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McALARY
Brooke McAlary is the creator and host of the
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LIVE . LIF E . SIM P LY.
BROOKE McALARY
First published in 2017
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1 Sta r t w i t h why
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2 De c l utter
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3 De -ow n
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4 Mi n d f uln ess
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5 D i s co n n e c t to recon n ec t
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6 A ca b i n i n t he woods
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7 Wo b b l y ba la n ce
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8 Th e a r t of t h e b a c ksli de
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Wh e re to n ow?
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Dear Mr and Mrs Jones,
Yours sincerely,
INTRODUCTION
Life was abundant with all the good stuff wed spent so much
time chasing. And I was utterly despondent.
Yes, life was abundant. Abundant with things. A double garage
so full, it had never seen a car. Wardrobes crammed with clothes
I hated (never a thing to wear!). Cupboards full of enough toys to
entertain an entire preschool.
Life was also abundant with other things: debt, anxiety and
stress. Life was hectic and hurried. Over-engineered and over-
committed, disconnected and dissatisfying.
Rather than question our priorities or try to work out why
we were so unhappy, we got busier. We added items to our lists
of things to buy, things to do and goals to kick. We kept buying
stuff we couldnt afford. We continued digging a deeper hole, all
in the name of keeping up with the Joneses, never realising we
were slowly morphing into the Joneses.
After our second child was born, I was diagnosed with severe
postnatal depression. At my best I was an automatonefficient,
unfeeling, completely emotionally detached. At my worst I was
a nightmareangry, bitter, sad, resentful and entertaining
suicidal thoughts.
I remember sitting in my psychiatrists office, recounting the
previous day and the anxiety that bloomed every time I stopped
doing. She looked at me and asked, Have you ever considered
doing less? Maybe slowing down a bit?
Doing less? Slowing down? Seriously? Doing less was for
underachievers. Slowing down was for weak, boring people.
Mediocre! Average! Ordinary! I was none of those things, thank
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you very much, and frankly was offended she thought so little
of me.
But that seed of an idea had taken root in my frazzled brain.
It wasnt until days later, when I found myself despairing at
everything I had to do and be and own, did I even consider it a
possibility. Do less? Slow down? OK. Maybe. But how?
Naturally, I turned to Google and found my way to Leo
Babautas blog Zen Habits. There I discovered a man who
had completely transformed his life by choosing less. He was
adamant that letting go of the excess stuff his family of eight had
accumulated over the years led to massive changes in his health,
happiness, work, home, parenting, relationships, finances and
self-esteem. He was an unapologetic advocate for a life of less
stuff, and he wasnt alone. Further research revealed there were
literally millions of people who shared similar values, who were
saying no, doing less and letting go. Whats more, they were
saying that this life of less stuff, less stress, fewer obligations
and fewer pressures was actually a life of moremore time,
more energy, more freedom, more joy, more presence, more
connection and more health.
As I sat in my cluttered office late that night, illuminated
by the blue light of my computer monitor, my family sleeping
nearby and my coffee cold next to me, I realised I wanted to be
one of these people. I wanted to find a life of more on the other
side of less.
Over the next twelve months, my husband Ben and I
decluttered stuff with a tenacity wed previously reserved for
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W H AT IS SLOW LIVING?
Over the past two years on the Slow Home podcast Ive
interviewed more than 100 people who all have different views
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This book is about how you can
choose to slow down. Step off the
ever-revolving carousel of want
buywantupgrade. Opt out of the
comparison games. Stop cramming a
months worth of engagements into a
weekend. Refuse to live your life
according to trends. Tread lighter
on the earth. Create a home and a
life that is simpler, slower and, most
importantly, works for you.
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her own, and being a present and wonderful mum. And she
came at it from the exact opposite end of the process, learning
to meditate after a serious car accident nearly cost her both her
life and that of her unborn baby.
Not until years later did mindfulness begin to make itself
known in other areas of her life, when she began clearing out
the stuff left behind by her dad, who passed away when she was
young. That stuff had been an important family link for a long
time, and it took many years to even consider examining it. And
yet she did. On her own timeline. When it worked for her.
Opposite experiences. Similar destinations. Different goals.
Similar outcomes.
There is no one right way, and the only one that matters is
the way that works for you. So take some time to read this book
from beginning to end, giving yourself insight into the different
elements of creating a slower, simpler life. And when youre
finished I ask only one thing of you: come back to Chapter 1 and
work through the questions posed there. After that, its up to
you. Where to begin, what to let go of and how fast (or slowly)
to move through the process.
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