Psychologies

This is not stuff, it’s who I am

“You’d have to prise some possessions from my cold, lifeless hands before I’d let them go”

Yes, I like to keep things. Not just anything – I’m not a hoarder type who lines up empty yoghurt pots by the dozen, or buys a pair of shoes every week to feel validated, but I do think that decluttering is overrated. Simplifying your surroundings so you no longer have anywhere comfortable to sit does not make you a better person. For me, it just gives me

You’re reading a preview, subscribe to read more.

More from Psychologies

Psychologies2 min read
Welcome…
I grew up with the family mantra ‘Don’t waste the day’. But while I appreciate the value of seizing life’s opportunities, this philosophy often left little room for prioritising rest, pleasure, and play. I suspect I’m not alone in admitting that when
Psychologies3 min read
Let’s Get Together
As someone who has brought thousands of people together to sing over the past decade, I am convinced of the powerful effects of communal singing. For me, it’s a simple equation. We know that singing, in itself, is good for us, with a multitude of ass
Psychologies3 min read
Anna Williamson Unconditional love
‘Love, whose month is ever May,’ said Shakespeare. Forget February and all it’s Valentine’s romance: if we are to tune into the famous playwright, now is the perfect time to celebrate love and romance. And he wasn’t alone in his thinking: Chaucer and

Related Books & Audiobooks