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When Jesus sat down at the Fathers right hand, it meant that
everything He had done and provided for us had been
accomplished. So we begin with sitting, not walking. But how
well we walk out our Christian life on earth, depends on how
well we sit. The more we rest in Christ and understand that
everything is accomplished by Him, and not us, the more
power we will receive to walk well.
If you apply this to your marriage, it means that how well you
treat your wife depends on how well you rest in Christ. God is
not saying, You, by your energy, love your wife. He is
saying, Rest in My Son and He will cause you to love your
wife effortlessly.
Ephesians 5:25
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the
church and gave Himself for her.
We are to love our wives the way Jesus loved the church. And
how did Jesus love the church? He gave Himself. The Bible
doesnt say, For God so loved the world, He gave a box of
candies. He didnt give you a bunch of flowers either! On the
cross, Jesus gave Himself.
You cant change your wife. Your part is to love her and let
God do the changing. Ladies, likewise, your part is to submit
to your husband and let God change him.
Hesed is also displayed when you lay down your own desires
for the sake of your loved ones.
Love is shown when two wills cross, and you are willing to lay
down yours and fulfill hers. When I sacrifice my desires for
Wendy, there is an excitement that is so much deeper, more
wholesome and fulfilling than going after my selfish desires!
Because when I start laying down my life for her, the next
thing I know, she says, I feel like I am falling in love with you
all over again.
It is fun to lay down your life in love for your loved ones. It
makes you more sensitive to the Spirit too. When you open
your Bible, the words jump out at you. When you pray, your
prayer is a flow. When you honor your wife and love her self-
sacrificially, you will find that all of heaven opens. Thats why
1 Peter 3:7 says that when a husband honors his wife, his
prayers will not be hindered!
When I see how much He loves me, the Lord begins to show
me how time and time again, I myself have done wrong when
I should have known better, yet He still loves me. Not once
has He said to me, I resign from being your Savior! He
always says, I will never leave you nor forsake you.
(Hebrews 13:5)
When you focus on Jesus and His grace toward you despite
your mistakes, you begin to see your self-righteousness
acting like you are so high up there and holy, and she is so
wrong. And you begin to despise what you see in yourself and
say, Lord, if You love me despite all my nonsense, how can I
treat my wife like this?
Guys, focus on Jesus, not your wife. Meditate on His love for
you. We love because He first loved us. (1 John 4:19) We
forgive because He first forgave us. Love your wife and say, I
am sorry, even if you are not in the wrong. Its your glory to
overlook a transgression. (Proverbs 19:11) It takes a real man
to do that. And when your wife sees you humble, she feels
loved. She wont take advantage of you. She will end up
loving you because your lovingkindness toward her makes
you attractive.
Ephesians 5:2526
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the
church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and
cleanse her with the washing of water by the word
Husbands, likewise, love your wives with your words. Tell her
how good she looks in that dress. Praise her for the meal she
cooked.
Men, you know that thats not what she wants to hear! I
should have said, Yes, I did think of you, darling, and
honestly, when I thought of you, my heart felt so warm. I am
so glad I am married to you.
Because I had believed in a lie from the devil. The devil says
that to have career success, you must focus on your career.
The Bible, however, tells us otherwise. It says that we are to
give honor to our wives (1 Peter 3:7), not our careers!
From then on, I gave weight to her and what she said. And
amazing things started to happen. As I honored my wife, God
propelled me and my ministry!
Somewhere along the way, like Adam, the man has kept quiet
and allowed evil to reign. He has allowed Satan to deceive his
wife. Though it was Eve who sinned first, God did not say,
Through Eves sin, we were all made sinners. Instead, He
said that it was through Adams sin. (Romans 5:19)
Men, God has made you the leader in your families. He has
given you the honor, so take charge and be responsible. But
remember that He does not expect you to do it in your own
strength. Rest in His Son and He will give you the power to
steer your family through the storms of life!