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9/8/2017 8 Essential Emotional Skills for Every Adult | Psychology Today
The skill here is learning to quiet that over-active amygdala and bring our
rational sideback online in order to control our brains and our emotions.
The skill is calming our own anxiety and mentally realizing that
others'reactions and problems are not our own.
3. Admit mistakes.
The skill here is realizing that mistakes are mistakes, not character defects.
They do not deserve our punishment (mentally beating ourselves up) or
punishment of others. They require only that we repair them and learn
from them.
4. Be honest.
The skill is slowing down and asking what it is we truly think and feel, and
then stepping up and saying it.
5. Approach anxiety.
7. Be proactive.
The skill here is rst to step back and lookat what we are doing and why
and how we are doing it, and then to makedecisions about what we
want to keep, what we want to change.
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This is being proactive writ large, but also maybe thestarting point for our
notion of being grown up. What is our vision of how we want to be not in
terms of big, concrete goals like jobs and relationships,but in terms of
what we value in life? It is being grown up, because it enables us to step
away from the shoulds that we received from our parents. It helps us
step away from the looming shadow of our pastand its guilt, enables us to
sidestepappeasing others in the present.
The skill here is stepping back to envision what we believe and hold dear,
what is on top of our list of how to be, what we need not to have a life of
regrets. Then setting out to put these into operation every day,
intentionally, with mistakes, with honesty, with compassion for ourselves
and others. This creates a life of integrity, in which our inner and outer
worlds nally match.
Thats my list. Think about your own, then set a path to learn the skills you
need to develop to grow up and become the adult you envision.
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