I want me back. Third, there are other houses, and big isn’t always
best.”
“We can’t believe what we’re hearing,” and so on. . .
The no-win game. I realized that’s where I was. It mattered not a jot
what I said. It mattered not how passionately I said it. My parents were
so used to prisons that they could not even see what it might be like to be
free. They talked like they were only one person for goodness sake—we
can’t believe what we’re hearing . . . I want a partner, but I don’t want to
be joined at the brain with her, putting on some sort of we’re united show
for the benefit of the whole of humankind. Their view might have been
OK for their generation—a comfortable prison was better than a lousy
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one. You had to marry and have kids—you had to conform. There’s more
choice now, if we decide to choose. I was deciding to, and they didn’t have
a cat in hell’s chance of ever understanding.
“Craig, we just don’t understand what’s gotten into you.”
“Life! That’s what’s gotten into me. A desire for life.”
It sounded like old Martin Buber had sold his life out and lost who
he was.
I heard that story when I was a teenager, and I vowed to always be
myself and think for myself. That’s an aspiration that is easier said than
done. This book will set out how we can do it.
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