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    100 Red Flags in Relationships
    100 Red Flags in Relationships
    100 Red Flags in Relationships
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    100 Red Flags in Relationships

    By Victoria Summit

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    Do you have the knack for attracting the wrong guy?

    Have you ever felt like you've been sucked into a tornado and then spit out into the rubble at the end of a relationship?

    Do you have trouble trusting your gut instinct?

    Do you wish you had a secret weapon for spotting cheaters?

    100 Red Flags is a collection of behaviour that could indicate there's a need to take a closer look at what is really going on in the relationship.

    Don't be too quick to forgive someone's "slip-ups."

    Learn how to be strong with recognizing that a lot of the flags listed in this manual seem simple.

    A few here and there may be nothing to worry about, stuff happens in life.

    A few adding up and more adding on as time goes on may mean a good hard look at what is really going on.

    Be true to yourself. Grow a backbone. Don't let any man or woman use you for sex, money, business, real estate, children, or anyting else any more.

    Realize that there are some people you can't change, you can't fix, you can't save, you can't help.

    They will put on a good show at first and it's very hard to see through their facade. But if you give it time, and pay attention, you will know soon enough whether your perfect soul mate really has YOUR best interests in mind?

    Think about what you want in life and how you're going to get it.

    Consider that being in love is addictive and should feel good.

    When a romance starts to get rocky, check for red flags. If you suspect deception, get out. Your partner will never change. If he or she can, it will take years of therapy and rebuilding YOUR trust.

    Once trust is gone from a relationship, it can be difficult to rebuild.

    Some people don't want to rebuild.

    Recognize that this isn't the relationship you need to have the proactive life you deserve and move on to the next one.

    Life is short to engage in unhealthy relationships.

    We all have lessons to learn and people to meet.

    Have fun but be careful out there!

    Red Flags are collected from years of listening to relationship histories from clients and friends.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherScarlett Publishing
    Release dateAug 10, 2012
    ISBN9781476317458
    100 Red Flags in Relationships
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    Victoria Summit

    Victoria Summit is a life coach.

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      100 Red Flags in Relationships - Victoria Summit

      Introduction

      The Gaslight Survivor Series helps the average person recognize aspects of his or her life where he or she may have been gaslighted. Breaking free of a Gaslighter grows more difficult the longer you hope for a change. The only change that will happen is change for the worse until you get out.

      Spot the red flags in every day mundane life events that may signal that things may not be what they seem in your relationship even if everything appears perfect for the most part. Is everything REALLY perfect?

      This series covers the types of abusers who use gaslighting techniques, how to recognize gaslighting and other abusive tactics, how to escape from an abusive partner, and most importantly how to recover from abuse and move forward into a proactive, productive life with the least amount of post-traumatic stress syndrome possible.

      Gaslighted is really just another word for being lied to.

      Head games.

      Manipulations.

      It's a fancy word for being cheated on in many ways, not just sexually.

      It's a technique that an abusive person uses to keep the other people around him or her under his or her control.

      Gaslighting can be very subtle, so subtle that you don't even realize that you've been lied to for days, months, or even years. Gaslighting can also be obvious. But the person gaslighting you knows your weak spots, knows how to perfectly manipulate you, knows that you'll dance whatever dance he or she will put you through because you believe in love, acceptance, trust, truth and forgiveness.

      You may not realize that many people have no conscience.

      Many people don't care about you.

      Many people are just selfish and will manipulate you, YES YOU, for their own selfish gain.

      The gaslighter will look you in the eye and proclaim love for you, often accompanied by a flow of tears.

      But they lie. They don't love. They can't love. They know nothing about what love really is.

      The gaslighter gets off on the head trips.

      They get off more on how much money, property, freebies, sex, booze, possessions, vip status at clubs and parties, they can acquire for free.

      People who gaslight you may simply be cheaters. They may simply be selfish. Or they may be conmen or conwomen trying to acquire YOUR house, your car, your bank account, your children, your business and anything else.

      In this world, where it's

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