Title: An Article On Perfectionism Word Count: 346 Summary: This article is about my opinion on Perfectionism.

Keywords: perfection, perfectionist, spirituality, society Article Body: What is Perfectionism? Perfectionism is defined as a meticulous drive to attain excellence. A perfectionist is one who has this characteristic. 'Perfectionism' is a most prevalent belief in our civilization. Notice that I us ed the word 'belief'. Everywhere in this world of ours, perfectionism is regarded as good and desirabl e while imperfection is deem as bad or negative. Everybody wants everybody else to be perfect. Bosses want their employees to be flawless on the job. Parents wa nt their kids to be the best. Perfectionists want their work and themselves to b e perfect. Since it is so strongly regarded as being positive, is Perfectionism really an a bsolute or universal value? In my opinion, it is not so. To me, it is relative and is born of human conception. Perfection is an idea. It is an idea of a perceived ideal state of affair. However, things are the way th ey are. For every circumstances, the truth is what is at each instance. Perfecti on and imperfection are therefore merely attached values. I am not suggesting that perfectionism is not good. I am suggesting that perhaps perfectionism can cast a controlling net over our expression of happiness. One can reach the required goal with or without being a perfectionist. To be a perfe ctionist, on the other hand, leave very little room for one to accept and love o neself unconditionally when a desired goal is not met. And when our desires are not met, we feel unhappy or cannot be fully satisfied. However, the truth is we only have each moment of the Present Moment to live in. By being perfectionist, our mind will be forever planning and thinking about the future or lamenting abo ut what went wrong in the past. Because of these tendencies, many perfectionists are unable to feel satisfaction because in their perception they never seem to do things good enough to warrant that feeling of contentment. From this, we can see a paradox of life. That is: "How can one have <b>perfect</b> peace, self-love and joy when one is a perfecti onist? " Thank you for reading.