There are numerous techniques at your disposal to get a woman to go
to bed with you. Most women will tell you, however, that this is not true. I suppose that they don't want us (men) to have the keys to the lock that opens up their coveted wares. ut in this short article I will share with you some in!ormation and techniques that will give you much, much better odds at getting any woman into bed. To seduce a woman you will "rst need to understand her point o! view and then proceed accordingly, not only to obtain your own ob#ectives, but !or your mutual satis!action and !ul"llment. ecause women want to be seduced and they want to have se$ as much as men, they #ust want it on their own terms. The most important se$ual organ you possess as a man is your mind. %ou must use your mental powers to arouse a woman and to handle her ob#ections and !ears to get her into bed. In many ways, you're going to have to talk your way into bed. e!ore discussing her !ears, however, I want to warn you about your own. %ou cannot have a negative internal dialogue with yoursel! and all sorts o! doubts and negative thoughts racing through your brain when you're seducing a woman or you will surely sabotage yoursel!. &o don't allow yoursel! to dwell upon your !ear o! re#ection, your inadequacies, or any doubts you have about yoursel!. %ou must stay positive and e$pect the best to occur every time you are with a woman. elieve in yoursel!, rela$, and have !un. 'omen will be less likely to resist any move you make i! you are natural and care!ree. (ike a beauti!ul young woman once told me, )The !ewer a guy's worries are, usually the more attractive he is.) *s I write this article I reali+e that there is so much to tell you and it's simply not possible in a short article like this. I must re!er you to the last chapter o! my book (available at this website) i! you want the complete picture and a more detailed e$planation o! the whole seduction process. *nyway, to seduce a woman you will have to in,uence her mind. %ou will have to persuade her to have se$ with you because the decision to have se$ or not is a woman's prerogative. -nce you understand the criteria upon which she bases her decision, you will be able to in,uence her in a way that will get you the results you desire. Much o! the criteria upon which a woman bases her decision on whether or not she is going to give it up revolves around her basic !ears. * woman must "rst be !ree o! any an$iety or !ears be!ore she will invite you to ravage her. %ou need to clear away the obstacles to the bedroom. .nderstand a woman's !ears and you can leverage a woman's point o! view to your advantage. * woman has three main !ears that you need to handle to clear the path to pleasure, ease, and her en#oyment o! se$. /irst, she !ears that she is not as beauti!ul as she needs to be, or could be, or should be. 'omen are always worried about their weight, the si+e o! their breasts, their wardrobe, and their overall attractiveness. To eliminate these !ears o! inadequacy, tell her how beauti!ul she is. Tell her what you think o! her skin, her neck, her legs, and especially her eyes. ut don't mention her breasts unless they're per!ect and not until you have already caressed them. 0omplement her about her clothes, her eye makeup, her #ewelry, and never, 12324 criti+e her or belittle her in any way when you're making your move toward the bedroom. 5er second biggest !ear is her !ear o! abandonment. &he needs to !eel that a!ter you make love to her that you are still going to be with her in the !uture. 4eassure her that you are now a part o! her li!e. In your pre6 bedroom conversation, tell her how much you look !orward to spending time with her in the !uture, and e$plain why you can see the two o! you together !or a long time, and talk about e$citing things you will do together over the weeks and months ahead. The third big !ear to handle be!ore getting a woman into bed is her !ear o! unwanted pregnancy or contracting the *I7& virus. %ou deal with this !ear by broaching the sub#ect o! condoms be!ore you get all hot with passion. Most women now days will not have se$ with you unless you're wearing a condom. *s a 0hinese girl!riend o! mine was !ond o! saying, )1o cover wang, no get bang8) %our #ob is to reassure her ahead o! time that you use condoms and that you have a supply o! them on hand. (ook !or ways to talk about the sub#ect o! condoms in a non6threatening way. &ay something sometime early on like, )I think it's really important that people use condoms when making love.) Try to word it in a way that uses third party names and re!erences9 don't say 'you' like to use condoms don't you. -:. &o now you know about handling a woman's !ears in order to seduce her. 5ow about using Embedded Suggestions and Sexual Body Language to get her into bed; These are power!ul techniques and work on an unconscious level like hypnotic suggestion to get a woman to start thinking about se$. 'hen a woman starts thinking about se$, she will start to feel like having se$. /irst you get the mind working and then the body !ollows. There are very subtle ways to elicit the desired response you want !rom a woman through the power o! mental association by means o! an embedded suggestion. *nd using the proper body language is even more power!ul and e<ective than using language to lower a woman's de!enses and arouse her.
(Tendencies - Identities, Texts, Cultures) Ben Gove-Cruising Culture - Promiscuity and Desire in Contemporary American Gay Culture-Edinburgh University Press (2000)