Learn How You Can Overcome Your Anxiety In Four Simple, Effective And Incredibly Easy Steps
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Chronic anxiety is essentially a build up of emotion that gets ‘stuck’ in our neurology. It might help to think of emotions being like water running through a hose. It just flows through until its gone. But when we get a kink in the hose, the pressure builds up and the flow reduces. Likewise, with anxiety, the flow of our usual emotion is reduced and all we can feel is the tension building up. Even though our conscious mind realises that emotions just flow through us, our unconscious mind does not really understand this. Without conscious reassurance, it essentially views those vulnerable emotions as being a kind of permanent or life threatening force that it needs to protect itself from by blocking them. That very blockage however is the very cause of chronic anxiety. Therefor, anxiety can simply be defined as our unconscious fear of experiencing vulnerable emotions.
Our modern day societal expectations have conditioned us to believe that we have to see ourselves to be a certain way, that certain way probably has little room for the expression of these feelings. Our cave man ancestors would have been too busy trying to survive to worry about striving for the comforts our modern day life has conditioned us to expect. So whilst our world has changed, our physiological functions have not adapted so fast. Anxiety is the evolutionary hangover our species is now waking up with.
What our unconscious defences are therefor trying to protect us from now is not our physical death, but what psychologists refer to as ‘death of the ego’. To put it simply, humiliation, shame, guilt, regret or just plain old loosing control of ourselves or the situation we are in. This is especially acute in front of people who we want to view us in a certain way.
We can say then that anxiety is our fear of not being able to cope. To get rid of the anxiety therefor, we need to let go of certain beliefs to remove the blockage and get the emotions flowing through again.
If you are currently overwhelmed by anxiety, chronic or acute and you would like to learn how to overcome anxiety in four simple steps, this book is for you. You will explore the different types of anxiety and learn more about how these anxieties are formed so that you can become better equipped to overcome the anxiety that you are dealing with.
Shane Cuthbert
Shane Cuthbert (1990) was born in the Hawkesbury region of Sydney, Australia. Shane grew up in western Sydney. Shane was only 15 years old, when he was kicked out of home and high school. As a teenager Shane struggled with feelings of worthlessness, not being good enough, depression , anxiety and addiction. Shane eventually overcame all this and began touring as a professional drummer. Shane's once simple status was elevated, due to the success and notoriety he received as a touring artist.As the years passed and opportunity and chances of success subsided, Shane had hit what he refers to as "cognitive rock bottom". Feeling that all his prior success was but behind him and he would again fail to achieve or amount to anything, he had his first real opportunity to reinvent himself and change his life. Shane started a small landscaping business that grew into a large trade & services company. This company established multiple businesses and franchising opportunities soon followed.In 2014, Shane started and developed his own State Of Glory brand of clothing, and entertainment website also of the same name. In 2015 Shane Cuthbert married Australian swimsuit model and public figure Berenger Rose. Despite much controversy and allegations by Rose of Cuthbert's alleged domestic violence, the pair are still supportive of one another and are actively promoting and growing their businesses together.In 2017 Shane graduated Justice and contract law at Harvard University, enrolled in the study of Psychology at the University of Queensland, developed his first online coaching course, began offering mentorship services and wrote the first book, in his self help series. In 2018 Shane's first book "SEX TRANSMUTATION" became available and was released worldwide through Amazon.
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Learn How You Can Overcome Your Anxiety In Four Simple, Effective And Incredibly Easy Steps - Shane Cuthbert
LEARN HOW YOU CAN OVERCOME YOUR ANXIETY IN FOUR SIMPLE, EFFECTIVE AND INCREDIBLY EASY STEPS
Written By Shane Cuthbert
Copyright 2020
THE FIRST STEP TO BEATING STRESS
Many people experience ongoing chronic anxiety that can make life very difficult to cope with. As ill explain in more detail below, one of the things that contributes to stress is our inclination to be harsh on ourselves when we are not coping too well with the challenges life throws at us. Unfortunately, many people bottle it up, try to hide it and all too often fear seeking help. For that reason, its incredibly important that you give yourself a pat on the back for taking the time to seek out a solution to help you cope better with your stress.
I remember what it was like for me back when I was in your position. I decided that the damage my stress was causing my life was too much to ignore anymore, and realised that I needed to reach out for help. It can be a bit of a scary process at first, so its incredibly important that you recognise the value in what you are doing here right now and congratulate yourself for having the courage to look for a therapist to help you take control of your life. If the idea of seeking help makes you feel a little vulnerable at first, that’s a good thing, as your ability to give yourself permission to feel that way and push through the initial discomfort will be well worth the time and effort.
I think that one of the biggest contributing factors to chronic stress is not having a good understanding of why we get stressed in the first place. Understanding why our mind ‘does anxiety’ to us is not in itself the solution mind you. But gaining a deeper understanding about how it works and why it makes us so stressed, is going to help make things a lot clearer and send you in a much better direction.
For that reason, I’ve put together the following explanation for you about where anxiety comes from, why we ‘do’ anxiety, and how we can break up the patterns that keep us trapped in the vicious cycle that anxiety often creates. If you find the information in this book useful to shed some light on this hugely important topic, then just remember to share it with others who you think could also benefit from gaining a better understanding about anxiety.
OUR NUEROLOGY CAN BE RETRAINED
ACUTE ANXIETY VS CHRONIC ANXIETY
Anxiety can happen acutely. It can manifest itself as frustration, irritability, nervousness or even complete panic. For example, when you get up in front of an audience to