Praying Through Life's Problems: Inspiring Messages of Hope
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In this book, Stormie Omartian shows women how to pray through life's most difficult times.Features Joni Eareckson Tada, Catherine Hart Weber, Linda Mintle, and others.
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Stormie Omartian is an award-winning bestselling author and speaker whose award winning POWER OF PRAYING series have sold more than 34 million books worldwide, which includes such books as, THE POWER OF PRAYING WIFE, THE POWER OF A PRAYING HUSBAND, THE POWER OF A PRAYING WOMAN, THE POWER OF A PRAYING PARENT, THE POWER OF PRAYING FOR YOUR ADULT CHILDREN, and JUST ENOUGH LIGHT FOR THE STEP I'M ON. Recently she has written LEAD ME, HOLY SPIRIT – Longing to Hear the Voice of God; PRAYER WARRIOR – Praying Your Way to Victory;and CHOOSE LOVE – 3 Simple Choices that Will Alter the Course of Your Life. Stormie's newest book – OUT OF DARKNESS – is her personal journey out of the devastating darkness of the first twenty-eight years of her life when she found True Light and liberation. Then it goes on through her next thirty-five years as a believer, learning how to walk with the One True Light and rise above the traps and threats of the dark side. THE POWER OF A PRAYING WIFE broke a 21-year industry record by claiming the number one spot on the Christian Booksellers bestsellers list for 27 consecutive months. Her books have sold 34 million copies. Stormie and Michael have been married for over 42 years and have two married children and two granddaughters.
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Praying Through Life's Problems - Stormie Omartian
PRAYING
through Life’s
PROBLEMS
featuring
STORMIE OMARTIAN,
JONI EARECKSON TADA , LESLIE VERNICK,
CATHERINE HART WEBER,
JOSEPH AND MARY ANN MAYO,
LINDA S. MINTLE AND DIANE LANGBERG
Praying_Through_R1_0001_001Praying through Life’s Problems
Copyright © 2003 by American Association of Christian Counselors. All rights reserved.
Published by Integrity Publishers, a division of Integrity Media, Inc., 5250 Virginia Way, Suite 110, Brentwood, TN 37027 in association with American Association of Christian Counselors.
HELPING PEOPLE WORLDWIDE EXPERIENCE the MANIFEST PRESENCE of GOD.
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Published in association with Yates and Yates, LLP, Literary Agents, Orange, California.
Unless otherwise indicated, Scripture quotations are taken from the Holy Bible, New International Version (NIV). Copyright © 1973, 1978, 1984 International Bible Society. Used by permission of Zondervan Bible Publishers.
Other Scripture quotations are from the following sources:
The American Standard Version (ASV).
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Praying through life’s problems / by Stormie Omartian . . . [et al.].
p. cm.
The American Association of Christian Counselors and The Center for Biblical Counseling.
ISBN 1-59145-057-8 (hardcover)
ISBN 1-59145-203-1 (international paperback)
1. Christian women—Religious life. 2. Prayer—Christianity.
I. Omartian, Stormie. II. American Association of Christian
Counselors. III. Center for Biblical Counseling (U.S.)
BV4527.P68 2003
248.8'6—dc21
2003004721
Printed in the United States of America
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Contents
Introduction
Praying through Life’s Problems
Stormie Omartian
Living beyond Your Circumstances
Joni Eareckson Tada
Handling Conflict
Leslie Vernick
Overcoming Depression
Catherine Hart Weber
Dealing with Life’s Changes
Dr. Joseph and Mary Ann Mayo
Body Image and Eating Disorders
Linda S. Mintle, Ph.D.
Healing from Sexual Abuse
Diane Langberg
Acknowledgments
Praying_Through_R1_0004_001The publishers wish to thank Tim Clinton and
Doris Rikkers for their creative and editorial
contributions to this project.
Introduction
Praying_Through_R1_0005_001Do not be anxious about anything,
but in everything, by prayer and petition,
with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.
And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding,
will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
—PHILIPPIANS 4:6–7
Life is full of difficulties, whether we suffer them ourselves or empathize in the suffering and difficulties of others. God has created us as caring and loving women who hurt deeply and feel deeply. God never intended life to be easy. If it were, we would not yearn for a better place—at His side in heaven, where we truly belong and where He wants us to be. But God has made us many promises: He will stand beside us no matter what we face, He will give us the strength to face each new day, and above all, He will listen to and answer our prayers, our cries for help.
In our most wrenching moments, in our times of pain and anger, depression and guilt, fear and hopelessness, we can crawl into the arms of Jesus and talk to Him. He has promised us that if we ask, we will receive. So when life is at its worst and you don’t know how to endure one more moment, turn to Jesus—He is your source of comfort and hope.
Praying through Life’s Problems
Praying_Through_R1_0007_001STORMIE OMARTIAN
Hear my prayer, O LORD;
listen to my cry for mercy.
In the day of my trouble I will call to you,
for you will answer me.
—PSALM 86:6–7
Is there anyone in the world who never goes through difficult times? If so, I would like to meet that person. I just want to find out what that’s like. I have known and walked with the Lord for over thirty-two years and I still go through difficult times, just like everyone else. But the longer I walk with God, the less discouraged and frightened I get by the troubling things that happen. I don’t become hopeless like I used to. That’s because I know God is in control of my life, and my hope is in Him. I pray to Him many times a day to make sure He and I stay in close touch, and I remind Him that I can’t live without Him so He needs to be in charge of my life.
No matter how dark,
disturbing, painful, and
upsetting our circumstances
may seem, there is
a place of peace God has
for each of us.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying that I am never taken by surprise when difficult situations occur. My initial reaction is not always perfect peace. Too often I get pulled headfirst into the mire of grief, pain, and despair over the things that happen to me and around me. Just when I think I have heard and seen it all, I find myself shocked at the new degrees of the unthinkable that the devil thinks up to destroy us. I can get horrified or afraid or even temporarily succumb to thinking that my life is over. But I soon come to my senses and realize that no matter how dark, disturbing, painful, and upsetting our circumstances may seem, there is a place of peace God has for each of us as a shelter from the storm. And we can depend on Him to take us there when we look to Him for refuge.
One of the best illustrations of this is whenever we take off in an airplane on a gray, dreary, rainy day. It’s amazing how we can fly right up through the dark, wet clouds—so thick that we can’t see one thing out the window—and then suddenly we rise above it all and have the ability to see for miles. Up there the sky is sunny, clear, and blue. I keep forgetting that no matter how bad the weather gets, it’s possible to rise above the dark and gloom of the storm to a place where everything is fine.
Our spiritual and emotional lives are similar to that. When the dark clouds of trial, struggle, grief, or suffering roll in and settle on us so thick that we can barely see ahead of us, it’s easy to forget that there is a place of calm, light, clarity, and peace we can rise to. If we take God’s hand in those difficult times, He will lift us up above our circumstances to the place of comfort, warmth, and safety He has for us. Too often, though, we forget to take God’s hand. We forget to walk with Him. We lose the understanding that our hope and comfort can only be found in Him.
One of my favorite names for the Holy Spirit is the Comforter (John 14:26 ASV). That name alone brings healing to our hearts. God loved us enough not to leave us here on earth to fend for ourselves, so He gave us the gift of His Holy Spirit. Just as we don’t have to beg the sun for light, we don’t have to beg the Holy Spirit for comfort. He is comfort. We simply have to separate ourselves from anything that separates us from Him and move into His presence. We have to pray that when we go through difficult times, He will give us an even greater sense of His presence as we endure.
Tough times happen to everyone. This last year and a half has been one of the most difficult periods in my life. While so many good things were happening to me in terms of God’s blessings on my writing, I still had to fight for my life in the area of my physical health. About two years ago I started having attacks of severe abdominal pain and nausea. Every time one happened, it was unbearable and my husband would have to take me to the emergency hospital in the middle of the night. (Why is it always in the middle of the night?) We would end up being there until sometime the following day as doctors and technicians conducted every possible test to find the cause of my problem. But each test came back indicating that I was as healthy as I could possibly be. They could not find anything wrong with me, and no one could understand why I was suffering so much. This went on for six months as I was in and out of different hospitals, seeing different doctors and specialists.
Then in the middle of the most awful night I have ever experienced in my life, I felt something explode in my body so violently that I knew I would die if I didn’t get help. My husband rushed me to the hospital at 3:30 in the morning because we knew I didn’t have time to wait for an ambulance. But then I laid in the emergency room for hours begging someone to help me and telling people I was going to die if somebody didn’t do something soon. I was given all the same tests they had given me many times before, and still no one could find anything wrong.
My husband prayed for me continually, and when my sister, Susan, and close friend, Roz, arrived, they prayed for me, too. They called other people to pray that someone would figure out what was wrong with me and do something. All I could pray was, Help me, Jesus.
At one point I said to God, Is this my time to die?
But I did not sense God saying that it was. In fact, I felt Him say that He still had things for me to do on earth. I felt encouraged by that, but the excruciating pain never let up and the medical staff could not give me anything for it until they knew exactly what was wrong. I kept praying for God to lift me to that place above the storm.
Finally, after eight hours of waiting in the emergency room, the specialist called in a surgeon who was brave enough to say, I can’t tell what is wrong with you by any of the tests, but I believe your appendix has ruptured. I’m going to take you into surgery immediately, and if I’m wrong I’ll find out what the problem is.
I thanked him profusely and told him to do whatever was necessary to stop the pain. I didn’t care what he had to cut out as long as I didn’t have to suffer this excruciating pain anymore. As