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Ezra Szvoboda
11/18/15
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Better prepared to create a safe climate for crucial conversations
Research shows that 70% of 2,455 sentinel events showed that the root cause of these
occurrences were communication failures (Polito, 2013, p.140). Effective communication has
always played a crucial role in our society to be able to succeed in the personal, spiritual,
professional life. After self-reflecting and counseling with family and friends, I realized that I
need to be prepared to create a safe climate for crucial conversations. Often in crucial
conversations, I have had a hard time creating the right atmosphere for a dialogue to occur. After
researching external sources, class discussion, and self-reflection, I realized that through roleplaying, and self-reflection I can personally better prepare myself to create a safe environment
for crucial conversations. The research has also given me valuable insights on how I can best
implement these in communication.
Self-reflection can be life changing and is a great tool that can help me to be prepared and
to create a better climate for crucial conversations. Pilito (2013) came to the conclusion that your
natural reaction in a conflict is stress, which makes you feel under attack (p.147). She suggested
to "go to the balcony" to regain your mental balance; i.e., imagine yourself standing on a balcony
looking down on your conversation. When you encounter a "no," you feel under attack and
instinctively want to fight back or give in. Both reactions cause you to lose. Do not react.
Suspend your reaction to engage in joint problem-solving. Regain your mental balance and stay
focused on what you want to achieve (Polito, 2013, p.147). Often when it comes to crucial
conversations, I have a hard time creating the right atmosphere for a dialogue to occur. I usually
get nervous and start focusing on what could go wrong. My heart rate starts to shoot up, meaning
References
Kraemer H. J. (2011). From values to action. San Francisco, California.
Polito, J. M. (2013). Effective communication during difficult conversations.
Neurodiagnostic Journal (ASET - The Neurodiagnostic Society), 53(2), 142152.