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The Meaning of True Love Ce nseamn dragostea


Taking Love Beyond Words adevrat. Iubirea,
dincolo de cuvinte
Looking at the meaning of true love, Sadhguru
gives us a powerful process to take love Vorbind despre nelesul iubirii
beyond words and make it an enduring quality adevrate, Sadhguru ne nva un proces puternic
within. pentru a duce iubirea dincolo de cuvinte i a face din
aceasta o calitate statoric.

Sadhguru: The English expression, Falling in


Sadhguru: Expresia englezeasc falling in love (n.r.
love, is significant because no one rises in
se traduce literal a cdea n iubire) este
love or climbs in love. You fall in love,
semnificativ, pentru c nimeni nu se ridic i nimeni
because something of who you are has to go. If
nu urc n iubire. Cazi n iubire, pentru c ceva din
not the whole of you, at least a part of you
ceea ce eti trebuie s plece. Dac nu toat fiina ta,
should collapse. Only then there is a love
mcar o parte din tine ar trebui s se prbueasc.
affair. You are willing to destroy a bit of
yourself for the sake of the other. It essentially Doar atunci exist o poveste de dragoste. Eti dispus
means someone else has become far more s sacrifici puin din tine de dragul celuilalt. nsemn,
important than yourself. n esen, c altcineva a devenit mult mai important
dect tine.

Iubirea nu este un sistem de


Love is not a mutual benefit scheme
beneficiu reciproc

Din pcate, ceea ce majoritatea oamenilor nelege


Unfortunately, what most people call love is prin iubire este doar un sistem de beneficiu reciproc.
just a mutual benefit scheme.
ntr-o zi, un om pe care l chema Shankaran Pillai a
mers ntr-un parc. Acolo era o femeie drgu care
One day, a man named Shankaran Pillai went sttea pe o banc. El a mers i s-a aezat pe aceeai
to a park. There was a pretty woman sitting on bac. Dup cteva minute, s-a dat puin mai aproape
a stone bench there. He went and settled down de ea. Ea s-a mutat mai ncolo. El a ateptat cteva
on the same bench. After a few minutes, he minute i s-a mutat i mai aproape. Ea se mutase
moved a little closer to her. She moved away.
deja ctre marginea bncii. El a urmat-o i a pus
Again, he waited for a few minutes and inched
mna pe ea. Ea s-a scuturat. El a stat aa o vreme,
a little closer to her. She moved away. He
apoi s-a aezat n genunchi, a smuls o floare, i-a dat-
waited again, and then inched even closer. By
o i i-a spus: Te iubesc, te iubesc aa cum nu am
then she had moved to the very end of the iubit pe nimeni n viaa mea.
bench. He reached out and put his hand on her.
Ea s-a topit. Natura a preluat controlul i ei au gsit
She shrugged him off. He sat there for a while,
drumul unul ctre cellalt. Era deja trziu n noapte,
then went down on his knees, plucked a
flower, gave it to her and said, I love you. I Shankaran Pillai s-a ridicat i a spus: Trebuie s
love you like I have never loved anybody in plec. Este ora opt. Soia mea m ateapt.
my life. Ea a spus: Ce?! Pleci?! Tocmai ai spus c m
iubeti!
She melted. Nature took over and they had Da, dar e timpul. Trebuie s plec.
their way with each other. It was getting late in
the evening; Shankaran Pillai got up and he n general, am construit relaii ntre anumite cadre,
said, I need to leave. Its eight oclock. My care sunt confortabile i profitabile pentru noi.
wife will be waiting. Oamenii au nevoi fizice, psihologice, emoionale,
financiare sau sociale. Unul dintre cele mai bune
moduri de a ndeplini aceste nevoi este de a spune
She said, What? Youre leaving? You just oamenilor te iubesc. Aa-numita iubire a devenit ca
said you loved me! o mantr: Sesam, deschide-te! ncercai s obinei
ceea ce vrei spunnd asta.
Yes, but its time. I need to go. Fiecare aciune pe care o facem, o facem ntr-un
anume fel ca s ne ndeplineasc anumite nevoi.
Dac suntei contieni de acest lucru, este posibil s
Generally, we have maderelationships within
frameworksthat are comfortable and profitable putei dezvolta n voi iubirea ca o calitate natural.
for us. People have physical, psychological, Dar oamenii continu s se pcleasc, s cread c
emotional, financial or social needs. One of the relaiile pe care le-au format pentru comoditate,
best ways to fulfill these needs is to tell people, confort i bunstare, sunt, de fapt, relaii de iubire. Nu
I love you. This so-called love has become spun c nu exist nici o experien de iubire n toate
like a mantra: open sesame. You try to get aceste relaii, dar ea este ntre anumite limite. Nu
what you want by saying it. conteaz ct de mult te iubesc a fost spus, n cazul
Every action that we do is in some way to n care cteva ateptri i necesiti nu sunt
fulfill certain needs. If you see this, there is a ndeplinite, lucrurile se vor destrma.
possibility that you can grow into love as your
natural quality. But people go on fooling
themselves into believing that the relationships Sensul iubirii adevrate
they have made for convenience, comfort and
wellbeing, are actually relationships of love. I
am not saying there is no experience of love at
Cnd vorbii despre iubire, ea trebuie s fie
all in those relationships, but it is within certain
necondiionat. Nu exist iubire condiionat i iubire
limitations. It does not matter how much I
necondiionat. Pe de-o parte sunt condiiile, de alt
love you has been said, if a few expectations
parte este iubirea. n momentul n care apare o
and requisites are not fulfilled, things will fall
condiie, totul se rezum la o tranzacie. Poate c este
apart.
o tranzacie convenabil, poate c e un aranjament
bun poate muli oameni au fcut aranjamente
The meaning of true love excelente n via dar asta nu te va mplini, nu te va
transporta ntr-o alt dimensiune. Este doar ceva
When you talk about love, it has to be convenabil.
unconditional. There is really no such thing as
Cnd spui iubire, nu e nevoie s fie neaprat
conditional love and unconditional love. It is
convenabil; de cele mai multe ori nu este. Este nevoie
just that there are conditions and there is love.
The moment there is a condition, it just de via. Dragostea nu este un lucru mre de fcut,
amounts to a transaction. Maybe a convenient pentru c te nghite. Dac crezi c ar trebui s fii
transaction, maybe a good arrangement ndragostit, nu ar trebui. Tu, ca persoan, trebuie s fii
maybe many people made excellent dispus s cazi, doar atunci acest lucru se poate
arrangements in life but that will not fulfill ntmpla. Dac personalitatea ta rmne puternic n
you; that will not transport you to another acest proces, este doar o situaie convenabil, asta
dimension. It is just convenient. este tot. Avem nevoie s recunoatem ce este o
tranzacie i ce este cu adevrat o poveste de
dragoste. O poveste de dragoste nu trebuie s fie cu
When you say love, it need not necessarily o anume persoan; ai putea tri o mare iubire, fr s
be convenient; most of the time it is not. It ai pe nimeni n particular, cu viaa nsi.
takes life. Love is not a great thing to do,
because it eats you up. If you have to be in Ceea ce faci i ceea ce nu faci depinde de
love, you should not be. You as a person must circumstanele din jurul tu. Aciunile noastre se
be willing to fall, only then it can happen. If ntmpl dup cum o cer situaiile externe. Ceea ce
your personality is kept strong in the process, it faci n exteriorul tu depinde ntotdeauna de multe
is just a convenient situation, thats all. We condiii. Dar iubirea este o stare interioar felul n
need to recognize what is a transaction and care eti nuntrul tu poate fi cu certitudine o stare
what is truly a love affair. A love affair need necondiionat.
not be with any particular person; you could be
having a great love affair, not with anybody in
particular, but with life. Facei din iubire o calitate
interioar!

Dac facei parte din via, este foarte natural s


iubii. Fiecare fiin uman este capabil de iubire,
dar, din pcate, muli s-au mutilat cu tot felul de
What you do, what you do not do, is according sisteme de credin, opinii, filosofii, ideologii de
to circumstances around you. Our actions are toate, cu excepia vieii nsei.
as the external situation demands. What you do
outside of yourself is always subject to many
conditions. But love is an inner state how
you are within yourself can definitely be Iubirea nu e importat din cer
unconditional.

Make love your quality Oamenii fie mrturisesc c l iubesc pe Dumnezeu, fie
cred c Dumnezeu i iubete. Ipoteza este aceea c,
If you are life, it is very natural to love. Every pesemne, iubirea este importat din cer. Dar tie
human being is capable of love but cineva dac ntr-adevr Dumnezeu iubete sau nu?
unfortunately, many have crippled themselves Ne nchinm la Cel care a creat aceast mrea
with all kinds of belief systems, opinions, creaie o creaie care depete capacitatea de
philosophies, ideologies everything except nelegere a minii. Ne nchinm la Creator, dar nu
life. tim dac El este dragoste, bucurie sau pace.

Love is not imported from heaven


Iubirea este o creaie
People either profess to love God or believe
God loves them. The assumption is that love is
omeneasc
a quality that needs to be imported from
Heaven. But does anyone really know whether
God loves or not? We bow down to whoever Oamenii sunt capabili de iubire, atunci cnd vor. Din
created this grand creation a creation that pcate, noi vrem s exportm n cer tot ce este
boggles the mind. We bow down to the creator, frumos n viaa noastr i s trim fr sens pe
but you dont know whether he is love or joy aceast planet. Iubirea, bucuria, beatitudinea-
or peace. acestea sunt posibiliti umane.

Love is a human emotion


Un proces simplu
Human beings are capable of love when they
are willing. Unfortunately, we want to export
everything that is beautiful in our life to heaven Iubirea nu este ceva de fcut cu o alt persoan.
and live wantonly on this planet. Love, joy, Iubirea nu este niciodat ntre doi oameni. Este ceea
blissfulness these are human possibilities. ce se ntmpl n tine i nu trebuie s fie nrobit de
altcineva. Timp de 15-20 de minute n fiecare zi,
mergi i stai lng un lucru care nu semnific nimic
pentru tine poate fi un copac, o pietricic, un vierme
A simple process sau o insect. Dup un timp, vei descoperi c te poi
uita la acel lucru cu tot atta dragoste ct manifeti
Love is not something to do with someone fa de soia, soul, mama sau copilul tu. Poate c
else. Love is never between two people. It is viermele nu tie acest lucru. Asta nu conteaz. Dac
what happens within you, and what happens te poi uita la tot ceea ce este cu dragoste, toat
within you need not be enslaved to someone lumea devine frumoas n experiena ta. i dai seama
else. For 15 to 20 minutes daily, go sit with c iubirea nu este ceva ce faci s se ntmple; iubirea
something that means nothing to you maybe este modul n care eti.
a tree, or a pebble, or a worm or an insect.
After some time, you will find you can look
upon it with as much love as you do your wife
or husband or your mother or your child.
Maybe the worm does not know this. That
doesnt matter. If you can look at everything
lovingly, the whole world becomes beautiful in
your experience. You realize love is not
something that you do; love is the way you are.

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