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Introduction
Social media is more relevant than ever before and the impact it has
Konrath, social networking sites (SNS) currently account for nearly one
quarter of the total time spent online, and almost 80% of Internet users
report some SNS use. (2013) Social media sites are continually being
daily lives that it now shapes the way people behave, communicate, and
even feel about themselves. In a CBS News article, social media played such
a significant role in Jennifer Christine Harris life that it drove her to take
According to the Register, Harris had been close friends with one of the
2011) causing Rasmussen to unfriend and block Harris. The social media
argument then escalated to the point that Harris was ultimately charged with
first-degree arson for burning down Rasmussens house. Anger is not the
only behavior caused by social media sites, as social media also invokes the
Narcissists generally believe that the world revolves around them (2015,
December 27) and are easily angered, especially when they dont receive
the attention they consider their birthright. (2016, October 27) In the matter
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narcissist. Harris believed she was an important person, if not the most
her and drove her to burn down Rasmussens house. According to Psychology
media for self-promotion and to show off the glamorous aspects of their lives
to their family, friends, and social media contacts (Panek, Nardis, Konrath,
negative self-image, the false reality of the perfect life, and obsession and
anger. This paper will explain that, through the use and obsession of social
extremes to make their lives appear one way, when in reality their lives are
completely different, and the obsession of being on social media and looking
at others profiles, posts, and pictures is impacting the way people live and
creating disorders.
Narcissism, with the use of social media, has been shown to negatively
ways. (Sheldon, Bryant, 2016) Narcissists social media habits ruin romantic
checking and updating social media that they cannot form personal lasting
relationships and they miss out on the real experience of dating. The reason
they cannot form lasting relationships is because the social media obsession
has taken away their social interaction skills and their ability to have a
which prohibits the narcissist from truly connecting with other people.
Individuals with this disorder like the idea of being in a relationship because
they can promote and further the affair on social media instead of actually
social media knows everything about their dating relationship, which causes
conflict between the dating couple. People with this disorder are shallow
their significant other to be the best of everything so that they can proudly
Narcissists also tend to ruin relationships by acting out in extreme rages over
significant other posts a photo, or if the significant other posts about the
narcissist, then the narcissist may exhibit extreme reactions when their
way narcissists present themselves on social media is the only way they
want others to view them and when that picture might change, they become
enraged. The last way narcissists use social media to ruin their relationships
look the same as their photos and have the personality that was promoted
online. Usually however, the photo and personality, or one of the two, do not
match what has been observed on social media. (Miller, Widiger, 2010)
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friendship. People with this disorder always want to surpass their friends on
Another way social media ruins friendships is by narcissists acting out when
they see that they were not invited to an event that was promoted on social
rapid rate and now, nearly everything that an individual does on SNS can be
2015) Research has revealed that when a narcissist sees that they were not
DeHart, 2014) Being angry and aggressive over small things pushes friends
away. Narcissists use social media to brag that they are better than everyone
else, even if they are not, and to also bully or berate their friends. (Eksi,
2012) Narcissists are known to use the better than average effect, or the
belief that one is better than the average individual on a given attribute
Narcissists will have a hard time making friends stick around if they cannot
at first glance. Most of society cannot initially pinpoint narcissists false self-
their view of self is also extremely sensitive. (Gardner, Pierce, 2011) On the
exterior, narcissists are very confident with their self-image and have an
2016) People with this disorder are obsessed with promoting their perfect
spend hours using social media outlets to make themselves look better when
most people spend only a minimal amount of time readying their pictures for
which allows a user to brighten teeth, erase blemishes and even change the
Social media has driven narcissists to have two mindsets. The first
Keshavarz, and others The face is the most important part of the bodyby
plastic surgeries that rid them of those hated sags and bags under their
individuals self-esteem by making them feel younger and better looking than
other individuals in their age group. Narcissistic individuals cannot have any
type of feature that can be criticized on social media by any of their friends
and celebrity culture has made this achievable. (Wilson, Cressman, Buote,
Strahan, 2006) Narcissists can now have facial reconstructions to look like
celebrities. Since our culture considers all famous people beautiful and
considered the best. Narcissistic individuals also carry the belief that thin is
beautiful. (Yamamiya, Cash, Melnky, Posavac, 2015) This mindset has driven
many narcissists to take two routes. One course narcissists have taken is to
using exercise both to deal with self-esteem threats (e.g., criticism and
their body. (2010) The second course narcissists tend to take is intensive
Bryant, 2015) Narcissistic individuals promote having the perfect life, which
make their friends desire their perfect relationships, lavish lifestyle and
individuals upload photos and posts that give the impressions that they have
the perfect romantic relationship and family. (Fowler, 2013) Narcissists make
it a priority to make it seem as if their affairs are full of love, desire, and
All of this all the time is not realistic. With relationships come quarrels when
differences arise and extravagant gifts are usually only given during special
occasions. Narcissists also like to post about having the perfect family.
(Fowler, 2013) Narcissists want it to be known that their kids go to the best
school possible and are receiving the best education, their spouse has an
excellent career, which makes a fortune, and they themselves are the
perfect partner and parent. This is not the average realistic lifestyle for an
American family. Narcissists also use social media to flaunt their wealth.
media sites to check in where they currently are or will be going. Narcissists
use these check-ins to promote their wealth by showing they are able to
travel, able to visit luxurious destinations and able to stay at top resorts.
Usually the average American family takes time to saves up funds before
concept to show they are able to dine at top restaurants that would cost a
fortune to the average American consumer. The other way narcissists use
photos of extreme purchases such as new cars, jewelry, houses, and boats.
designer, and brand name items. Narcissists also use social media to post
Narcissists make sure to hide the negative and ugly aspects of their life by
narcissists life can include, debt from making extreme purchases to show
off, a poor marital relationship and a poor relationship with their children
because their world revolves around their social media account. (Bacon,
2013)
Narcissists obsession with the Internet and social media has been
are all disorders common with Internet and social media addicts (Bushak,
2016.)
think of themselves highly and also desire friends and romantic partners who
are popular, good looking, and successful in order to promote their image.
Narcissists need control of their lives at all times in order to promote the
able to live a normal life because there will never be a time when the
perfect life, or someone who is better looking. A narcissist will continue to try
to upgrade their looks and life to compete with the standard of perfection.
Anxiety and poor sleeping habits are also connected with the obsession
feeling upset and disconnected from others when unable to access social
media sites will be associated with higher anxiety and depression levels.
(Woods, Scott, 2016) The claim that someones obsession with social media
can cause anxiety and poor sleeping habits is certainly easy to understand
morning are indications of poor sleeping habits. The posts are explained by
Woods and Scott when they say, sleep interruptions from alerts and anxiety
at missing out on new content are just two of the many possible mechanisms
underlying a link between social media use and poor sleep. (2016)
throughout the paper is someone who needs perfection and someone who
has control over their self-image. Narcissists are constantly obsessed with
updating their social media and seeing how many likes and comments they
will receive. Narcissists consistently update their social media with new
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This aspect does not allow narcissists to take moments in and actually
appreciate them. Narcissists also have the constant need to refresh their
social media to see what other people are posting and doing.
lives a normal life. According to Scott and Woods, studies have highlighted
links between social media use and self-esteem levels: receiving positive or
accordingly. (2016) Narcissists need affirmation with the use of likes and
likes or comments as they thought they would, their self- esteem may lessen
Conclusion
With the rise of Facebook, Twitter, Snapchat, Instagram, and all the
with social media and how others perceive them on social sites. The need to
individuals to promote fake pictures of the perfect life, which truly does not
exist, in order to impress others and get their approval and admiration. The
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not being formed and narcissistic individuals are more focused on promoting
the way people live their normal lives and causing sleep deprivation, anxiety,
achieved.
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