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    How to Stop Shouting at the Child?: Discover Your Easy Step by Step Way to Simplicity Parenting (Self-Help Tips to Growing Happy Kids): Child Development, Child Support, Defiant Child, Connected Parenting, Mental Health
    How to Stop Shouting at the Child?: Discover Your Easy Step by Step Way to Simplicity Parenting (Self-Help Tips to Growing Happy Kids): Child Development, Child Support, Defiant Child, Connected Parenting, Mental Health
    How to Stop Shouting at the Child?: Discover Your Easy Step by Step Way to Simplicity Parenting (Self-Help Tips to Growing Happy Kids): Child Development, Child Support, Defiant Child, Connected Parenting, Mental Health
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    How to Stop Shouting at the Child?: Discover Your Easy Step by Step Way to Simplicity Parenting (Self-Help Tips to Growing Happy Kids): Child Development, Child Support, Defiant Child, Connected Parenting, Mental Health

    By Mary Queen

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    Often people see the upbringing as the imposition of their tastes, requirements, tasks, plans, and dreams, like, ‘I bring him up the way he must grow, I know what he should be aware, what he should do.’ If someone sees the upbringing in this way, my attitude to this is negative, and I would choose another word: help in child’s development, formation, nurturing.


    Carl Rogers said that ‘an adult on a child could be compared to a gardener helping a plant. The gardener’s job is to supply water, provide the facility with the sunlight, fertilize the soil. That is, to create conditions for development but not to pull the top.’ If you pull the top in a direction that you chose, you won’t grow anything.


    Dialogue is a bit narrowed concept, I’d better say, mutual understanding, the mood for understanding the child. Yes, it is important when the child knows his parent, but the parent can find out more about his child. And what does it mean to understand the child? First and foremost, it ways to know his needs and to take them into account. The person’s needs vary not only with age but individually, depending on the trajectory along which the child moves. Therefore, it is important to hear the child in a dialogue, to understand why he doesn’t listen to you, what are the reasons for his refusals and rudeness. If your discussion includes ‘to hear,' I accept it.


    I reject any rough interpretations of the word ‘upbringing’ like if a child doesn’t listen, force him; if he talks rudely, corrects him; if he is offended, tell him, ‘there is nothing to be offended here, you are to blame for what has happened.”


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    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherPublishdrive
    Release dateAug 10, 2017
    ISBN9781533749406
    How to Stop Shouting at the Child?: Discover Your Easy Step by Step Way to Simplicity Parenting (Self-Help Tips to Growing Happy Kids): Child Development, Child Support, Defiant Child, Connected Parenting, Mental Health

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      How to Stop Shouting at the Child? - Mary Queen

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      "Children learn from what surrounds them.

      If a child is often criticized, it learns how to condemn others.

      If a child is often praised, it teaches how to evaluate others.

      If a child is shown hostility, it will learn to fight.

      If you are honest with a child, it will learn the meaning of fairness.

      If a child feels safe, it learns to trust people."

      Maria Montessori

      Introduction

      A NEWBORN BABY IS LIKE a small grain. It has everything laid within. But the question is whether this seed will sprout? Will it grow into a beautiful, blooming and fruiting plant? Will its skills develop to a full extent? It depends on the parents. This book deals with the most critical and ‘painful’ issues of upbringing. Parents will learn how to raise a happy, bright, and creative person. It will help the parents to become attractive for their children and will support their authority in the child’s eyes.

      The children are the most important investments of our power, soul, time, and money!

      This book is not for children, although it is written about them. This book is for adults, but not for all adults. For adults who became (or want to be) PARENTS that are the closest people ever. Individuals who are DEAREST to their child, who love and understand him or try to understand. Or, at least, would like to follow. If you don’t have such a wish, don’t read this book. It will just be useless for you, like other books, seminars, lectures, and additional smart information.

      As a rule, children study the language of adults and learn it very quickly. Children are compelled to adapt to adults, as a weak person is forced to adjust to the laws of a strong one. And, on the other hand, we, the adults, forget the language of childhood, because it is our past already, and we don’t think of such categories. And the word of youth is different, like childhood itself. And, to understand a child, we have to return to the forgotten faraway land. To go back to a place we all came from – to our childhood.

      Chapter 1

      Is It Necessary to

      Bring Up the Children?

      Often people see the upbringing as the imposition of their tastes, requirements, tasks, plans, and dreams, like, 'I bring him up the way he must grow, I know what he should be aware, what he should do. ' If someone sees upbringing in this way, my attitude to this is negative, and I would choose another word: help

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