Is Happiness an unattainable Mirage?

We always aspire to find happiness immensely. At the same time, we lack happiness that we aspire to
achieve. Poor people suffer from the desire to be rich. They are under the impression that they could
lead happy lives constantly once they become rich one day.
Wealthy people are left with no more options to find further happiness and they are frustrated with
their rich lifestyles due to this. Their wealth has taken their happiness away from them. Most instances,
wealthy people experience more suffering than the poor.
When we observe these phenomena in depth, we could come to a conclusion that happiness is not a
state that could be derived or eliminated depending on possessing or not possessing external objects.
Happiness of an individual has nothing to do with the possession of external objects or loss of those
external objects. If this not true, we may have to determine that a wealthy person would be rich for ever
and a poor person would remain poor forever.
Almost everyone may have come across wealthy people who experienced suffering despite their wealth.
At the same time, you may have come across happy average people who live with basic amenities.
People, who keep on gathering wealth as a source of happiness, would lead lives filled with misery most
of the time. The very attempt to gather wealth has undermined their happiness. If this is so, what is
happiness? How to gain it? Is it an unattainable mirage?. Are we destined to be unhappy?
Most believe that the way for happiness is to fulfill all of their desires. This belief is based on pure nonawareness of reality and self-centeredness. This belief is the primary cause for all type of suffering,
troubles prevalent in the world. Desire, in this context, encompasses rough desires to milder forms of
desire which undermine happiness of those from all walks of life.
Egoism or self-centeredness is the major cause underlying all troubles and pains in the world, according
to the common belief of many. Even on an individual basis, it is the self-centeredness that leads to all
type of suffering. When you realise this, you are at the doorstep of mental peace, tranquility. If you
continue to believe that suffering is caused by self-centered attitudes of others in the society, you are
bound to suffer in the hell of your own creation.
Happiness is a peaceful, tranquil state arising in the mind. With the total abandonment of all desires,
this state would emerge in the mind. Prospective happiness that may be expected by way of fulfilling
desires could be compared to a mirage. Once a desire is satisfied, other desires would follow in
succession. This is similar to endless waves in the sea. Therefore, the only path for lasting peace of mind
is to abandon desires altogether.
When you act on a self-centered attitude, you would realise the degree of mental pain involved in selfcenteredness. Once you can abandon your self-centered attitudes, you would realise mental peace
associated with that mentality. Self -centeredness is always associated with blindness, injustice,
suffering and it prevents one from realising the truth. As long as one seeks happiness based on selfcenteredness, happiness would leave one behind undoubtedly.

If, on the contrary, one can act from a point of view of altruism, seeking the welfare of others at all
times, mind would be filled with lasting mental peace, tranquility. If you are preoccupied with a selfcentered thought, it would be a beginning of a flow of suffering. If you are preoccupied with an altruistic
thought, happiness would follow you.
The day you decide to let go, you begin to have access to experience happiness. If, however, you let
go or give in anticipation of more and more rewards, gains, it would be the highest form of delusion
on your part. That would be the primary cause of suffering as well. Therefore, do not grasp what is
transient, subject to change and decay. Always have an altruistic attitude towards others. This would
invariably result in a lasting, unbreakable happiness.
One who could dedicate his life for the welfare of others on an altruistic footing is imbued with a heart
filled with indestructible happiness. It is a heart inclined towards the Noble Path. If you could recollect
an occasion where you rendered assistance a needy person, you would still remember the mental
satisfaction you enjoyed at that time.
Your first step in the altruistic direction is to have an intention of rendering a service an outsider.
Secondly, begin to utter a few words in preparation for rendering the service. Thirdly, act accordingly.
These three steps would pave the way for the heaven which could be experienced in this very life.
If you have not experienced this immense happiness which could be derived from altruistic practices to
date, you better get cracking now. You will realise the intensity of altruistic happiness associated with
this new approach in your life. You will be able to distinguish between the happiness involved in
letting, giving and the pain involved in grasping of things.
So, utilize your wealth, intellect, compassion for the benefit and welfare of others. Once you let go
and give something for the welfare and solace of others, it should be a generous act accomplished
expecting nothing in return. If you have regrets following your giving such as, They did not thank me
even though I deserve it; They did not appreciate my kind gesture; My name did not appear in the
newspaper despite my sizeable donation etc., it is an indication that you have given with conceit,
egoism in mind. In other words, you have given expecting some sort of reward in return. Therefore, this
looks more like an act of receiving rather than an act of giving.
When you render a service, give something for the welfare and solace of others, you need to focus only
on the act of giving; forget everything else. This is the secret for gaining true happiness. This mentality is
indicative of caga state as taught in the Buddhist teachings, cago patinissaggo mutti analayo. So act
according to this teaching and be an eligible beneficiary for ceaseless happiness.

Vidassa

(One who analyses phenomena)

Vidassa, Could you tell a short-cut to the Heaven?
Yes, follow these three steps
First step; Have a thought to give solace to someone
Second step; Utter words to give solace to this person
Third step: Act to give solace to this person.
Follow these three steps and see for yourself the happiness they offer you!!!