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Ayla Castano
Shannon Sanchez
English 2010
7 March 2018
Have you ever been in the midst of conversing with someone, only to realize shortly
afterward they didn’t pay attention to a word you said? Have you ever been the one on the
receiving end of an interaction, and realized that you failed to interpret what another person was
expressing? While frustrating, these instances seem to be becoming more frequent and
acceptable in our daily lives. This is in part due to our over use and reliance on technology. As
Sherry Tuckle, a professor at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, once stated, “Just the
presence of the phone, reminds us of all the ‘else where’s’ that we could be.” This statement is
incredibly accurate as well as concerning, considering that we seem to be utilizing our phones
constantly. In 2016, Americans spent an average of nearly five hours on their phones per day,
which is approximately double the time spent in the year 2013 (Molina, SIRS). Furthermore, the
average person checks their cell phone over 100 times per day. Additionally, nearly 40% of
people check their phone while using the bathroom, and 1 in 10 use their phone while showering.
A staggering 56% of users check their phones before going to sleep and nearly 75% check their
phones after waking up. (Lage, Daily Infographic). In other words, we are eating, sleeping, and
showering, with devices that constantly push our awareness to people, places, and events that are
outside of the physical world arounds us. While many people deem the use of technology and
social media a revolutionary aspect of expanding communication, these mediums may have
unintended long-term effects on our communication, social relationships, and overall wellbeing.
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Communication:
The internet era is without a doubt, altering the way we communicate with others both
physically and psychologically. With more avenues of contact than ever before, research
suggests that although we may communicate with family and friends more often due to
technology, the quality of said communication is more feeble or weak. Studies have found that
kids who spend more time engaged with electronic devices (via iPhone, tablet, computer, tv)
compared to with other children or adults, have difficulty comprehending emotion and creating
strong relationships (Johnson, Deseret News). More so, the amount of time spent communicating
through these mediums is correlated with a lack of development in basic communication skills.
On the most fundamental level, texts, emails, and social networking sites do not suffice for the
communication such as voice inflection, body language, facial expressions, and pheromones, all
of which come in to context during face to face interactions. For many, this is a concept that we
are just beginning to recognize the negative implications of. According to Dr. Kate Roberts,
while current adults may utilize technical methods of communication as a means of saving time,
overuse of such mediums in adolescents and children can affect the brain. She claims that
Neurotransmitters are the chemicals in our brain that transmit information between nerves. They
also help to organize information collected over time as we age. In a normal development
process these pathways increase based on stimulation, like the sound of a friend or family’s
voice, touch, music, and play. However, for individuals that engage in excessive amounts screen
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time, these neural pathways change. Alternative conduits are created which ultimately affect
concentration, personal relationships, and self-esteem. As Johnson illustrated the concept, “Think
of it as the difference between looking at a picture of cool, green grass and actually walking
barefoot in it. The problem is that the more people and children interact with a person or the real
world through a screen rather than in real life, the less emotion is attached to the exchange.”
(Deseret News).
Quality of relationships:
Due to the fact that the use of technology is affecting our communication with others in
every way, shape, and form, it seems almost inevitable that it will also play a part in the quality
Weinstein for the University of Essex, the mere presence of a phone can hinder our attempts to
make interpersonal connections (Lin, Scientific American). In this set of studies, individuals who
didn’t know one another were placed in a private booth together and told to discuss a somewhat
intimate topic for ten minutes. A desk nearby the booth had either a notebook or a cell phone on
top. After speaking, the individuals where then told to rate their relationship quality or feelings
of connection with one another. The couples that spoke in the presence of the cell phone reported
The study was conducted a second time with the only difference being the topic of
conversation and survey questions asked at the end. In this instance, one group was told to
discuss a very casual topic while the other was told to discuss a more intimate or meaningful one.
The participants were then asked to rate their overall relationship quality along with feelings of
trust or empathy. Initially the cell phone did not make an impact on the group who had casual
conversations. These individuals that spoke in proximity to a cell phone reported worse
relationship quality along with less trust and empathy. These results indicate that environments
that lack the presence of cell phones appear to foster one’s perception of connection, trust, and
empathy. This is an empowering conclusion because the ability to establish such qualities are
vital foundations for building strong interpersonal relationships. Other studies have suggested
that the multifaceted use of our phones offer many opportunities for diverting our attention
therefore making it more difficult to be engaged with those that are around us (Lin, Scientific
American).
A recent photo series “Removed” captured by Eric Pickersgill and featured in The
Atlantic, attempts to illustrate the effect of electronic devices on our relationships. The series
focuses on a variety of social or intimate settings in which individuals are using their phones.
The photographer then removes the phones from their hands to emphasize the reality of
Figure 1 Couple: Mollman, Steve. “'Removed': A Photographer Captures the Isolation Effect of Cellphones.” The
Atlantic, Atlantic Media Company, 14 Oct. 2015.
The result is rather alarming. It draws attention to a phenomenon that takes place every
single day, in any location, at any time, or under any circumstance however, the imagery
provided forces you to acknowledge how unnatural this particular phenomenon actually is.
Effect on wellbeing:
Due to the rate at which technology impacts our communication and relationships, it is
beginning to make a significant impact on personal wellbeing. The use of social media is
correlated with higher levels of loneliness, depression, anxiety and envy (Silva, The Huffington
Post). Social media appears to perpetuate these effects through initial feelings of disconnection
and loneliness. Furthermore, loneliness has a reciprocal relationship with social anxiety
(Graham, Psychology Today). In other words, social anxiety can increase isolation, however, too
much isolation contributes to feeling more anxious. Social media can act as a catalyst in this
feelings of loneliness increase the fewer friends one has. However, the use of social media has
increased our perceived friendship networks. It also allows individuals a way to directly observe
and quantify relationships and then compare and contrast them to their peers. Hence those that
are unsuccessful at navigating this medium may suffer from loneliness, anxiety, and overall
social comparison. Upward social comparison consists of comparing oneself to others that
possess positive or desirable characteristics. It is largely due to the curated presentations of our
positive experiences on social media. While upward social comparison can provide inspiration, it
is also known to create personal dissatisfaction and degrade self-esteem (“Social Media Use and
Self-Esteem”, New York Behavioral Health). This phenomenon takes place excessively and
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more often than not results in feelings of inadequacy oppose to inspiration. According to The
Huffington Post 60% of individuals ages 28-73 that are active on social media, admit that it has
impacted their self-esteem in a negative way. Of these same individuals at least 50% reported
social media having a negative impact on their relationships (Silva, The Huffington Post). These
results are partially attributed to the concept of upward social comparison combined with
illustrated the concept “Just how different is the real world from the world on social media? In
the real world…Americans spend about six times as much of their time cleaning dishes as they
do golfing. But there are roughly twice as many tweets reporting golfing as there are tweets
reporting doing the dishes.” (SIRS) This quote illuminates the inconsistencies that exist between
what we do and what we are posting about. It is vital to understand this occurrence in order to
At first glance, it appears that technology and social media are a modern revolution to
communication. They allow us unlimited networking opportunities at any time, in any place, all
through the simple click of a button or swipe of a finger. The use of technology has also allowed
These advances have provided many innovative job opportunities as well as improved societies
overall standard of living. However, the reality of these inventions long term implications should
still be considered. While the amount of our social connections may have increased, the depth of
these connections has significantly decreased. In addition, online connections do not satisfy our
innate needs for belonging and human connection, nor do they compensate for the discrepancies
media has had a significant impact on our ability to communicate, the quality of our
relationships, and our overall well-being. However, the question remains, how do we go about
altering this world-wide phenomenon? The first step in creating change is creating awareness. If
we are properly educated about the detrimental aspects of our habitual technology use, we can
choose to disengage in such behavior. Moreover, we can influence those around us to do the
same by becoming a positive example and balancing the extent to which we integrate technology
Work’s Cited
Davey, Grahm C.L. “Social Media, Loneliness, and Anxiety in Young People.” Psychology
Johnson, Chandra. “Face Time vs. Screen Time: The Technological Impact on
Lage, Ayana. “15 Terrifying Statistics About Cell Phone Addiction.” Daily Infographic, 10 May
2017.
Lin, Helen Lee. “How Your Cell Phone Hurts Your Relationships.” Scientific American, 4 Sept.
2012.
Molina, Brett. “Do Smartphones Keep Us In or Out of Touch?” Sks.sirs.com, Aug. 2017.
Mollman, Steve. “'Removed': A Photographer Captures the Isolation Effect of Cellphones.” The
Stephens-Davidowitz, Seth. “Don't Let Facebook Make You Miserable.” Sks.sirs.com, May
2017.