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intended to please God, they will. Just not all at the same time. It really is simple; if I please me, others
are upset. If I please others, God is upset. Pleasing God means denying all the others. Easier said than
done. My heart is willing, but my body is weak. Man shall not live by bread alone, but if the guy next to
me brought bread for lunch..., Ill probably eat some. The best advice I can give: arm yourself with the
Word of God. Memorize scripture to help you in the tough spots. Out of the overflow of your heart, your
mouth will speak. What will you say? As a former athlete and coach, I am distinctly familiar with the idea
of performing for a crowd. The larger the crowd, the better the game. My coach used to say: "The whole
town is watching, dont let them down." My mom would say, Ill be watching dont let me down." I say,
God is watching, dont let Him down. We will be more successful in life if we train ourselves to perform
for an audience of one. The Holy One. Peer pressure becomes a moot point when our eyes are on the
throne. Have you ever accidentally cursed while singing your favorite hymn or worship song? Didnt
think so. Its the same with trying to please your peers when your focus is on God. The next time you
feel yourself sliding down the wrong path, remember to look to Jesus. His words will protect you and
strengthen you and give you a purpose that goes beyond your understanding. Raising the Expectations:
As a teacher and coach for nearly a decade, I have found one thing to be true: for the most part, people
will behave/perform at whatever level is expected of them. Weve heard that for years, and frankly is
nothing new. The piece that is often overlooked, is that the groups setting the level of expectation are
not the coaches, teachers or even parents. Most students in public schools spend upwards of 5 to 7
hours a day with their friends. I dare say that most parents cant make that claim. Where do friends get
their ideas of proper behavior? Hollywood, social media, other friends. Together they determine what is
acceptable behavior in our society. One of the things that has the biggest impact on students attitudes
are the movies and TV programs they watch. I cant tell you how often the lines from the new, big hit
movies get repeated in my classroom. Time after time, the favorite movies are the most violent, sexual
and profane. When we watch them, what are we putting into our brain? Garbage in, garbage out. We
cant help but to be affected by what we see. Are we (am I) willing to raise the standard on what we
watch? How about friends? Are they living a life of high moral standard? Are they pulling us up to a
higher place? Or are we telling ourselves that we are helping them? Do you pray with your friends? Do
you pray for them? They for you? Let me put it to you this way: you must have people in your life that
you can trust, who will tell you when your wrong and who you will listen to in time of need. I can count
on one hand the number of people who really know me well enough to hold me accountable and give
me the support I need. How many do you have? Are you willing to be accountable to someone? Do you
have any older people in your life to give you advice and guidance when you need it? I have a saying on
my wall in my classroom: "A boy needs two things in life, a father to teach him all of the things he needs
to know in life, and a mentor to teach him all of the things a father cannot because of his closeness to
him." Are there any adults whom you know well enough to confide in, pray with, and tell all your secrets
to? This is where teachers, coaches, pastors and youth pastors, Sunday school teachers and the parents
of friends come into play. Whatever you do, and whoever you hang out with, remember to raise your
own expectations of yourself and those around you will follow.
Dave C Parsons