Your Girl's Type Is: The Hopeful Romantic Pandora's Type: iNvestor-Denier-Idealist (NDI) An Hopeful Romantic is extremely caring

and sweet. Her iNvestor-Idealist elements means she wants you to be the one but her Denier aspect will be somewhat skeptical. But she can also be frustrating for men because everything in her personality conflicts with the "typical male approach" to sex and dating. A guy that doesnt understand how to seduce and arouse a woman will struggle with a Hopeful Romantic. He will fall into her trap of trying to be good boyfriend material, when all he really has to do is turn her on. She is going to need to believe that you are special, combined with smooth and seductive escalation will take you over that defensive wall. To a Hopeful Romantic, sex is a big deal. So once you sleep with a Hopeful Romantic, she will become very attached to you. A Hopeful Romantic is the least likely to cheat but also the best at hiding it. She has a romantic hope for the two of you, wants to invest in the relationship, and feels a deep connection to you sexually. She is a WONDERFUL girlfriend to have if youre looking for something long term. Her feminine energy is that of an innocent good girl. This doesnt mean that she wont enter a casual s exual friendship, or that she will take a long time to go to bed with you. She just takes a different approach. She likely has many men after her, wanting to date her, because she comes off as girlfriend material. As most men are equivalent to a "Tester-Justifier-Realist" (at least when they are young), she is dynamically contrasted to the masculine way of thinking. Her femininity is very seductive to men. Often men will give up on her when they realize its going to be a long time before they sleep with her. Because of this, she will protect her heart very carefully. Its also likely that shes had her heart broken when she was young. A young guy has very different romantic goals than a Hopeful Romantic, so if she had a boyfriend in high school or college, it probably lasted a long time, she began to think about a future together, and the guy began to think about all the other girls he was missing out on! If you know how to get devotion from her and shape her correctly, its actually quite easy to escala te quickly. If you can separate yourself from all the other disappointing guys shes dated, shell have no reason to not sleep with you. And as with all deniers, once she surrenders her sex to you, you will have a great amount of leverage in determining the terms of your relationship moving forward. This video shows you exactly how to get inside the mind of The Hopeful Romantic. 3 Dangers: If she senses that you are trying to be "boyfriend material" she will lose interest - immediately. A Hopeful Romantic often has many hidden secrets, and is very good at maintaining a "good girl" image. She is perceived by many as perfect girlfriend material, and therefore has many guys trying to date her. The Next Page Will Help You: 1. 2. 3. Turn her on, and get her interested in becoming intimate with you WITHOUT appearing like "boyfriend material" too quickly. Keep her open and honest, without asking direct questions and coming off possessive or creepy. Defend your relationship against other guys by demonstrating your dominance and deepening your emotional connection with her faster than all the others.

[TRB]Redefining Romance - The Myth of Flowers And Candy Today I want to talk to you "Guy to guy" about what I really mean by "romance" in the first place.

See, when a lot of guys hear the word "romance" a little nauseous shiver goes up their spine . . . After all, to a lot of guys "romance" means squeezing yourself into some monkey suit, going out for an EXPENSIVE dinner, shelling out for flowers that whither and die after a day or two and mortgages your house for new jewelry just to show your woman that you care. But that's not really what I'm talking about at all. What I'm talking about is the kind of easy "romance" that makes the woman in your life light up like a roman candle and brag about you to all her friends . . . To look at you with this amazing sparkle in her eye . . . To walk towards you with a certain smile on her lips . . . To kiss you with a kind of wonderful hunger she probably hasn't shown since you started dating . . . Even though you're wearing you're favorite ratty T-shirt, haven't taken a shower in 3 days and didn't spend a dime . . . See, while spending MONEY on the woman in your life is nice (and can even be fun) it's not REALLY going to improve your relationship. No matter what she says (or begs for) what she really wants from you isn't your money. It's your attention and your appreciation of her. She wants (or actually NEEDS) you to WANT to spend time with her, to "speak her language," and to take the lead in your relationship romantically. So while she might be "grateful" for a big bouquet . . . What will make her swoon is you letting her know, in no uncertain terms . . . 1. That she's loved and safe and can be her most honest, intimate self with you. 2. That you're a strong and powerful man and that you're worthy of her. 3. That you can take control. And, cooly enough, you can do all of that with tiny little text messages sent from even the oldest and most beat up cell phone. So here's your instructions: 1. Make a commitment to turn texting into a "intimate channel" for you

and the woman in your life. Refuse to have "boring" conversations over text with her for at least the next week. 2. Make sure you go through the 3 Magic Texts. 3. Keep an eye on your inbox for more. =-)

How To "Evict" Your Inner Coward

In this newsletter we are going to learn how you can evict your inner coward. One thing that holds a lot of men back from being successful with women is that most men are too afraid to approach an attractive woman. The only way to improve your skills with women is to talk to many women. If you are someone who is controlled by fear and you are not taking action then you are most likely very frustrated about your situation. So let's talk about some techniques you can use to avoid being controlled by fear and gain the power to take action and go talk to hot girls you like.

The first thing you need to know is that all men have this inherent fear of approaching women; you must understand that the men who approach a lot of women don't do so because they feel no fear, they do so because they have learned how to take action despite their fear. When fear controls you, it limits your joy and sense of fulfillment in life. It is therefor important that you decide to do whatever it takes to get yourself in action and approaching women as soon as possible.

Here are some tips to get yourself to take action: 1. Form a Mastermind group with one or more guys who also want to get good with women. This will give you the

support and encouragement you need in order to move forward. A mastermind group is a group of individuals who are in complete harmony and supporting each others goals. Once you have one or more friends who is supporting you and helping you through this, you will find that taking action becomes a whole lot easier. Don't make the mistake of hiding because you feel ashamed. The people who hide and try to get this handled all by themselves are usually the one's who gain the slowest progress. Go out and form a mastermind group and get the moral support you need in order for you to get into action. 2. Another effective method for getting yourself to take action and approaching women is get an accountability partner; someone who will hold you accountable for your actions. So for example if you want to commit to approaching one new woman a day for the next 30 days, let your accountability partner know that that's your goal. The make a deal that every day that goes by that you don't approach 1 girl you will owe your accountability partner $10 or $5..whatever you can afford. This trick has also worked for many people. 3. Have a morning ritual Begin each morning with a 5 minute ritual where you write down exactly what you want for the day and then close your eyes and visualize it happening as vividly as possible. For example you could write: "Today I am going to meet one new girl and give her a compliment" The take 4 minutes in stillness and silence with your eyes closed and visualize it with as much intensity and focus as you can.

Our mind works in pictures. You can't have something in reality if you haven't first seen it in pictures in your mind. These 5 minutes are a very small investment that could yield you huge results so I strongly recommend you commit to doing your morning ritual every day. So those are some of the simplest yet most effective techniques I have seen guys use to successfully transition from being paralyzed in fear to being empowered in action. ONE Day Through The Eyes of a Woman What if a woman told you exactly what you need to do to attract her? What if you knew exactly how a woman felt during the day... and that there was a MOMENT where you could sweep in and BLOW HER mind so she'll be thinking of you for the rest of the week... Well here goes... Here's what a beautiful woman goes through every day... Most of the extremely attractive women in this world are used to getting a lot of male attention. They get special treatment, looks from everyone and often see pathetic attempts to pick them up. The fact of the matter is, this will only help you in succeeding with these women. We're going to discuss why this is beneficial to you, the ordinary guy who's trying to pick up a woman during the day. But right before I do, I want to take you through an ordinary day through a woman's eyes. First, she wakes up, looks in the mirror and thinks about how she looks ugly without makeup on, she thinks about her day, the things she wants to accomplish, the stresses of the day. After, she showers, fixes her hair, puts makeup on and color matches what she's wearing. As she leaves the house, she looks at herself in the mirror and thinks: "ok, now I look ok" The day starts early, and on the subway she has guys discreetly and non-discreetly glancing at her. She tries to ignore this by reading

a book, or by looking away, not interested. She knows that she can't even look at a guy she finds attractive, because she's already getting too much male attention and cannot handle anymore. If she were to see a guy she finds attractive, and signal him that she likes him, he might come over, start talking to her and this would draw more attention to her from the other undesirable men all over the place. Therefore, her daily objective is to receive validation from men who are checking her out while being as discreet as possible, blending in. Its two opposites, but who said women were simple. Then as she gets out, a man blurts out an awkward "hello" and then says nothing more. She knows its because he likes her, but she's not really interested in a guy who is intimidated by her. During her day, she is once again treated in special ways due to the way she looks. The older man behind the counter gives her a special discount at the store, the young clerk is giddy when he serves her and worse of all, the group of guys just stare at her as she walks by. She respects none of these people, men in her mind, are weak. The only time she was turned on was when she saw her teacher, or boss, doing something with confidence. She also saw an attractive guy walking by in the morning, but he didn't notice her. So she goes to sleep at night, needing some male attention, she logs on to MSN to talk to her guy friends who try to flirt with her while being friends. She goes to bed alone, waiting for the weekend where she can maybe let loose, drink a bit so she'll have a reason to be less picky, so she can go home with a guy who's at least going to satisfy her physical desires. She cries a bit before going to bed, she doesn't know why, but it feels right and helps her sleep. Now what if.. during that day, she met an attractive guy who didn't seem fazed by her beauty. He talked to her as if he was curious about her and how she felt during the day. She doesn't want to talk about what she's doing, she wants to tell you how she's bored. She wants to know about someone else's interesting life. She likes the excitement, she likes you because you're new. She likes you because you seem happier than her, is there something you know that she doesn't ?

She's excited to meet you because you're different. The trick is to be original, make her laugh once, make her smile. Get her interested in you, let HER ask a question. Bait her, make her ask you things by having suggestive sentences. ie: "I just got back here and now there's a storm!" She will ask: "Where have you been?" Talk like a normal human being, build attraction, have fun and then get her number. Call her the next day. She'll thank you for it. First, I want to tell you what it is like to be one of these women. It's important to be able to see the world through an attractive woman's eyes. Imagine just for a second... You are walking from the subway to the store to return a pair of shoes you bought last week. Not one minute off the subway, a man looks at you and smiles. He holds eye contact past the point of being comfortable, but says nothing, and keeps walking. Now on the street, another guy looks at you and exclaims "Wow, you're hot." And continues to watch you as you walk past him. What was he expecting? Did he thing you would turn around and chase him down simply because he expressed his interest? Jeez. This is getting old. You just want to return your shoes! Once in the store, you are on your way to the counter when a very sophisticated older gentleman approaches you. He seems very nice and holds up a conversation pretty well. He tells you your eyes are pretty, and he was intrigued by your smile. This is somewhat refreshing, since he seems to pay attention to you. But his compliments don't stop there. Now he is looking at your breasts. And he is telling you your shirt is also very pretty. Ok Ok... enough old man, I get it. And now he is telling you he would like to buy you a diamond

necklace to go with your shirt. What? What did you do to win this man's attention? He must be very desperate. Does he do this to every girl?? Can you see how frustrating life can be for one of these women? Every man is either too scared to make a real approach or so nice that it is sickening. BE DIFFERENT. That's right. The way to get the attention and build attraction with these women isn't through money, fame or good looks. You must be different and distinguish yourself from every other guy who has given her attention in the past 24 hours. In a nutshell, the two most effective ways to distinguish yourself from the monotony and endless barrage of boring men lies in the following two behaviors. 1. Have the confidence to approach, hold eye contact and have a normal conversation with her. Most men are intimidated by beautiful women. Don't be one of them. 2. Be more impressed by her personality than her physical beauty. Take the time to learn what makes her special from every other woman around you. Learn about her interests, passions and dreams. Then use those as starting points to demonstrate your interest in her. Mastering those two things will put you light years ahead of most men out there, and put you in a position to find a really beautiful woman who appreciates being with you as well. BBS: Jonabell, you HAVE to OPEN women... Start talking So, once you have the confidence to APPROACH the target girl/s the first thing you have to do to attract women is to "open" them. Opening is NOT built to attract, it's simply to OPEN conversation and allow you to start demonstrating attractive qualities about yourself and flipping "mental attraction triggers" in their minds. This "attraction trigger" flipping is done by the way of pre-practiced ROUTINES.

Yes, you go into every approach knowing EXACTLY what you're going to say and how you're going to steer the conversation - just like a stand up comic would. YOU will have the control. The approach WILL change, but you'll have routines you can use to adapt to any situation. Some guys say, well, if I'm using routines, is that really just being me? Well, of course it is, because they become YOUR routines... and they are only there to give you the greatest chance of being able to build enough attraction to be able to "freestyle" with the girl you just met... and just be yourself. Here's a few simple but effective openers... Remember, these are NOT built to attract, they are there to OPEN. 1. "Hey, can I get your opinion on something?" 2. "Oh my god, you look just like this girl I knew from high school" Openers can be as short and simple or long as you want them to be as long as they open effectively. For dozens and dozens of TRIED and TESTED openers that have VERY high success ratios, check out the first few belts of the course. Here's an example of a slightly longer, more complicated opener from Mr. M. --The 'Do me a favour!' opener for attracting women If you can get a girl to do you a favor, you automatically create a connection between you and her. As soon as she agrees to help you out, she's obligated to spending time doing something connected to YOU. You need to choose the favor carefully though. Too big and there's a chance she'll say no. Too small and she'll be able to complete it quickly and

therefore forget about you quickly too. Here's a good one you can use. Walk up to a girl or a couple of girls who are talking to each other and say, "Hi. Could you do me a favour?" Don't give them time to respond to this, just continue by saying, "I've got a problem with this phone (hold a cell phone in your hand). I need to test it. Could one of you hold it for a minute, I'll go over there and call you." Chances are at this point they'll be interested but still a little unsure of you and what you're suggesting. So smile and with a real air of confidence, say, "It's okay. It'll be fun! What's your name?" Once they've agreed to help you out, move away from them so you're out of sight, around the corner or something. If you're at all worried about the safety of your cellphone in their hands, get a wingman (a buddy of yours) to keep an eye on them from a distance. He can also watch to see what they say once you're out of sight and then report back to you a little later. When you're out of sight, don't call them for at least 3 full minutes. This will seem like an eternity to them. They won't know why you haven't called. Is the phone broken? Have you tried calling yet? What type of guy leaves his phone with some girls he doesn't know?! All they'll be thinking about will be YOU and the situation they're in with you. After 3 or 5 minutes, call the phone they're holding for you using a wingman's cell. It's up to you what you say, but be playful. After chatting to them for a minute or two, go back to see them and quiz them on how it sounded and if the call went through okay.

The advantages of this opener are plenty. It's fun, different and unusual. The girl or girls interact with you three times in this opener. First when you approach them and ask the favour, second when you call and speak to them (a nice touch is asking the one who answers to put her friend on the line after 30 seconds and then playing with both of them, being flirty etc.), and third when you go back to them at the end. That's three times the impact of any other conventional opener and guaranteed to be different enough that they won't see it coming as a "pickup". Now go straight into some routines. Simple... how to respond to "buy me a drink" (curious? you should be) Have you ever been talking to a girl and she RANDOMLY insults you? You know that feeling you get when you realize that she is actually rejecting you RIGHT HERE and RIGHT NOW? Your stomach jumps into your throat, doesn't it? Or when you walk up to a chick and she puts you on the spot by demanding you to do stuff for her? "Buy me a drink..." "Wait here while I go to the bathroom..." I do. And I remember when I didn't know how to respond in a way that would actually make her CHASE me instead of reject me. It was like everything was riding on whether or not she smiled when I said 'Hi' or if she made that who-the-hell-are-you face when I said 'Hi'. I want you to know what I learned to say that gave me the power to turn any response from her into a smile. It really made it all *click* for me. http://macktactics.net/tao-of-badass She'll be awe-struck when you respond to her secret 'test' with the things I say that I've tested, and that have proven to work on woman after woman after woman... You might have already heard about my friend Joshua

Pellicer. There's a reason why he's being chased around by every major news media in the country. There's a reason why Sirius XM radio offered him a show where he taught the secrets of how to meet and attract women. There's a reason why most of my professional dating coach friends go to HIM for advice with women when they hit road-blocks... He's this community's best-kept-secret. No doubt about it. And he's opened up a great free video series teaching one of my all time biggest "Ah-ha! moments" of all time. You'll know how to see the 3 secret tests that women are giving you. And he'll teach you the right that so say back to pass those tests. http://macktactics.net/tao-of-badass If you want to get to a mastery level of interacting with hot women, if you want to keep the attraction going once you've got your foot in the door, then just trust me... check out what Joshua's going to tell you about it: http://macktactics.net/tao-of-badass Bottom line: don't miss this, because the opportunity to learn this level of skill comes along VERY RARELY. Super Secret Life Changing Pick Up Method Today we have a special guest writer, Zardoz. Zardoz not only has amazing success with women day after day, but he's also the MAN when it comes to having a good time. Another thing is that he's brutally honest. He says WHATEVER goes through his mind, sometimes it makes people laugh, sometimes it offends people. He just doesn't care. When I asked him if he could share some of his best tips, here's what he had to say: >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> From Zardoz, In seduction, there is no magic pickup button. No special line, no amazing spin routine, no secret kino spot that will create attraction. There is this: your energy and your action. You can have great calm, present, and positive energy that draws people in and lifts their spirits. But without

action, leadership, the ability to make decisions and move forward, charisma becomes like a painting on the wall. Action alone just creates drama, like a random gunshot fired into a crowd. A note on this thing called "State." Too many guys rely on this terminology as an excuse for inaction. I hear this bullshit all the time, "Oh man. My state just dropped," "I would go out but I'm not in state," "Shit bro, my state sucks tonight." "Enough! I command thee nerds to drop the concept. Stop using the damn word until you know what it means. Here is the correct terminology for: "State" Feeling good Or otherwise known as ........... drumroll ........... Having fun "How do you get in state?" Feeling good is a conscious decision. When I go out do I sometimes feel scared? Intimidated? Alone? Self conscious? Of course I do. That is not really a good state to be in is it? So I just don't think about it. I force a smile onto my face and think, "Lalalala! Life is grand!" Does that fix it? Well....yes. I think happy thoughts. Sometimes I still feel shitty but whenever the, "bad," thoughts arrive I just swish them away. I ignore them. Simple as that. And if that doesn't work I go talk to girls. Because girls make me feel good. I know you guys want a graph or a chart or a deep philosophical viewpoint on female attraction triggers but the truth is this. To pickup girls, you first, "Feel Good," and then, "Approach girls." That is it.

Positive Energy + Action = Attraction The rest of the stuff will figure itself out. All the advanced stuff out there will help here and there, but really it's quite simple. The problem with most guys is that they can't put the two halves together. They either won't feel good or they won't take action. Maybe they don't feel good because they don't take action. Maybe it's the opposite. Of course we all have unique cognitive abilities. In this game creativity and intelligence will get you further than looks, money, height, race, or even fame will. With creativity you can create all these factors within your reality anyway. So you are thinking, "No way Zardoz. It's not that easy. I've been doing this for 2 years and I'm still not pulling girls." Ok you've been going out. That's good. Assuming it's more than once a week, then your problem is, "closing." I was stuck there for a long time. Entertainer man! Hooray! It's the funny entertainer man!" You had her at hello. Think about that. "Hello." Imagine if all you had to do to get the girl was to say, "Hello," and then walk her out of the bar, into your car, to your bed and onto eternal joy with squirting liquids and spoon snuggles. It really is that easy. This is the model in my head. A------- Z A is me approaching the girl. Z is my penis inside her. Why waste time with all the other shit if I have her at "Hello." I don't need to, "create rapport," or "pump my state," or do anything at all really. I might as well be famous! Ok it doesn't work that way does it? There is her attraction level, logistics, cock blocks, boyfriends, etc. That is basically the rest of the alphabet. So you learn to deal with that shit.

You can't prepare for the worst. So embrace it. Go out and try to pull. Tell the girl, "Come to my house with me." As caveman as that is. Instead of talking, start kissing. Start as close the end as possible. Start as close to the end as possible. That's an old writing law for fiction. You want to write a great story--then live it. Take a likeable character, do terrible things to them, and start as close to the end as possible. I don't think I can make this any simpler. Though most of you will read this and go back to reading another forum by some guru, before jerking of and hitting the bong for one more round of WOW. That's cool. Not really. I actually love video games. And If that makes you happy. Go for it. If you can't go out four days a week because you are studying to be a lawyer....good for you. But if you want to master pick up, you have to get off your ass and talk to strangers. For those of you stuck on a plateau of eternal gaming and you need a law, it's about, "one in ten." If you try your best to seduce ten women. And you start at the end. You will lay at least one in ten. These are women that are attracted from hello. Not girls that give you their number because they want you to go away. So remember 1. Positive Energy + Action = Attraction 2. If you have negative thoughts, ignore them. 3. Start as close to the end as possible. Dedicated to my frustrating friends who can't get this shit sorted yet. I'll meet you at the top of the hill. Zardoz >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> From Chris, So there you have it, straight from the mouth of one of the most successful guys I know. You can tell, just by the way he WRITES that he's absolutely crazy to be out with.

I have some amazing goodies coming up within the next few days ...

My FREE Real Life Seduction Guide... Part 1, Jonabell! Show Details Dear Jonabell, I'm giving you some FREE information... right here... right now! These are some general tips that will help you with your REAL LIFE game! Let's take a break from picking up girls on Facebook and MySpace for a second... Here's a short list of pointers to help you out the next time you're at a social event... or on a date with some smoking hotty! 1.) Start talking to everyone you see. Male or female... ugly or beautiful... perceived loser or WHATEVER. Initiating small talk on a regular basis will increase your social skills substantially. 2.) Always sit back, relax, and enjoy the show. Don't lean forward. Speak slowly. This alone will improve your game by 1000%, guaranteed. 3.) You're an alpha-male. Nothing bothers you... ever. Never make a big deal out of anything. Stay cool. Stay calm. Did I mention... RELAX?! 4.) Don't smile TOO much. 5.) TOUCH, TOUCH... AND TOUCH! Some people call it kino and some people call it flirting. Everyone wants to be touched CORRECTLY. This is for you guys who are always stuck in that dreaded "Friend Zone." Attraction is all about creating sexual tension. If there is no sexual tension, you're a friend for life. Sorry! 6.) Finally... always LEARN from somebody who KNOWS THEIR STUFF! Like me. =) That's why in my program... I DON'T just talk about how you pickup chicks on Facebook. To be honest, that's the EASY part... I'm probably going to get in trouble for this... Maurice and Dean, I met this Brazilian hottie through my job and we've got a date planned for tomorrow night. I've got the night mapped out: cocktails at

a classy lounge, then dinner at the best sushi restaurant in Vegas, then more drinks and dancing at a club. But my buddy Greg says I should keep it simple: take her out for drinks. His theory is that you should never spend more than $40 on a date. What do you think? Jack, Chicago ***** So how much SHOULD you be willing to invest in a first date? How much is too much? Or should you spend as little as possible, until you've sealed the deal with her? One thing is for sure: none of want to shell out our hard-earned cash on women who string us along, give us an awkward hug good night, and then blow off our phone calls! It's happened to me in the past ... and it SUCKS. Unfortunately, a lot of guys feel there is a financial "price" for playing the game. They figure, if you're going to get a girl (or land a quality girlfriend), you're going to have to wine and dine a bunch of different women. They also think if you manage to get a date with a seriously hot chick, a "9" or a "10," you'd better be ready to spend generously: dinners at nice restaurants, rounds of drinks at expensive nightclubs, concert tickets, gifts, etc. After all, that's what these women expect from men, right? If you want to take your shot, you're going to have to suck it up and lay out some cash.

Right? WRONG. The truth is, when you spend substantial amounts of money on a woman you've just begun to date, you could be SCREWING UP your chances! There is a principle of persuasion that salespeople use on customers, called the Rule of Reciprocity.(A good salesman, if you think about it, is essentially a pickup artist.) Basically, this rule states that when you do something for someone, no matter how minor, that person is going to feel obligated to repay you. In fact, he will feel UNCOMFORTABLE until he pays you back somehow. It's human nature. We never want to feel indebted, or that we "owe" someone. Amway salesmen, who go door-to-door selling household products, are a perfect example. They'll knock on a door, tell the person about their products, and then leave a "sample kit" with the person so that they can test out the products for a few days -free of charge! The salesman then returns a few days later to pick up the kit, and take back whatever products haven't been used. If the customer has used any of the products, he or she is going to feel OBLIGATED to make a purchase. This is the Rule of Reciprocity in action. Most people would feel a little bit GUILTY

about sampling the products in their home and then doing nothing to repay the "favor." So, this usually means the customer will go ahead and buy at least one of the salesman's products. It's a brilliant tactic. The salesman gives away a dollar or two worth of product "for free," and winds up making a $20 or $40 sale. This simple technique has helped turn Amway into a multi BILLION dollar company. Members of the Hare Krishna cult used to hang around airports, with their shaved heads and robes, handing out flowers to people and trying to get donations. Those little flowers were another example of the Rule of Reciprocity. When they hand someone a flower, the person is subconsciously going to feel obligated. Usually, the person will hand over a dollar to the Krishna just to overcome that awkward feeling and be on their way (even though they'll probably toss the flower in the trash a moment later, which the Krishnas then collect and give away again). So in exchange for giving away something totally worthless, the Krishna pockets $1. Those dollars add up to MILLIONS when they've got members in airports around the country, doing it all day, every day! And it's all because they play on the feeling of GUILT you get, when someone gives you something for "free" and puts you in the position of feeling like you "owe" them. Here's more of an everyday situation. You run into a long-lost friend of yours. He invites you out for dinner and drinks. At the end of the night, he insists on picking up the tab: $200. You want to split the check, but he insists on paying.

You appreciate the gesture...but it also makes you feel a little bit guilty and awkward. Your instincts are telling you, you've got to take this guy out in the near future and pay for HIS meal. Again, this the Rule of Reciprocity. So how does this translate into getting women? Well, first, you don't want to use it the WRONG way. This means you DON'T shell out money on a woman before you've slept with her. No expensive dinners. No gifts. This approach will backfire 90% of the time because: 1. You're broadcasting your interest in her. M.A.C.K. Tactics teaches you to turn the tables, and keep YOUR attraction concealed while you make HER work to attract YOU. 2. You could be making her feel uncomfortable. While she's sitting across from you at the dinner table, eating her $40 entree and sipping her $10 glass of wine, she's thinking, "this guy must expect me to put out at the end of the night, because of the money he's spending...but there's NO WAY that I'll put out now, because then he'll think I can be bought and paid for." (Seriously...spending cash on a girl can really backfire!) Now, on the other hand, the Rule of Reciprocity can be used to your ADVANTAGE in many ways. Remember: you NEVER want women to take you for granted. You ALWAYS want them to respect your time and efforts. And there are ENDLESS ways to make your gestures seem like "favors" that women will feel obligated to repay.

In M.A.C.K. Tactics, we have another persuasion technique we call "creating I.O.U's." 95% of men make special efforts for women, and spend all kinds of money, and then downplay it like it's no big deal because they're trying to be "cool." The elite five percent...the MACKS...make sure that women don't take them for granted. Even with something as small as buying a girl a drink... there is a WACK way (which sends the message that you're just another typical guy, trying to "buy" five minutes of her time), and a MACK way (which shows that you're willing to grant her five minutes of YOUR time, so that you can decide whether she's up to your standards. There are many ways to "flip the script" and make women want to impress YOU...and RECIPROCATE...rather than you trying to impress them. BBS: Jonabell, here's the "Oh!" opener... Show Details Jonabell, How to instantly get a woman's attention and sexually attract her using the 'OH!' opener. --Most men have the same problems when trying to start conversations with women. Here they are: 1. The woman knows they're coming on to her and is therefore trying to avoid talking to them from the outset 2. The man's opener (the way he starts the conversation) sounds rehearsed or manufactured. 3. What the man says isn't interesting or engaging. Take this opener, for example. It's the kind of thing lots of guys might say to a woman they want to talk to and--fingers crossed--attract.

"Hi, do you have the time?" This opener is weak for three reasons. The man says hi. This is a useless word that serves no real purpose. He asks her for the time. This is a standard, boring, everyday thing you could ask a bus driver or a bum. It contains no emotion and it feels like the only reason you're saying it is for your own selfish reason. Now let's look at the exact opposite: an opener that is spontaneous, interesting and full of emotion. It's called the 'OH!' opener because that's the first word, or sound, you use when you start a conversation with a woman you want to talk to and attract. Here's how. You're in close proximity to a girl or group of girls. Say you're standing three feet away, with a couple of your friends. You need to turn your head, but not your body. Look at one of the girls--preferably not the one you primarily want to attract--and say, quite loudly, 'OH!'. This will immediately get their attention. Keep your body facing pretty much away from the girls. Once you see that you've got their attention, follow up with something interesting and engaging. Try not to make it too short, otherwise they'll reply with a short response, which could kill the conversation before it has a chance to get started. Something like this works well. "OH!" (The girls turn around). "Did you guys see those lights too last night?" They'll ALWAYS ask, "What lights?" Bang, you're in.

You turn your body towards them a bit more. "About nine o'clock last night, right above the skyline towards [name a local landmark]." They'll of course say no. But they're intrigued now. Turn towards them properly now. You can now transition into talking to them normally, because you have approval from them. They've responded to two questions and asked one of their own. You now start to talk about what everyone's talking about: was it a UFO that people saw? Do they believe in UFOs? Have they ever seen anything weird, like a UFO? Etc. It doesn't need to be a LONG conversation about UFO's... In fact it's best if it's short, snappy and then you go into another routine just like you would if you were talking to a group of friends you've known for years. The 'OH!' opener is perfect for opening conversations with women because it can be adapted so easily. You can alter how you say 'OH!' to match what you're going to say next. You can make it an 'I just remembered something...' OH or a long 'I just realized something' OH. You can even say, 'OH, sorry!' Then go right into something else. The power of the OH! opener is that it sounds and seems spontaneous. It's like you've just had this sudden thought you want to share with someone. It also gives the strong impression it's about to be followed by something new, interesting and engaging. Women love this...

How To Seduce A Woman Or A Girl Warning: The technique youre about to learn rouses obsessive feelings in women. Please use this sparingly and responsibly. The Danish philosopher Sren Kierkegaard lived a short and tormented life. However, in his scant life he managed to found Existentialism. (Thats the school of thought that drove thousands of French kids to dress in black, smoke Turkish cigarettes, and drink coffee while contemplating the angst of living a meaningless existence into the wee hours of the morning.)

He also unearthed a cornucopia of seduction secrets and revealed them in his largely autobiographical book The Seducers Diary. Because this is a short letter, well only explore one. One thats devastatingly powerful. In the book, Johannes sets out to seduce Cordelia Wahl. He begins by observing her: shes always alone reading literature or philosophy. He extrapolates that she rarely if ever connects with people on the subjects that interest her. Johannes does something cunning: He piques her interest by talking about literature. Her eyes go wide, ears perk up, and body brims with a warm fuzzy feeling. Then ten clock ticks later, he brings his poetical musings to a halt and discusses agronomics with Cordelias aunt. This hurls the young girl into coma of boredom. She has no interest in or knowledge of agriculture. When shes on the precipice of wanting to rip out his heart, he stirs her with a poem. Those warm fuzzy feelings return but triple in intensity. With the caprice of an ADD child, he turns the conversation back to farm life and instructs the aunt on the number of quarts of milk needed to produce a pound of butter. She suspects hes mocking her aunt, so she flashes him a smile. Unfazed, he returns it with a solemn stare and charges ahead with his lecture on milk churning. The more infuriated she becomes, the more he entwines her into his web. Lets break down what Johannes did There are two parts: One, he created a powerful vibe between the two of them. Two, he used this vibe to seduce Cordelia. Lets start with the first part. What is Vibing? Vibing is when two peoples vibes are in sync. When vibing with a man, a womans focus of attention turns to the here and now, her protective guard thaws away, her body brims with a warm fuzzy feeling, and she thinks, I like this guy. Hes cool. The two ingredients to vibing with others are emotional relevance and getting understanding the place the other person is coming from. Johannes sparked the vibe with Cordelia by establishing a commonality with her but not any ordinary commonality. If youve spent time in the single scene trenches, you know that o ne of the best ways to vibe with a woman is to discover something you have in common with her. Alas, most men end up, unknowingly, killing the vibe by pelting the woman with a series of weak commonalities. A weak commonality attempts to demonstrate understanding of a woman by matching usually disingenuously her beliefs and values with a short approving response. Maybe, for example, a woman says, I love the movie Eat Prey Love, and hapless Joe responds with, Yeah I love that movie too.

Saying, I love that movie too, does nothing to demonstrate that he actually enjoyed, knows about, or has seen the movie. If poor Joe keeps using weak commonalities, shell see him as a chamuyo a man who lies through his pearly whites to get into a womans pants. Theres no harm is using a few weak commonalties. But bombarding a woman with them will hasten the conversation to a crippling end. In contrast, Johannes used a strong commonality. A strong commonality shows a woman how an experience that holds emotional importance to her overlaps with one of yours. When you relate to something emotionally relevant to a woman, it ups your Prizability (value) in her eyes. Lets imagine that Joe responded with, My friend said Eat, Pray, Love starts off in New York. I grew up there and have always been a huge Yankees fan. I went to my first game when I was twelve. Ill never forget it. I caught a ball. In fact, I still have it. Joe failed to overlap his experience with what was emotionally relevant about the book to her. Instead, he hijacked her conversation topic to talk about something emotionally relevant to himself. Joe could have established a strong commonality by saying, Good movie. It reminded me of when I was living in India. My first few weeks in the ashram were hell: my mind kept racing and thinking about all my problems back home. But it began to quiet and I gained so much clarity and perspective on life. Joe could have disagreed with her and still established a strong commonality by saying, I thought Elisa beth Eaves totally glamorized Bali in the book. It sucks. Trash strews the streets and the enlightened ones are snake oil salesmen out to swindle your moolah. Both these answers create a powerful vibe because they are emotionally relevant to the woman and demonstrate an understanding of her world. Another important part: The strength of the commonality correlates to the number of people the woman perceives as sharing it. If she thinks only a few people share it, youre well on your way. If she thinks n o one except the two of you share the experience, it will spark a profound vibe. Lets look at an example. If you meet a female gym rat at a bar, you could say, The National Institute Of Healths recommended Body Mass Index is way off for athletes. This establishes a strong commonality that probably no one in the bar shares. How did Johannes exploit the powerful vibe he created to seduce Cordelia? Heres where the alchemy begins. He used a devastatingly powerful form of Push -Pull. Push-Pull is the constant back-forth movement between sparking unresolved emotional tension and then releasing it. Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of where Im going with this, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. Imagine restra ining yourself from eating it for a month. Im willing to bet it would taste a thousand times yummier than before. This emotional rollercoaster builds sexual arousal in women and compels them to chase you.

Johannes used a form of Push-Pull called Revealing & Concealing. The Revealing part emotionally Pulls the girl into you and the Concealing part emotionally Pushes her away. When Johannes sprinkled dribs and drabs of literature into his conversations with Cordelia, he revealed his knowledge of a subject dear to her heart. (As you know, this sparked a powerful vibe by establishing a strong commonality.) When he rashly changed the subject to farm life, he concealed his knowledge of literature and severed the connection he had with Cordelia. This whetted her desire to connect with him more. Ideally, the concealing part should ooze irony and hint at sarcasm. When Johannes expounded on the ins-and-outs of agronomics with the zest of an ardent farmer, Cordelia suspected sarcasm. (Why would a young man take so much interest in farming?) But she wasnt sure because through his entire lecture, he kept a straight face. Remember: The key is to keep your sarcasm ambiguous. Lets look at some examples... Lets pretend you lived in Budapest for a few years and met a Hungarian girl at a bar in New York. She was yapping on and on about Hungarian culture and how she wanted to moved back. You could say, Oh my God. I lived in Budapest, and talk about your experiences in Hungary. This would establish a strong commonality. But if you wanted to put the seduction on overdrive youd use some Revealing & Concealing by maybe saying, Az plet Budapest gynyr. (The buildings in Budapest are gorgeous.) Inevitably, shell respond with, Oh my God. Im so impressed. Did you live there? Do you have family from there? Good. Youve established a strong commonality. Now Push her away and sever the Budapest connection with, No, I learned that from watching the cartoon network. Shell suspect youre putting her on. But shell try to get the vibe back by saying, No way. You mustve lived there. Keep your face sober as a judge and respond with, Nope. Ive never been out of the U.S. Then Pull her back in and reveal a bit more by maybe saying, Hinyzik a j zene s olcs italok Dobez. (I miss the good music and cheap drinks at Dobez.) Now she knows youve spent time in Hungry because youve revealed that youve been to a popular nightclub in Budapest. This will double or triple her craving to connect and vibe with you about Hungry. The revearse concealing and then revealing will reap a similar effect. Imagine a girl asks you if youve ever read Nabokovs Lolita. You could look at her quizickly and maybe say, Whats that? Shell patter, Its a story about a pedifile who falls in love with a little girl. Then Pull her in and reveal your knowledge of the book by saying, Poor Humbert Humbert. He couldnt control his carnal urges for Dolores Haze. (These are the main charac ters from the book.)

She may say, Youre an ass... Ive been describing the book and youve already read it. However, this will increase her craving to connect with you over the book. In this letter, youve learned a powerful vibing technique and one form of Push-Pull. There are literally dozens of ways to vibe with a woman and forms of Push-Pull. If youd like to learn a plethora of other ways to vibe with women and forms of Push -Pull, check out my book Real World Seduction 2.0. But thats just part of what youll inside my book. Youll get an A-Z black belt education on succeeding with women taking you from the approach to the bedroom and beyond. And none of the techniques youll learn require good looks, money, or natural charm. This is the Opener that Got Me Laid More Than Any Other Opener When I was learning to approach women, I would try anything. I'd try things people suggested to me. I'd make stuff up, anything was fair game. In the beginning, I was just hoping for something that would get me in the door so I could talk for a few minutes without getting rejected. After a while, I learned that if you are aiming that low, you're not going to actually get laid. All you're going to do is have a bunch of 5 minute conversations. I got sick of that pretty fast. I wanted an opener that would do more than just open. I wanted something that would get the women attracted to me. I wanted to set the tone for the entire interaction, so that they would know that I am going to be dominant socially, mentally, and most importantly, sexually. So I set out on my search for the perfect opener, and what I learned was something that is highly counterintuitive. I learned that the openers that had the most powerful effect were also the ones that would get me rejected sometimes. I'd either get strong attraction, or strong rejection. Once I discovered this "all or nothing" principal, the number women I was dating skyrocketed. The women could tell right off of the opener that I was not too concerned with whether they liked me or not, and this indifferent attitude was driving them wild! But how do you communicate all of that in one little 30 second opener? Well you're about to find out. This is the same opener that has gotten hundreds of my students laid, and I'm about to teach it to you.